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Hiding A Pregnancy
Now, what I'm about to say may sound ridiculous and unbelievable to some. When I came out of work and my fiance told me what happened I couldn't believe it myself. I'm still like, WHAT?! How?! I'm venting because of the circumstances. Does shit like this happen all the time? Does anyone here know someone who waited til they were in labor to tell the father that they are having a baby? Anyway...moving on...
My fiance comes and picks me up from work because I get off so late. He tells me his sister is in the hospital having a baby. I went from shocked, to confused, to disgusted, to "damn, I knew it!" She hid it from everyone and when I mean everyone, I meant the father, too. They live here together with me and my fiance and my fiance's dad. I had a lot of questions, but my second mind kind of knew she was pregnant. I was so pissed that I was right. One of my main questions was, how did the father lay next to her and not feel the stomach kicking or see the kicking? After a while you can see the baby kick or throw an elbow. I mean it wasn't like she wasn't already fat. But couldn't the father notice a change at all? Even in weight? I mean she was pregnant before she moved in. Anyway, the father has been up with a lot with her apparently. They have two kids already and she uses them as meal tickets. The father is not at the hospital with her and I can understand why - kind of. She hid this from him and it's possible that it's not even his.
My brain is still trying to wrap my head around it. You didn't tell anyone. Not even your mom or father - not the child's father. She managed to do it, though. She managed to ...-sigh-... I'm screwed up in the head because she was smoking, she was drinking alcohol and popped pills as well as partying and other things. So, it's like I'm not involved but I'm hurt and I don't know why.
What's sad is the father is going to stick around for more abuse. All because he doesn't want to leave the children. I'm sorry, I'm ranting. There's blogs for that; yea I know. I know.
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Re: Hiding A Pregnancy
Which case, I wish I was...man I wish I was.
2. Surely you learned at some point in your short life (you're like what? 17?) that name calling is infantile. You don't call people fat!!
It happens, especially when young teens are sheltered from actual sex ed. She didn't know enough to pick up on the signs.
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Seriously, this is awful. Although I get a good laugh when the OPs think posts like this will go down in their favor.
Don't even know what to say to this.
I think everyone else already said it!
Also some my Bf slept by me every night and had no idea she was kicking him. It's not like he didn't think she moved and possibly tapped him if he did feel.
Why am I even engaging in this?
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Perhaps I am simply too jaded but I can't even get pissy over this. It is simply amusing shit like this gets posted.
If OP is really 10 weeks along she'd be on D14 (although it looks like she's never posted there) and I can assure you we have no part in this fuckery.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Hey, remember when this shit would send us into a tizzy? And now we all just laugh.
First, I would be RAGEY if someone I knew smoked, took drugs, and drank while PG. I would be seeing red, so I get that part if your post OP. Especially if the baby was my niece or nephew and I was faced with watching my loved one grow up with some sort of disorder (that was caused by the mother's actions) that brought pain (physical or emotional) to the innocent kid. I am actually mad for you bc no, just no...
What I don't get is why you're making this whole ordeal about you. Mind your fucking business and stay out of their relationship unless Bil or the kids are being abused. Your feelings of betrayal, your lack of understanding of why she did it, and your overall disgusting treatment of your Sil are utter bullshit. Stop worrying about your feelings. Stop worrying about your Bil and Sil's actions. Worry about your innocent niece or nephew who will most likely struggle in life starting from day one.
I find it disgusting that you were too busy mother-fucking your Sil to say one word about the well being of her child. It's gross. Get your head out of your ass.
This is how...
Or maybe even this...
Also, what is a second mind and how do I go about getting one?
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929