Hi all!
I am only 9 weeks pregnant, but my boyfriend is moving in with me soon and I am going to need to decide before he moves in which bedroom to set the nursery up in (because the other room will be an office/guest bed).
I have two spare bedrooms. Bedroom A is small and has two big windows with a lot of light. There would only be room for a crib, and a narrow single dresser/changing table, and then a small sized chair in the corner and probably not enough room for an ottoman unless its a really small ottoman.
Bedroom B is bigger and I would have room for a larger double dresser/changing table, the crib, a bigger sized chair and an ottoman. The closet is bigger and there is a lot more wall space for art as well. Unfortunately this room has just one very small window and it is depressing and dark! I am sure we could brighten it up with lamps and with bright white baby furniture, but it is not as cheerful as the smaller room with the bigger window. Also, this room shares a wall with the master bedroom and the garage is below it and it is VERY loud when it opens.
So, given these considerations, which room would you put baby in?
Thanks so much in advance for any advice/input you can provide!
Re: Which room to set up the nursery in?
oh, and if they're equal, would probably put baby in the smaller darker room because you'll want (s)he to sleep and is easier to add light than to eliminate it. Sleep in our experience, is easier when it is darker.
The bigger room is actually the darker room, so that would work better in terms of space. It does make sense that it would be easier to sleep in since its dark, but I guess I was worried baby would get depressed without much sunlight. I suppose the baby won't be in there much though except to sleep. I am definitely leaning more towards the bigger darker room.
In general (especially on older homes), the South facing & West facing sides of the house tend to be the warmest and the North facing side is cooldest due to being in shadow most of the day from the Sun's path. East facing gets morning light, West facing afternoon (which can make that hottest side) & South facing gets light throughout the day which can be nice in Winter but might get hot in Summer. Another influence for that is how many exterior walls each room has. If one only has one a small exterior wall, or no garage under it, would be less drafty potentially. Could use the smaller room as play room (keep the mess contained), but the rooms will probably be repurposed over time and nothing is set in stone. Many of the moms on here had LO in their room the first three weeks to three months. So that is another possibility, which works nice when you're getting up every 2 hours for feedings in the beginning. Especially nice if nursing. You're so early on & you have time to think about it.
One more consideration, the garage will make noise when opening & closing. If it is loud in the room, someone is likely to open/close garage during sleeping times, might not want to have a child sleep above it past 3 or 6 months when they start noticing noises around them more.
Baby Boy due October 2017
On weekends, I think it would vary depending on what my boyfriend is doing, if he is out running errands, etc.
thank you for the suggestion!