I don't think my kids play nearly enough tablet or watch nearly enough TV. They're always outside playing. I want increase TV & tablet play a little bit
I don't think my kids play nearly enough tablet or watch nearly enough TV. They're always outside playing. I want increase TV & tablet play a little bit
I can't tell if you're serious or joking. Why do you think they need more screen time?
I got my spray tan (or spay tan, for those of you in the know). I told the lady I was breastfeeding and she asked how old LO is. I told her 3 months. He's four months. I didn't forget. I lied. She was in full view of my almost naked body and I thought my body's current state was more acceptable for 3 months post partum than 4.
I can't get the ticker to work, but I have two sons:
I think I'm going to take two months off TTC and try to get in much better shape (read: be healthier).
I saw the pictures from my cousin's wedding and straight up had an out-of-body moment... like WHO THE FUCK IS THAT HEIFFER?!?!!?
I seriously think I have reverse body dysmorphic disoder (maybe this is better labeled denial). I look at myself in the mirror and I'm like... "I'm curvy but I'm fine".
then I see pictures and I'm like...
wut
This is me exactly! I think I look hot as hell with my curvy ass and nice breasts, then I look at pics and I'm sad.
I don't think my kids play nearly enough tablet or watch nearly enough TV. They're always outside playing. I want increase TV & tablet play a little bit
I can't tell if you're serious or joking. Why do you think they need more screen time?
Kinda joking. But the really only watch TV at grandmas on the weekend. We're taking a 5 hr rode trip and DH is against them playing with a tablet for the trip. I think he's NUTS! (That's were these came from)
I wanted to share something on FB from buzz feed about comments only skinny people hear but I didn't want to make anyone feel bad/come off as a AW. That and I don't hear the comments that I used to hear as much.
I do really think that skinny/healthy (?) shaming is just as hurtful as fat shaming. To be told I look anorexic and need to eat whatever kind of food when I could scarf down a medium pizza by myself (at the time) was really hurtful. Back then I just had an extremely fast metabolism but now I work hard to healthy and to hear people (not here) belittle that because I'm "already skinny I don't need to work out" sucks.
Not sure if this is a FFFC or even uo but it was too long of a rant for FB.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
I got my spray tan (or spay tan, for those of you in the know). I told the lady I was breastfeeding and she asked how old LO is. I told her 3 months. He's four months. I didn't forget. I lied. She was in full view of my almost naked body and I thought my body's current state was more acceptable for 3 months post partum than 4.
I'm 9 months out and look like I had a baby a week ago. I would have lied as well, if I even had the guys to get naked in front of someone.
um, yeah. Mine is 18 months and I would do it too.
I think I'm going to take two months off TTC and try to get in much better shape (read: be healthier).
I saw the pictures from my cousin's wedding and straight up had an out-of-body moment... like WHO THE FUCK IS THAT HEIFFER?!?!!?
I seriously think I have reverse body dysmorphic disoder (maybe this is better labeled denial). I look at myself in the mirror and I'm like... "I'm curvy but I'm fine".
then I see pictures and I'm like...
wut
Totally get what you mean. Mirrors are 2-D assholes. Pictures show a whole different level that we don't normally see.
I was talking to another nurse at work and mentioned how I'm so excited that I'm almost halfway through this pregnancy already and how I've been lucky to feel so good.
She stared at me for a second and was like, "you're only halfway, you're so big already". I cried in the bathroom.
I've always struggled with my weight and really I've only gained 2 pounds so far because I was so nauseated in the beginning. Now I keep worrying about trying to get in shape after the baby is born.
I would love to be so skinny that I would be called anorexic for a day. It's a sick wish of mine
I apologize if this comes off snatchy but no you don't. It's like wishing someone would tell you you look like you have cancer/depression/insert disease/disorder of choice.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
My FFFC is that I'm a bit disappointed in myself, bc I can see that I'm slowly slipping back into the "im KU, so I have carte blanche to eat junk and generally whatever the fuck I want" mentally, like I had with DS. It doesn't help that I've got some mild food aversion going on, but c'mon now. I need to get it together and stop eating all the shit.
I've basically been living on DS' s chicken nuggets, Dunkin Donuts' turkey sausage, egg, & cheese, and McDonald's sausage mcmuffin with egg sandwiches. Not cool, body...not cool. Pull yourself together and eat something nutritious. Even if it tastes bad...bc I am not doing the whole 45lb weight gain again. 25lbs, fine. 45....no.
@mbenit4 we have a social group for our bmb that got taken away. Not a ton active, but new posts daily. I bet a lot of them are along those lines. (Maybe not I'm only in that 1 group)
I got my spray tan (or spay tan, for those of you in the know). I told the lady I was breastfeeding and she asked how old LO is. I told her 3 months. He's four months. I didn't forget. I lied. She was in full view of my almost naked body and I thought my body's current state was more acceptable for 3 months post partum than 4.
OMG. I have done this as well!!
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
I think I'm going to take two months off TTC and try to get in much better shape (read: be healthier).
I saw the pictures from my cousin's wedding and straight up had an out-of-body moment... like WHO THE FUCK IS THAT HEIFFER?!?!!?
I seriously think I have reverse body dysmorphic disoder (maybe this is better labeled denial). I look at myself in the mirror and I'm like... "I'm curvy but I'm fine".
then I see pictures and I'm like...
wut
This is me exactly! I think I look hot as hell with my curvy ass and nice breasts, then I look at pics and I'm sad.
This is me, too. I don't like being in pictures anymore.
And like HE put it...thats me exactly. I distinctly remember looking at a pic from last summer and thinking, woah, who's that chunky chick? Omg, thats me. I was in utter disbelief for a minute. Then I bawled my fucking eyes out.
I honestly thought I looked ok when I got dressed that morning.
I think I'm going to take two months off TTC and try to get in much better shape (read: be healthier).
I saw the pictures from my cousin's wedding and straight up had an out-of-body moment... like WHO THE FUCK IS THAT HEIFFER?!?!!?
I seriously think I have reverse body dysmorphic disoder (maybe this is better labeled denial). I look at myself in the mirror and I'm like... "I'm curvy but I'm fine".
then I see pictures and I'm like...
wut
I am crying/ laffing, because I have this exact issue. I am all "it's not that bad" and then I get tagged in a pic on FB and I am all "oh hell no."
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
I can only take 3 days off for vacation with H's family, we normally go for a week. He's going to drive down ahead of me on Sat, and I'm going to fly down Tuesday night. I'm actually super excited to have the house to myself for 4 glorious days, and that also means less time spent with his Mom and Brother. Plus, no 8 hours in the car with a toddler, 2 hours on a plane to read and drink! I'm really happy about this, and the confession part is that H thinks I'm sad for missing out on beach days, and I'm not going to correct him.
I have a love hate relationship with pictures. I love taking them and looking at them but I am not generally photogenic and I'm hypercritical of my angles. DH prefers candid shots which lead to some of the most unflattering photos of all time that I insist be deleted. In fact, FFFC right here, our biggest fight in our 12 years together was over a picture (it was truly inappropriate, not just unflattering). Despite having a very fancy camera, he often forgets or is reluctant to photograph events like DDs first birthday. So I have to do it, then I'm not in any of the shots and that makes me sad too.
I love animals, all animals. I am a sad ass softie, especially when it comes to cats. But DS's cat seriously tried my patience more than any other animal I've know. I've considered giving him away in moments of anger lately. I won't, but I really want to.
I can't stop snacking and being lazy about what I eat. I've gained so much weight already. 20lbs and I'm 14 weeks.
Totally random FFFC - I was looking back through photos on my phone, and I found this one from a month ago. I took it in the store to text to DH to ask if this is the kind he wanted, but I haven't deleted the photo yet.
Re: I must CONFESS!!!
I can't get the ticker to work, but I have two sons:
Baby RJ, born 1/25/2014
Formerly Twilightmv
I'm really happy it is Spring/Summer because we will grill more and do more fruits and veggies. Plus we stay busier so I don't snack or eat as much.
Good luck!
Not really a confession I guess.
But the really only watch TV at grandmas on the weekend. We're taking a 5 hr rode trip and DH is against them playing with a tablet for the trip. I think he's NUTS!
(That's were these came from)
I don't use a shot glass when making drinks. I just pour baby
I do really think that skinny/healthy (?) shaming is just as hurtful as fat shaming. To be told I look anorexic and need to eat whatever kind of food when I could scarf down a medium pizza by myself (at the time) was really hurtful. Back then I just had an extremely fast metabolism but now I work hard to healthy and to hear people (not here) belittle that because I'm "already skinny I don't need to work out" sucks.
Not sure if this is a FFFC or even uo but it was too long of a rant for FB.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
I've basically been living on DS' s chicken nuggets, Dunkin Donuts' turkey sausage, egg, & cheese, and McDonald's sausage mcmuffin with egg sandwiches. Not cool, body...not cool. Pull yourself together and eat something nutritious. Even if it tastes bad...bc I am not doing the whole 45lb weight gain again. 25lbs, fine. 45....no.
@mbenit4 we have a social group for our bmb that got taken away. Not a ton active, but new posts daily. I bet a lot of them are along those lines. (Maybe not I'm only in that 1 group)
I went on a total music spiral yesterday afternoon into this morning after the UO.
I have conculded that along with Bruce Springsteen, Beyonce is also a genius. I CANNOT stop listening to XO.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
This is me, too. I don't like being in pictures anymore.
And like HE put it...thats me exactly. I distinctly remember looking at a pic from last summer and thinking, woah, who's that chunky chick? Omg, thats me. I was in utter disbelief for a minute. Then I bawled my fucking eyes out.
I honestly thought I looked ok when I got dressed that morning.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
I love animals, all animals. I am a sad ass softie, especially when it comes to cats. But DS's cat seriously tried my patience more than any other animal I've know. I've considered giving him away in moments of anger lately. I won't, but I really want to.
I can't stop snacking and being lazy about what I eat. I've gained so much weight already. 20lbs and I'm 14 weeks.
Noooooo!
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
I think she is so awesome.
Like, I want to skin her and wear her.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
But I'm done with avoiding because the memories are precious and I want them for the future.
I have serious memory issues so we take a ton of pictures so I won't forget things. Posting that pic yesterday was a huge deal for me.
I am however going to start cutting back big time in sweets and my biggest vice is coke.