I'm pregnant again! Or so I'm pretty sure...took a test this morning and the line was pretty faint, but still there. I'll test again in a few days to make sure I wasn't just seeing things and call my OB in a few weeks. I'll be at a new OB practice because my last one closed down a month ago. It wasn't the greatest practice, but there was one OB there that I just loved and I'm sad I won't be seeing him anymore.
Pretty sure my family is gonna freak and not in a good way (especially my mom- she wasn't exactly thrilled the first time around). My brother & SIL just recently had a miscarriage and I am so afraid to tell them that I am pregnant again. Even though this baby was planned, I think I'll probably just end up waiting to tell anyone until I'm well into my 2nd trimester and tell people it was an oops.
Welcome to the club!! Congrats! Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months!
Edit to add: I was scared shitless to tell my dad. No idea why. I'm a grown, married woman. But it all turned out ok. Only our immediate family and some close friends know right now. We go for our 12 week check up and 1st tri screening on Tuesday. If all looks good, we'll tell the world. Good luck telling your family! Hope everything goes well!
Congrats! No reason to tell people its an oops - this is your baby and you planned it. I would think about telling SIL privately and in a way that she can process her feelings on her own without you or anyone else around.
You guys are right....It's nobody's business but our own. Thanks for the support! I will definitely tell SIL in private before we announce it to others. I didn't think of that, but this is all so fresh that I haven't even really had time to process it myself.
Welcome to the club!! Congrats! Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months!
Edit to add: I was scared shitless to tell my dad. No idea why. I'm a grown, married woman. But it all turned out ok. Only our immediate family and some close friends know right now. We go for our 12 week check up and 1st tri screening on Tuesday. If all looks good, we'll tell the world. Good luck telling your family! Hope everything goes well!
Ahhhh! I had no idea you were pregnant, too! I must have missed that post? Or totally forgotten about it?!? Congrats and I'm so glad telling your family wasn't as bad as you thought it would be. Makes me feel better about coming out with our news
Congratulations!! Man I wanna be pregnant again....uhhhh what did I just say?!?
Missing Our July Sparkler BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13 BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
BFP #3 9/24/12, Missed m/c at 9w1d (baby measured 8w5d)
BFP #2 9/23/10, healthy baby girl born med-free June 2011
BFP #1 5/21/10, Missed m/c at 10w4d (baby measured 8wks), D&C 6/29/10 "Life is like a camera, just focus on what's important and capture the good times, develop from the negatives and if things don't work out, just take another shot."
Married October 2009. Me 29 H 28. After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013. Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
Congrats! I agree is PPs, it is no one's business but your own. I also say that from personal experience, being a grown adult and scared to tell my own parents about being pregnant with LO because I didn't want to be judged by how bad our finances were. Also because the drs have always said we would need help to get pregnant and I was worried they'd think we had planned this to the point of getting help when we could barely make ends meet. Of course they were ecstatic and I realized regardless of their reaction l, I was married almost 7 years, an adult with a child already, and living in another state. Also, my BFF had just gone for her first u/s of her pregnancy and des covered an empty sack two weeks before. I was terrified to tell her. As soon as I told my parents I went to see her and tell her. She totally jumped up and down, screamed, and cried out of happiness.
Re: well, it's happened
Congrats!!!! Happy & healthy 9 months to you!
Married June 2010.
DD born 1/13 via Csection at 41w5d after 47 hours of labor
Welcome to the club!! Congrats! Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months!
Edit to add: I was scared shitless to tell my dad. No idea why. I'm a grown, married woman. But it all turned out ok. Only our immediate family and some close friends know right now. We go for our 12 week check up and 1st tri screening on Tuesday. If all looks good, we'll tell the world. Good luck telling your family! Hope everything goes well!
PCOS diagnosed secondary infertility
BFP #1 (letrozole 2.5mg + ovidrel) February 2016, MMC April 2016 @ 7 weeks
BFP #2 (letrozole 5mg + ovidrel) July 2016, Beta #1 359, Beta #2 745, Beta #3 11484
EDD April 9th, 2017
Congrats!
(ETA: Even if it was an oops, you don't really need to tell anyone one way or the other. It's not anyone's business.)
BFP 11.8.12 * EDD 7.17.13 * MC 12.20.12
Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
BFP #5 11/15/14, Team Green EDD 7/22/15
BFP #4 4/30/13, baby girl born med-free Jan. 2014
BFP #3 9/24/12, Missed m/c at 9w1d (baby measured 8w5d)
BFP #2 9/23/10, healthy baby girl born med-free June 2011
BFP #1 5/21/10, Missed m/c at 10w4d (baby measured 8wks), D&C 6/29/10
"Life is like a camera, just focus on what's important and capture the good times, develop from the negatives and if things don't work out, just take another shot."
Married October 2009. Me 29 H 28.
After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013.
Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
Good luck!