June 2014 Moms

*Thurs 5/22 Twin Mom Check In*

Hi girls! Hope all mamas and babies are doing well!

Congrats to our new mamas!
@curlylocks3  - Welcomed baby boy and baby girl
@jaybee11 - Welcomed two baby girls!
@xnbride - Team Pink - Still praying for baby Evangeline!
@StacyH0507 - Welcomed two baby boys!
@CAMag - Welcomed two baby boys!

Our massive twin mom list:
@kmw722 - Team Blue - Due June 1st
@Burgie84 - Team Purple - Due June 15th but babies will be here by June 3rd
@anatations - Team Purple - Due June 5th but babies will be here by May 22nd
@MrsP419 - Team Pink - Due June 25th but babies will be here by June 3rd - 11th
@Chrissy1013 - Team Blue - Due June 18th but babies will be here by June 4th
@AJC&Maggie - Team Green - Babies will be here by June 5th
@SandraPB1220 - Team Pink - Due June 19th but babies will be here by June 5th
@CJNKR2014 - Team Blue - Due June 21st
@sarah_beth2005 - Team Purple - Due June 25th
@LegalLadyBug - Team Pink
@katekat8721 - Team Pink - Due June 26th but babies will be here by June 12th
@Quinncat - Team Purple- Due July 6th but babies will be here by June 24th (RCS)


Let me know if I'm missing anyone else or you want your info updated!

Pregnant moms:
1) How far along are you and how far along are you measuring?
2) Upcoming appts?
3) Any updates to share?
4) Go ahead and let it out - how are you REALLY feeling?
5) Any questions for other twin moms?

New moms:
How is everything going? Any updates on you or babies?

QOTD: What's the most annoying "twin comment" you've heard from strangers so far?

Re: *Thurs 5/22 Twin Mom Check In*

  • 1) How far along are you and how far along are you measuring? 35w+5d, measuring 47weeks
    2) Upcoming appts? Just had one today. Next one is next Thursday, a normal OB and ultrasound.
    3) Any updates to share? The boys are still breech(A) and transverse (B). Their heartbeats are a little lower than usual though (I noticed, Dr didn't mention it.) They didn't gain very much this week. He checked my cervix, no dilation or effacing. My PUPPPs is getting worse though. x(
    4) Go ahead and let it out - how are you REALLY feeling? PUPPPs needs to go straight to hell. And whoever decided that pregnant moms need to hurt EVERYWHERE needs to be throatpunched. My tailbone hurts, my entire back is killing me. I feel like I pulled a muscle in my vagina bc every time I walk or move my legs it hurts. And the weather in AL needs to cool the hell down. 88degrees is not ok when I don't have AC and have to suffer through it.
    5) Any questions for other twin moms? Not today. Feeling too stabby to think of a question.

    QOTD: What's the most annoying "twin comment" you've heard from strangers so far?
    Heard this when I was sitting in the waiting room this morning:
    "How many are you having? Cuz there is no way that's just one baby."
    Yeah, I'm having twins, but I don't need you reminding me that I look like a frigging hippo.

    That and the "I am so sorry" that I constantly get when people find out I am having twin boys. That really irks me. They're not some effing curse.
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  • 1) How far along are you and how far along are you measuring?  I'm 35 weeks and measuring 40... the babies have dropped.

    2) Upcoming appts? 
    Tomorrow I have a growth scan and NST. I'm hoping to see nice chunky monkeys in here!

    3) Any updates to share?  As of Tuesday I was 2cm and 60%, which could mean something or nothing haha. We checked for pre-e since I'm a huge swollen high blood pressurey mess. Luckily my blood work came back good on that, so yay. I am pretty bummed though because after hearing that there should be no problems with me making it all 38 weeks I'm now being told to expect to go into labor this week or next week. Ah! So new goal is 36 weeks. We're more than ready, I am just nervous they're going to be very little. But then I look at our preemies on the board and they're doing amazing, so that makes me happy!

    4) Go ahead and let it out - how are you REALLY feeling? Like crap. I can't tell RLP from BHs or BHs from contractions, but it's all painful lol! My feet are so swollen it hurts to walk on them and all the weight I've put on is killing my knees. Getting up/down and rolling over hurts the pelvis and the past few days baby A's pressure on my vag is really annoying. I pretty much just chill on the recliner and bump and watch crappy TV shows at this point :)

    5) Any questions for other twin moms? 
    If your baby A were head down and baby B were breech, would you attempt a vaginal delivery?

    QOTD: What's the most annoying "twin comment" you've heard from strangers so far? So many. The one that irritates me the most is also the "Twins? I'm sorry" comment. I also get a lot of "Twins, instant family!" comments or people asking if we're going to try for a boy next. Because you know, we have a say over such things 8-| I'm also admittedly sensitive when people say I look small to be carrying twins. I'm tall and Amazonian size, so the babies have a lot of room to roam. But it makes me worried that the girls' aren't big and strong. Silly!

  • @katekat8721‌ i feel ya. I can't even sit in our chairs anymore so I lay in bed and occasionally get up to stretch and such. I just watch whatever show I'm addicted to at the time (right now I'm catching up on Pretty Little Liars lol) and grt on TB every once in a while. Though the last couple days it has been sooooo hotttttt at my house that I went with DH to work cuz they have a lounge area for customers and I just relax and help him make sales lol...

    If baby A flips (which I feel like he never will!!!!) I will def try for a vaginal delivery.

    Has anyone else had an issue (if their baby A is breech) with baby A kicking their bladder to the point of extreme pain? I am SO TIRED of Connor kicking me. I'll be in the middle of a BH and Connor will kick my bladder and make me freak thinking I'm going into labor. Idk lol I feel like I have way too much complaining going on, when I should be thankful that I'm at almost 36w with absolutely no signs of impending labor, but I'M SO WORN OUT.
  • 1) How far along are you and how far along are you measuring?  I'm 36 weeks and 1 day.  Not sure how far along I'm measuring, but "whale size" seems like a good description!

    2) Upcoming appts? 
    NST and Dr appointment tomorrow.

    3) Any updates to share?  Today is my last day of work!!!!! :)  I've been working from home for the last few weeks, but it will be awesome to completely disconnect.

    4) Go ahead and let it out - how are you REALLY feeling? Still crappy.  Sleep seems like a memory from long ago and I'm generally just very uncomfortable.

    5) Any questions for other twin moms? 
    Not that I can think of right now........

    QOTD: What's the most annoying "twin comment" you've heard from strangers so far? From someone I had JUST met 10 seconds earlier....the annoying "are they natural?" question.  Ugh, F off!  We did IVF but why is that the business of some random stranger?  Like my hubby says, when people are bold enough to ask how we ended up with twins, he replies by saying we did it twice in one night.  Hahahaha!
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  • @CJnKR2014 lol, I'm watching all my addicting CW shows! The Originals, Vampire Diaries, Hart of Dixie and Supernatural haha.

    It's totally ok to complain and be worn out. This is your safe zone :) I have issues with the girls positions and their kicks. Baby A is head down and she's not too bad, but my breech baby B kicks my cervix ALL the time. I'll be mid-sentence and get a strong vag kick and ouch. Her head is also nestled right under my ribs. I think breech babies are just uncomfortable in general!

    @chrissy1013 omg I love your husband's answer! I may have to steal that haha!

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    5) Any questions for other twin moms? 
    If your baby A were head down and baby B were breech, would you attempt a vaginal delivery?

    My practice does not allow attempting a breech delivery of B (and even if they did, my B is bigger, so I think that complicates things further).  She also likes to flip from vertex to transverse.  I am electing a C-section.
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  • @MrsP419 A few moms in my twin moms group said their doctors don't attempt it either! My doc's all for it, but I'm in a group clinic setting so who knows if she'll be the one actually delivering that day. I'm really leaning towards c-section!

    @quinncat I hate hearing that too "Oh you're not big, I was your size when I was 7 months pregnant!" Uh huh, ok lady!

  • Little update: I just found out I didn't dodge the pre-eclampsia bullet. GRR! Started feeling funny today so was seen by the triage nurse. My BP is rising and now I'm showing protein in the urine, so they're re-running my blood work to check liver/kidney enzymes. BOO!

    I may have to Dr. Google the crap out of this now, because if I have high BP in labor a vaginal delivery may not be the best way to go anyways!

  • @katekat8721- honestly, it's a crap shoot no matter what. Had my baby B been head down it would have been a faster, smoother delivery. Both of mine were head down and B still had a cord prolapse. I would totally attempt a vaginal delivery if for no other reason than a shorter recovery time.
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  • As for us, Hugsy came home Monday night and Mumble finally got it together on her feedings in the last 36 hours- as long as she gains weight tonight she will come home tomorrow night! Most annoying thing I have heard is from my MIL- who implied that I should be happy I delivered early and therefore did not get bigger. I nearly lost it.
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  • @curlylocks3 I wanna punch your MIL! Ugh! I'm so happy Mumble may be coming home soon, what good news!

    Thanks for the insight on vaginal vs c section! Did you end up getting spared the double whammy? I hope it's ok I ask, I know you had a rough delivery!

  • 1) How far along are you and how far along are you measuring? 36.4 weeks and as of last Friday's OB appt I was measuring 46.
    2) Upcoming appts? OB on Friday 5/23
    3) Any updates to share? Had my last ultrasound today. Baby "A" - my boy Jack is measuring at 6lbs 8oz and Baby "B" - my girl, Lennon is measuring at 6lbs 5oz! They are both breeched and I feel so bad because they look like they literally have no room! :(
    I've been on BP meds since the beginning of the pregnancy and although my numbers have been good they are starting to creep up lately. Had a 24 hr ursine test and should have results from my OB tomorrow. I'm super swollen and my limbs start to get tingly when I'm standing too long.
    4) Go ahead and let it out - how are you REALLY feeling? Horrible! I really hate complaining but everything is a challenge. I attempt to clean the house but have to sit down every 10 minutes or so. Also, the rolling over in bed can bring tears to my eyes. Ugh :(
  • @curlylocks3 I wanna punch your MIL! Ugh! I'm so happy Mumble may be coming home soon, what good news!

    Thanks for the insight on vaginal vs c section! Did you end up getting spared the double whammy? I hope it's ok I ask, I know you had a rough delivery!

    It's fine :) no csection for me- I pushed him out faster than they could have cut me open. They used a vacuum though.
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  • CJnKR2014CJnKR2014 member
    edited May 2014
    @Burgie84‌ i so feel your pain. Moving at all is just so painful at this point... :(

    Eta I hope your results come back good!!!
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    Pregnant moms:
    1) How far along are you and how far along are you measuring? 35w2d.  I haven't been measured in a while, but the babies are so low that I don't think I am measuring super far ahead.  I lost a couple lbs by this appt (not intentional- sick a lot + reflux + no room).
    2) Upcoming appts? I have a NST and growth scan on Tues.  Looking forward to seeing how big these girls are!
    3) Any updates to share? I had a false alarm trip to L&D on Tues…that was fun.  I am about 2 cm dilated and they are really low, but I still very well could make my C-section date (13 days!)
    4) Go ahead and let it out - how are you REALLY feeling? So.much.pain.  My pelvis and pubic bones and hips and cervix just HURT whenever I am on my feet at all.  I am only remotely comfortable if laying down, and even then turning hurts so much.
    5) Any questions for other twin moms?  Is anyone else just really nervous?  People keep asking me if I am excited for the babies to come and I am having a hard time answering.  I am excited to not be pregnant anymore.  And I am excited to meet my girls.  But I am downright terrified about life with newborn twins.  The moments where I feel genuinely "excited" are rare because all I can think about is the logistics and how hard it will be.  And then I feel like a bad mom.

    QOTD: What's the most annoying "twin comment" you've heard from strangers so far? I have heard that there is no way I will make it until June (this was like 2 months ago) and the guy refused to understand that it is normal to be big when there are 2 in there.  Now, I constantly hear "you look too good for having twins," which I guess is a sweet compliment, but makes me feel like maybe if I start trying to look worse maybe these people will take pity on me and come clean my house and bring me food ;-).
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  • @MrsP419‌ i feel ya on the pain. You are not alone.

    And when it comes to the excitement/nervousness... I am right there with you. I am excited, yes. But I am terrified. Terrified for a csection, terrified for life with newborn twins, terrified of being a bad mom... again I say, you are not alone.
  • @Burgie84‌ @SandraPB1220‌ omg girls!! Congrats on your beautiful babies, how wonderful! Rest up and take good care of yourselves!

  • Our twin mom "pregnant and still waiting" list (lol) is definitely shrinking!

    So far it's @MrsP419‌ @chrissy1013‌ @AJC&Maggie‌ @quinncat‌ and myself! From PAIF and Multiples board updates it looks like the other ladies have had their babies!!

    No pressure rignt? :)

  • I'm on the pregnant and still waiting list lol :P and probably will be for a while, I'm still all tight up there, no contractions whatsoever! At 36 weeks nonetheless! My grandmother may be right that I carry these boys all the way!!

    @Burgie84‌ @SandraPB1220‌ Congratulations ladies!!! Your babies are BEAUTIFUL :)
  • @CJnKR2014 - how did I miss you!? I sawwy! That's what I get for posting in bed before coffee and a shower :P

    That is awesome that you aren't having contractions or anything! Mine just started at 34 weeks, and it took me awhile to figure out WTF was going on haha. I guess my uterus/round ligaments have been in pain for so long that when I've finally had contractions it's like 'eh no big deal!' I even thought they were BH until the nurse said no because 1) they were way too long and 2) they were causing dilation. Ah fun stuff. Avoid it as long as you can :)

  • @katekat8721‌ Its ok, I'm way slow in the mornings!

    Though i am assuming I'm not having contractions and that the stabbing pains i have low in my ute are just baby a kicking my bladder... i really cant tell lol
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    edited May 2014
    I can't wait to meet our boys! The list of twin mommas waiting for their LOs has definitely shrunk! Congrats to the MoMs and their babies! Monday, June 9 is eviction day for me. I'll be 38 weeks 5 days at that point. Doc examined me on Friday and I'm not showing any signs or labor or dilation at all. We wanted to induce at exactly 38 weeks, but my doc will be out of town then.
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    I just read this article on breastfeeding twins and found it really encouraging :-).  It added a perspective that is comforting to me as I fear the unknown ;-).

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  • MrsP419MrsP419 member
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    @CAMag, I totally don't blame you for being overwhelmed by that routine!  That is nuts!  It is like they try to fit your babies into a category and you need to follow a certain protocol, and it does not leave room for the fact that ALL babies are different.  For example, with my DD, who had latch issues, I was instructed to attempt to nurse her, then feed her a bottle, then pump 20 mins on each side to boost my supply because as a FTM, my milk would need help coming in.  Following those instructions, I had mastitis within a week, because I did not NEED to pump 20 mins on each side.  My milk came in pretty well!  In that instance, I did not follow the "norm," and trying to ended up doing more harm than good.  Likewise, many people were told that babies needed to nurse 15-20 mins on each side.  Once DD figured it out, she was super efficient- 10 mins TOPS!  If I tried to push her to 15-20, I would have stressed myself out!!  Obviously you need to have a ped keep tabs on weight (frequent weight checks is what told me that DD was having issues gaining), but to a point, I think you have room to figure out on your own what works for you and your baby(ies).  I really really hope that you are able to come up with a system that YOU are comfortable with, not one that necessarily follows "the standard."  Your babies are individuals!  
    Keep trucking, mama!  You are my hero!
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