August 2014 Moms

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Welcome to the August ‘14 PgAL Check-In! 
This is a weekly check-in for women who are due in the month of August (or thereabouts) and have suffered a previous pregnancy loss.  Being pregnant after a loss can produce a mix of emotions.  This check-in is intended to provide support while we make our way through each trimester. 
If your EDD has changed, please let me know.  I try to pay attention to the board and get the latest update, but apologies if I missed out and I'm posting outdated info.
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EDD (if this is your first time on the check in): 
How many weeks are you:
How are you feeling (physically/emotionally):
Upcoming appointments or milestones:
What's been going down this past week:
GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy?
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@arusso07 - 8/15/2014 - How does it feel being done with school?!
@babypants11 - 8/7/2014 - How is your DD feeling?
@bamanichole - 8/14/2014 - What's been happening?
@bkroxfan003 - 8/21/2014 - Congrats on your anniversary!  Hope you had a great time celebrating this weekend.  How was your GD test last week?
@caybeh - 8/3/2014 - How did your GD test go?
@ColeyJ88 - 8/25/2014 - How does it feel being done with school?!
@Elbug - 8/2/2014 - Hope you have a good MW appt tomorrow!
@esmith10 - 8/16/2014 - How did the meeting with the new OB practice go?
@ginny5683 - 8/8/2014 - Did you get the results from your ultrasound?
@KaleMonster - 8/4/2014 - What's been happening?
@kountingsheep - 8/24/2014 - How's everything going?
@Lena76 - 8/22/2014 - Good luck at your appt this week!
@luvbrettnizzy - 8/24/2014 - What's been happening?
@mdarmetko - 8/7/2014 - Hey! That's me!
@MeganEMcG5 - 8/6/2014 - How was travelling to Montana?  When are you putting a stop to work travel?
@megknyc - 8/10/2014 - Wow, 8 more weeks!  That's so close!
@mmsweeney1 - 8/23/2014 - Good luck at your 3 hour glucose this week!
@MorganElise511 - 8/12/2014 - How did the glucose test go last week?
@MrsDeo - 8/21/2014 - What's been happening?
@muffin87 - 8/9/2014 - I hope the travelling for work is going okay and the swelling isn't too bad.  Have you tried compression socks yet?
@mv9310 - 8/22/2014 - How was Berlin?  I LOVE  that city.
@NSAbby - 8/15/2014 - How's everything going?
@Pink021 - 8/6/2014 - Have you been able to test out and use your rocker/glider yet?
@Ptarma - 8/23/2014 - Did you get any results on your GD test?
@Russiandea12 - 8/10/2014 - How did your appt go last week?
@salsy2012 - 8/4/2014 - What's been happening?
@tahitiansun - 8/18/2014 - Have fun at your appt this week!
@XpectingTwinnies - 8/11/2014 - How did your appt go Friday?

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BFP 5/08/13 -- EDD 1/15/14 -- slow hb@7wks d&c 6/07/13
BFP 8/12/13 -- EDD 4/20/14 -- no fetal pole @7wksnatural m/c 9/16/13, cytotec 10/17 & 10/22
BFP 11/26/13 -- EDD 8/07/14 -- Born 7/24/14!

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  • How many weeks are you: 29w4d... I can't believe I'll be in the 30s in a few days
    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): This week was much better than last week energy wise.  I've come to terms with not being able to run anymore and substituting it with walking has been great.  Our community pool opened this weekend so I plan to start going a lot for exercising.
    Upcoming appointments or milestones: Appt. next Monday now that I'm on the 2 week schedule.  My baby shower is this weekend in NY.  It'll be bitter sweet because I'll get to see everyone, but it'll probably be the last time in a long time that I get to see all of my friends.
    What's been going down this past week:
    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? We've been taking weekly bump pictures and I'm trying to write a weekly journal entry.  I've started to use Shutterfly's template to turn it into a book.  I wished my mom had done something similar for my brother and I.  I think I would have really enjoyed having it while I was pregnant.
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    BFP 5/08/13 -- EDD 1/15/14 -- slow hb@7wks d&c 6/07/13
    BFP 8/12/13 -- EDD 4/20/14 -- no fetal pole @7wksnatural m/c 9/16/13, cytotec 10/17 & 10/22
    BFP 11/26/13 -- EDD 8/07/14 -- Born 7/24/14!
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  • How many weeks are you: 27 weeks
    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Pretty good, although I wouldn't mind not having the occasional heartburn & calf cramps! The other night I was woken out of a dead sleep with a terrible calf cramp. All I could do was jump out of bed and then fall on the floor because it hurt so bad. I yelled for my husband, who has never ran so fast, to find me lying on the floor-- he was so mad when he found out it was just my leg. He thought I was in labor or something. It hurt really freakin bad though!!
    Upcoming appointments or milestones: Midwife appointment next week.
    What's been going down this past week: Enjoying lots of time outside with my 21 month old :)
    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? Last pregnancy I took weekly belly pictures, which I then put into my son's baby book. This time around I have only taken a single picture :( I have been trading massages for photography packages though with my very talented photographer friend (she took the profile picture I have here). She suggested we do maternity pictures, which I am really looking forward to!
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  • How many weeks are you: 29 w today!

    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): I'm hanging in there.. I haven't had the pregnancy O dreamed of all my life (happy, relaxed, taking pictures every week and such), but I'm doing my best with what has happened.. I do not imagine looking back to my pregnancy and thinking of it dearly and I feel sorry and guilty for that.. But I'm grateful I'm here and babies are growing strong and the pregnancy will be over soon enough and I'll finally be a mom..

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: No appointments this week.. We go back to Dr next week..

    What's been going down this past week: As you said (thanks for remembering @mdarmetko‌) we had an appointment on Friday, I'm past my patience with my OB, he seemed to be in a very bad mood, he hates that I went to an endocrinologist "behind his back" and seems to believe I just want to be medicated (thyroid and diabetes issues were discovered when I went to figure out what was going on with my hair), he missed the diabetes (I didn't pass and he said it was normal with twins, endocrinologist said it needs to be under control as well as thyroid).. He did a very quick ultrasound and then rolled his eyes when I mentioned the percentiles were low, he said there's nothing wrong why are you trying to have something wrong, well Dr I'm not trying to have anything wrong, I just want to be sure everything's ok and have some peace of mind.. He didn't want to discuss my c section (which is mandatory due to my previous fibrome removal surgery) saying it is too soon and let's see how I keep up.. He said I worry too much (of course I do, I told him on day one and I've been a nerve wreck this whole time).. Maybe I'm overreacting but it would be nice if instead of telling me not to stress he would ask me how he can help me feel better, and then I'll answer information makes me feel better, planning makes me feel better, and being on top of things makes me feel better.. Oh dear..

    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? I've taken some belly pics.. My mom calls them decapitated pics lol I don't want to memorialize my hair at all.. I write notes here and there.. And I have the ultrasound pics.. It's not what I would have done 6 years ago (would have gone over the top scrapbooking and album making) but it is what it is.. The only thing I want to memorialize this pg is two happy healthy babies..
  • caybehcaybeh member
    How many weeks/fruit? 30 weeks 1 day/ cucumber

    How are you feeling? My upper back has really started to bother me when sitting for long periods of time. I have a harder time standing up when sitting as I can just feel the weight of the bump. Other than that, pretty good.

    Upcoming appointments: 5/6

    What's been going down this week? Passed my GD test! Yay! We had a b-day party for our niece and then spent the rest of Memorial Day weekend with my parents.

    GTKY: I take belly shots once a month, but may start to take them more often.
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    BFP with #2- Sept 6, 2013  EDD May 20, 2014   MC Sept 26, 2013 @ 6 wks 2 days

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  • Lena76Lena76 member
    Weeks- 27

    Feeling- pretty good on both fronts. I bought new bras and that has helped with the backaches!

    Upcoming appts- GD test, ultrasound and 28 week check up.

    Past week- lots of baby projects- washed all 0-6 month baby clothes, sibling prep class with DS.

    GRKY- I've been really bad. I've ibly taken 2 pics and wrote in baby journal once.
  • How many weeks are you: 28w6d

    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Just ok. I'm still struggling with sleeping, and I'm not certain it's correlated, but the 2 times I took Unisom last week, I felt significantly less baby movement the following day. I am getting more and more excited as we get closer (holy hell, it's almost June!), but I'm also freaking out a bit.

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: 6/4 routine with OB -- and then we start appts every 2 weeks!!

    What's been going down this past week: I had to go to Montana last week for work. I was really dreading it, but it ended up being totally fine and a nice change of pace from the office. I took Friday off, so I had an extra long weekend. We did some fun stuff with DS and got a lot of yardwork done since the weather cooperated for the most part. Unfortunately, I didn't even touch the nursery, which I definitely had on my "to-do" list. I'm totally sad today being back to work...

    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy: I honestly hadn't thought about it, so probably not. I'll be interested to see what others mention, but I have zero plans for a belly cast or anything like that. I don't even know what the hell I would do with one of those...

  • Thank you, @mdarmetko! DD is feeling better now :)

    How many weeks are you: 29w5d

    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): definitely slowing down and feeling large now. Moving around is not as easy anymore, and I'm wondering how much longer I'll be able to keep up my gym membership. It seems like there is always a reason why I can't go, whether it's because I have an appt or am not feeling well or dd is sick.

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: next appointment is on Tuesday.

    What's been going down this past week: dd turned three yesterday, so we had a party here. It was a lot of fun!

    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? Nope :(
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  • @mdarmetko - Thanks for asking. Due to snow days school will not be out until June 6th.

    How many weeks are you: 28 weeks

    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Physically, I am a lot slower. I can feel myself moving slower and breathing heavier. Emotionally, good just trying to keep focused on the finish line.

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: Went for our 3D ultrasound today. We will have to go back in two weeks because baby had both hands and both feet over his face. No matter what we did he was comfy and wouldn't budge.

    What's been going down this past week: My MIL called at 6:30 last Tues and said she was going to have a lumpectomy that same day. The results have come back and she is having another surgery today as a precautionary measure. So any thoughts and prayers for her would be appreciated.

    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? We put one picture from each ultrasound in an envelope and will put it in a frame with his birth picture when he arrives.
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  • How many weeks are you: 29w 6d

    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Emotionally some ups and downs, but that's probably bc of everything going on! Physically, EXHAUSTED. We moved this past week and weekend, and oof I'm tired. 

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: 3 Hour Glucose test, bah humbug. I didn't pass the 1 hour by ONE measly point. But I still have to do the 3 hr test, this friday. Harrumph. (As cavalier as I can be about it now, I was a hot sobbing mess to H over the phone when I failed...he was so amazing cheering me up)

    What's been going down this past week: Was MIA from here last week with all the craziness. But we closed on the house and are now all moved in! There's SO much space compared to our apartment, it's both overwhelming and exciting :) 

    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? Keeping a baby book and taking weekly pictures in the same spot at our favorite park. 
    BFP 8.3.13 | EDD 4.10.14 | MMC 8.29.13 @ 7w6d || BFP 11.25.13 | EDD 8.6.14
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  • Sorry for the late responses ladies!  Holiday, travelling, blah blah blah

    @arusso07 - Aw your baby is camera shy :)
    @babypants11 - Can you cancel or freeze your gym membership?  If they have a pool I recommend taking advantage of it.  It's much easier to exercise these days when weightless. 
    @bkroxfan003 - That sounds like a long day of walking!  After the zoo I would have requested a nap :D
    @caybeh - Congrats on passing! Upper back hurting may be a sign that you're allowing yourself to slouch more (bigger knockers these days?).  Doing some upper back strength training could help out, if you're intrested.
    @ColeyJ88 - I imagine it's harder to do things like belly pictures when you have a little one running around already.  Maternity pictures sound wonderful!
    @Elbug - I'm feeling large and in charge too.  I just spent an hour trying to find something to wear to my baby shower that didn't make me want to cry :D
    @ginny5683 - I'm sorry to hear about your FIL.  My condolences to you and your family.  I guess the ultrasounds results are not the best news, but as you said since it's so minimal, it's not the worst either.
    @KaleMonster - Cute necklace!  Does elevation help reduce the feet swelling?
    @kountingsheep - Sorry you were dealing with so much stress.  I didn't realize it could exacerbate heartburn.  I'll have to keep a lookout for that.
    @Lena76 - Ah yes, I could see how the bras could help.  I got a new one a few weeks ago.  I was amazed I went up 3 CUP SIZES!
    @MamaTugboat - Ugh, not passing by 1 point?!  I'm sure you'll pass the 3 hour, but oh what a PITA!  I know what you mean about moving into space.  We moved from a tiny NY apt to a a house in CO.  It's great, but now my husband thinks this warrants him being a hoarder.
    @MeganEMcG5 - Yeah, those belly casts can be… intimidating… to look at after the fact haha.
    @mmsweeney1 - Are you going to do anything with your bump pics you've been taking?
    @MorganElise511 - Glad you're feeling better from your cold, passed your GD test, and ruled out pre-E.  Hopefully it's not too big of a deal.
    @MrsDeo - Try this weekend for the pool.  It's awesome!
    @Pink021 - Don't worry, you'll be rocking soon enough.
    @Ptarma - Wow, that outbreak is scary.  Is your son vaccinated?  Is it required in school?
    @Third&goal - Welcome back!
    @XpectingTwinnies - Ugh your OB sounds like such a DICK! (pardon my French).  It's as if he acts like he is doing you a favor by monitoring your pregnancy and you are trying to be a PITA.  Any plans to change OB's at this point?

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    BFP 5/08/13 -- EDD 1/15/14 -- slow hb@7wks d&c 6/07/13
    BFP 8/12/13 -- EDD 4/20/14 -- no fetal pole @7wksnatural m/c 9/16/13, cytotec 10/17 & 10/22
    BFP 11/26/13 -- EDD 8/07/14 -- Born 7/24/14!
  • @mdarmetko I'm not a doctor so I can't say for sure, but I noticed that my heartburn was so bad at the height of my stress that I couldn't sleep due to heartburn and was throwing up in my mouth all the time, and then the next day when the stressful situation calmed down, I felt so much better physically. The heartburn hasn't been as bad since, so I just assumed the stress kicked it up a notch.

    Hopefully the heartburn is better. Apple juice especially before bed helps mine.
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    EDD 8/18 


  • @mdarmetko, thank you for the check-in! Sorry I am so late-I was thrown off by the long weekend!

    How many weeks are you: 28 weeks

    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally):
    I am feeling pretty good on all accounts-no real complaints! I will say, I am starting to get tired more easily. I just found out I am anemic from my blood work. To be honest, I expected I would be because my loss was in September and I lost a lot of blood before my emergency D/C and just never fully recouped that before getting pregnant again.  Hopefully the iron supplements will help!

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: 
    Appt. 5/29

    What's been going down this past week:
    I have been really enjoying the gorgeous weather!!! I feel like after the brutal winter everyone had we are all SO due for nice weather!

    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy?
    I have taken some photos (I need to really get on it now that its 3rd tri!) but that's really about it. 

    Have a great week ladies!

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  • NSAbbyNSAbby member
    How many weeks are you: a lot. Soooo many weeks!


    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): i am either exhausted or hopping, there is no middle ground. Im excited to be getting close to d-day!

    Upcoming appointments or milestones: loss anniversary in a month.

    What's been going down this past week: a hot mess, schedule wise, and we lost our internet indefinitely :(


    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? We are doing photos, and making sure to fill out EVERYTHING in the baby book!

     

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  • mdarmetko: It went well.  Down to every 2 weeks now.  Pee in a cup, weight, bp & doppler then out the door.  Everything looked good.

    How many weeks are you: 29 weeks, Acorn Squash
    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Feet & ankles are starting to swell and hurt especially now that its 80-90 outside.  Emotionally, excited to be in the 3rd trimester and counting down the weeks till its baby time!
    Upcoming appointments or milestones: Next Apt 30 weeks.
    What's been going down this past week: Spent 8hrs at the zoo with 2 other couples & their kids on Saturday, fun but EXHAUSTING! Spent Sun & Mom with my parents for Memorial Day.  Looking forward to leaving for vacation on Saturday.
    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? Taking pictures of myself.  When I was pregnant with my son the only pics I have of me are at my shower.
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  • How many weeks are you: 29w1d
    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Physically: Its been much harder to get around these days. It takes a while for me to straighten my back after standing, I waddle like crazy and turning over in bed (which I do a lot during the night) is like a 5 step process that becomes more difficult every day. I also had such bad heartburn the other night that it woke me up at 2:30 and I couldn't get back to sleep for a while. My sweet DH got up and looked up some remedies for me when tums weren't working. Emotionally: Every day is different. Most days are fine and she kicks like crazy, so I don't worry. But I wasn't feeling the baby as much yesterday, so I did kick counts 3 times: around noon, around 4:00 and right before bed. I always get the 10 kicks, usually in about 20 minutes, but I'm not noticing her as much throughout the day which has been freaking me out.
    Upcoming appointments or milestones: Ultrasound to check placenta and regular doctor appt next Wednesday. I'm on the 2 week schedule now, too!
    What's been going down this past week: We had our anniversary on Monday, which was lovely. We mostly just bummed around the house, went for a walk on the beach and went out to a nice dinner on Sunday night. It was a nice long weekend!
    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? I've been taking weekly baby bump photos using TB app. Not sure what I'll do with them, but hopefully it'll turn into something cute. I know it's crazy, but I'm still too nervous to keep a pregnancy journal. Maybe I will start one soon... I'm also planning on scheduling some professional maternity photos.
    TTC Since July 2013
    BFP #1 8/8/13, EDD 4/16/14
    MMC discovered on 9/18/13 @ 10w, baby measuring 9w. D&C on 9/26/13



    BFP #2 12/7/13
    , EDD 8/12/13. It's a girl!
    Caroline Marie born 8/20/14. 8lbs 11oz, 21 inches and perfect!

  • megknycmegknyc member
    How many weeks are you: 29W! 
    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Tired and heavy! I am measuring over 40 weeks now - but I want these babies to bake so I'll suffer as long as I can!!
    Upcoming appointments or milestones: I have my usual MFM apt on Friday, have off from OB this week.
    What's been going down this past week: Been a rough week. Went to MFM on Friday and my cervix is hanging by a thread, as I have been having labor contractins. Spent memorial day wknd in the hospital getting steroid shots and contraction meds. FFN was negative thankfully - but I am pretty scared they are coming early. I know its likely - so I am trying to mentally prepare. I just want them to stay put until 36 weeks if possible!  It will be a week by week prayer. 
    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? No. I should! 
    It's a boy and a girl!

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  • @esmith10 - I am right there with you on the kick counts. I hate when even a half hour goes by and I don't feel her. It messes with my mind!

    @mdarmetko - I have no plans for my bump pictures...... some of them turned out kind of goofy looking but at least I will remember how big the belly was! Maybe I'll make some kind of collage out of the decent ones.

    first son stillborn 7/20/13 at 39 weeks due to Acute Fatty Liver of Pregnancy
    It's a girl! Baby Anna was born August 3, 2014!

     
  • How many weeks are you: 27 and some days!! Rutabaga?!
    How are you feeling (physically/emotionally): Feeling good, anxious for this baby, but good.
    Upcoming appointments or milestones: 28 weeks GD test and then no appt until June 15th ish.
    What's been going down this past week: Had a crazy busy action packed weekend! Still trying to recover. Too much driving and sitting is no good for the tailbone!
    GTKY: Are you doing anything special to memorialize this pregnancy? Nothing special. This will be my last, so just trying to enjoy it and not rush it!
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  • MamaTugboatMamaTugboat member
    edited May 2014
    mdarmetko yeah total PITA. Took my test this morning, let's hope i pass! haha i love your H's reaction. Part of me wants to keep things this sparse just bc it feels weird to have too much stuff. Mindset of somebody who also used to live in NYC :) 
    BFP 8.3.13 | EDD 4.10.14 | MMC 8.29.13 @ 7w6d || BFP 11.25.13 | EDD 8.6.14
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