Sex Question

PrimRoseMama · May 2014

Does anyone else feel like they have to urinate if sex goes on for a while? Like, I go right before we get frisky. Then as we get to it & the motion in the ocean gets pleasurable I have the sensation like I might pee myself?!

I can climax alright & as far as I know there is no urine leakage. It harshes my sexy mellow though, you guise.

Did pg eff up my bladder? Is it in a different position? Am I just getting older? WTAF?

We've been doing awesome in the sex frequency arena. So bladder, WTF?

PrimRoseMama · May 2014

Perhaps just a different sensation with orgasm now? Hmm... :-?

gutsymama · May 2014

It seems to me that you need a chart that shows bladder placement through a progression of different sexual positions.

emmanemm · May 2014

missymr said:
This may sound really weird but I read somewhere that sometimes an orgasm can make you feel like you have to pee because the nerve endings around there are sort of close by each other. Or something like that.

It has happened to me hence why I looked it up.

I am not sure if pregnancy affects it at all but I'm still working on not snissing myself so it wouldn't surprise me if other things get all messed up in the "lady bits " department.

This exactly. It happens to me alll the time.

queenbone · May 2014

I don't know... but now I'm doing kegels.

queenbone · May 2014

ncchnat said:

^^^That reminded me that a year ago, there was a daily kegel reminder thread.

I still have to do them. I have mild incontinence issues after childbirth.

heyhaylee · May 2014

To me the orgasm is stronger if you need to pee. I try not to go before sex.

valstulas · May 2014

I always feel like I have to pee right before orgasm or even when I'm just really turned on.

He could also be bumping your bladder around a little during the act, which can cause you to feel like you have to pee.

I'm jealous of your sex life, btw. I wish I had the motivation to do it more frequently.

lrichmond86 · May 2014

It has always happened to me that after I orgasm I feel like I need to pee. And I usually pee before sex because in some positions it makes me feel like I'm going to pee. Especially when I've already orgasmed and DH is still going

Same. It's always been that way for me.

[Deleted User] · May 2014

heyhaylee said:
To me the orgasm is stronger if you need to pee. I try not to go before sex.

You daredevil you

I go before sex & I do kegels. Sometimes if he comes in from behind I feel he might hit my bladder a bit. I think it's a bit of post pregnancy with a dab of we're getting old!

RoRo10733 · May 2014

This has always happened to me and when I actually let it go I orgasmed. I always pee before sex and usually have a good pee after.

I actually found that after my first pregnancy my orgasms were better and faster. The down side though is I tend to have multiples and get worn out before my husband even has his first one. I-)

dinomama13 · May 2014

Don't they say that is was "squirting" feels like? (Don't know if it's real or not) DH was on a quest to try to get me to, Idk why, and I told him I have to stop if I feel like I need to pee cause I don't want to pee on him. Then he went on reading this big ol paragraph about how you should just release and let it go and it's not pee. The feeling isnt needing to urinate it's to release. He's a weirdo sometimes. I don't know where he comes up with these ideas lol :-?? But maybe it's that? I have bladder incontinence now too

Snissing and lissing are natural occurances now. Sigh.

WanderingA · May 2014

queenbone said:

ncchnat said:

^^^That reminded me that a year ago, there was a daily kegel reminder thread.

I still have to do them. I have mild incontinence issues after childbirth.

Can we start this again? Maybe a strong vag will make me magically want to have sex again.

ashie624 · May 2014

dinomama13 said:
Don't they say that is was "squirting" feels like? (Don't know if it's real or not) DH was on a quest to try to get me to, Idk why, and I told him I have to stop if I feel like I need to pee cause I don't want to pee on him. Then he went on reading this big ol paragraph about how you should just release and let it go and it's not pee. The feeling isnt needing to urinate it's to release. He's a weirdo sometimes. I don't know where he comes up with these ideas lol :-?? But maybe it's that? I have bladder incontinence now too Snissing and lissing are natural occurances now. Sigh.

Haha squirting is real! It kinda feels like having to pee. Sometimes its a gush.

RoRo10733 · May 2014

ashie624 said:

dinomama13 said:
Don't they say that is was "squirting" feels like? (Don't know if it's real or not) DH was on a quest to try to get me to, Idk why, and I told him I have to stop if I feel like I need to pee cause I don't want to pee on him. Then he went on reading this big ol paragraph about how you should just release and let it go and it's not pee. The feeling isnt needing to urinate it's to release. He's a weirdo sometimes. I don't know where he comes up with these ideas lol :-?? But maybe it's that? I have bladder incontinence now too Snissing and lissing are natural occurances now. Sigh.
Haha squirting is real! It kinda feels like having to pee. Sometimes its a gush.

I second this! It doesn't happen every time, usually when I've had lots of O's or the husband is just hitting it right. I can tell it's coming and goosh, there it is.

While I'm not a fan of squirting, I find it embarrassing, the husband LOVES it! Makes him feel like the man! The vag conquerer!

Side note: The first time it happened with an ex when he was going down in me. I freaked the freak out, he thought I peed on him!
X_X We laugh about it now because were still friends and he was the one who eventually told me I was a squirter not pee'er!

lancomechica · May 2014

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PrimRoseMama · May 2014

lancomechica said:
What's sex?

I felt this way but I realized that I wanted more if I tried to get busy more. With my pain issues & having kids-- it's a real crunch to try more often.

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