May 2014 Moms

Breastfeeding check in

How's breastfeeding going this week?


How old is LO ? How long between feedings?

EBF, EP, supplementing?

What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ?

Raves and rants?

Anything else you want to share?
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  • edited May 2014
    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? DD is 10 days old. Goes about 2 hours between feedings, but more often at night. I think she has her nights and days reversed.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? Last week we had to supplement/pump because she was too sleepy to do a full feeding at the breast. After two days of using the SNS to supplement DD got enough energy to nurse at the breast. We were able to wean off the supplementing and pumping. On Sunday she started waking up to eat on her own. So I no longer have to wake her up to eat every 3 hours as she naturally wants to eat every 2 hours now. I'm so happy it looks like we worked through all the issues and we're going to be successfully breastfeeding.

    Raves and rants? I was concerned at her pedi appointment Monday she only put on 0.75oz since Thursday night. But the pedi said he wasnt worried. That the important thing is that she stopped losing weight and is waking up on her own to eat. He didn't see any reason for us to come back for a weight check (unless I think something is wrong) and our next appointment isn't until 3 weeks from now. Scary, but I got to believe everything is fine!

    Anything else you want to share? I feel bad for DH he keeps asking if he can supplement DD wih pumped milk or take her so I can get some sleep. I think he really want to be involved with feeding her. But I keep explaining that it doesn't really work that way and if he feeds her I have to pump so I'd rather just breastfeed directly. Maybe in a week or two we'll introduce the bottle and start pumping so DH can do one feeding a day but it seems too early right now.

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  • MrsT2008MrsT2008 member
    edited May 2014
    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? 1 week old today. Averages 2.5 hours between feedings. She typically has one long stretch (like 5 hours) but it's always in the middle of the day. Today I'm going to wake her after 3 hours all day in hopes we can shift that long stretch to nighttime. 

     EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF 

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? She is an impatient latcher which was resulting in shallow latches. We have worked on different holds and little tricks to get her to latch deeper and i think it's been paying off! 

    Raves and rants? Engorgement and sore nipples. Enough said. 

     Anything else you want to share? Nope!
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  • 3 days old. He tries to go way too long between feedings but I wake him every 2-3 hours as we're not up to birth weight yet & he's a bit jaundiced. No real challenges yet other than keeping him awake.

    No pumping or supplementing so far.

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  • How's breastfeeding going this week?
    It's ok, but I'm worried he's not getting enough.

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? One week today, trying to do every 2-3 hours even if I have to wake him up.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF for now, but I think I need to start supplementing.

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? He had lost a few more ounces at his first pedi appt, so we have to go back for a weight check. Part of me doesn't want to wait another week to decide about supplementation in case he's not getting enough, but I don't know what to do. May call pedi back today.

    Raves and rants? I feel like I'm not producing enough and sometimes he's lazy latching even if I try different poses with him. I want to see about an LC consult.

    Anything else you want to share? Nah...I just hope it gets easier :(

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    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? My son is 6 days old. He usually eats every 2-3 hours and once in a while we get a bigger stretch at night

    EBF, EP, supplementing? Now we are EBF. We had to supplement when we got home due to jaundice and because he lost a little over 7% of his birth weight. I'm lucky because he has no issue going from bottle to breast.

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? My left breast has a lot of tissue underneath my underarm. It was/is very painful and like having a golf ball in my underarm. It is getting less painful but it doesn't seem to soften as much as the breast after a feeding.

    Raves and rants? Just my third boob. Anyone have this happen? Does it go away in a few days like the rest of the engorgement should?

    Anything else you want to share?
    I'm just very proud of myself for BFing. I had major anxiety about it during pregnancy because I knew how hard it can be and I'm just glad I stuck with it
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    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? 

    15 days.  He will go about 2 hours between feedings during the day...usually around 8-10 he cluster feeds, but he will go from midnight til about 5:30 without waking toeat.  If I try to wake him, he just falls back asleep.  He is gaining weight so the doctor said we shouldn't worry.  

    EBF, EP, supplementing? 

    breast feeding and pumping, but wishing could supplement a bit.  

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? 

    I'm in my cousin's wedding this weekend and trying to get enough pumping done so my DH can take him duringall the bridesmaid stuff I have to do is frustrating.  

    rants and raves:

     an overberaing MIL who offers to help which is nice, but then expects unending privilages in return.  example:  a week ago she asked if she could bring her mom around 2 yesterday to visit.  I said sure.  So I planned my day around that.  Then at 12:55 she says shes bringing over her father to visit at 1:10.  I was in the middle of pumping for dinner that night because they were guilting us into dinner with them that night and I knew DS wouldn't make it through without a bottle. 


    However I know I'm lucky that he sleeps through most of the night, still gets enough food.  He switches easily from bottle to bbreast and takes bottles cold. He's fairly easy.  However I wish my DH could help more.  

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  • How's breastfeeding going this week?
    It's getting better.

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings?
    LO is 10 days old. I've been feeding him just about every 3 hours so far, plus or minus 30 minutes or so. I'll probably keep it up until I know he's back at birth weight, and then go to feeding on demand. He would already go longer between some feedings if I let him.
    EBF, EP, supplementing? 
    EBF, but I will probably add a pumping session after his next check up. I need to start a stash earlier this time so we will have enough when I go back to work.
    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? 
    LO messed up my right nipple the first couple of days, so we're still working on letting it heal. The left side doesn't hurt much anymore when he nurses, but as of a couple of days ago when he nursed on the right side it sent sharp pains shooting down my side and through my arm. We met with my LC, who said he is eating enough, but it's his latch on that side. Between a nipple shield and nipple shells, it is healing well. I fed off it without the shield this morning, and the pain was minimal. Yay! It was rough for a while, and it even started bleeding along with cracking. Freaked me out! 
    Raves and rants?
    I'm just glad the pain is going away. I knew it would, but pushing myself through the last week when I felt like my body was going to rip in half when he nursed feels like an accomplishment.
    Anything else you want to share?
    Get help and advice if you need it! Try different tools to help you get through the beginning, because that is usually the most difficult (painful) part. 
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  • How's breastfeeding going this week?
    Alternates between shitty and awesome.

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings?
    LO is 2.5 weeks. Feedings are anywhere between 1.5 hours and 3 hours. 

    EBF, EP, supplementing? 
    EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? 
    I think I have a problem with oversupply. I'm getting engorged and LO is having a hard time latching, especially at night. One solution I've found is hand expressing into a burp cloth or the sink until my nips are soft enough for him to latch. I wanted to start pumping this week, but I'm going to hold off until my supply regulates. 

    Raves and rants?
    Rants - See above RE oversupply and problems latching. 
    Raves - I started practicing BFing in my K'tan carrier and managed to do half of a feed with little problems. I also fed LO in my backseat on a trip to target without a pillow!

    Anything else you want to share?
    I really hope that this gets easier soon!

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  • jcf2133jcf2133 member
    lica001 said:
    How's breastfeeding going this week? SO much better than last week.
    How old is LO ? 11 days. How long between feedings? Varies- at night, 2-3 hours, during the day I feed on demand, so it's very frequent but for shorter length of time.
    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF now,.
    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? LO wasn't latching- was shoving her tongue up to the roof of her mouth like a blockade. We went back to see the LC at the hospital, who gave us a system to train her out of it. She thought we'd need to do it for three days, but LO caught on quickly, thank goodness. It was a 90 minute cycle to be repeated continuously- offer the breast for 30, pump for 30, feed by eye dropper for 30. Skin to skin, repeat. She'd lost almost a pound, which was concerning, but she's slowly gaining now. Hoping for birthweight or above next week at her 2 week weight check.
    Raves and rants? Good LCs are worth their weight in gold. I am trying to figure out how to properly thank the two I've worked with.
    Anything else you want to share? For the first 2-3 days home, my LO wouldn't/couldn't eat. I got no sleep, my breasts were beyond sore, and baby wailed inconsolably pretty much all day. I was a wreck. If you're a FTM like me, or going through the rough part, you will get through it. I had no idea how hard it would be, but it really is worth it."

  • lica001 said:

    How's breastfeeding going this week?

    Not so well, my supply is awful.


    How old is LO ? How long between feedings?

    3w1d, 2-2 1/2 hours between every feeding.

    EBF, EP, supplementing?

    EP w/ supplementation

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ?

    My supply is diminishing more and more each day. I'm trying to pump more to hopefully stimulate production but not a lot of luck so far.

    Raves and rants?

    Rant: MIL has basically made me feel like the anti christ for supplementing. Lady, it's not my fault I have faulty boobs. This was after she criticized me for my weight. She's a peach.

  • How's breastfeeding going this week?

    Not too bad. We had what I'm guessing was a growth spurt from Saturday to Wednesday so he basically hung out on my boobs all day. I was needing a break. Luckily he started evening out again.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ?
    Burping is a challenge. I have yet to figure out what exactly will produce a burp. I go between like 5 different methods. I think it might be caffeine too so I'm trying real hard not to want that coke right now.

    Raves and rants?

    Rave. He's starting to sleep in his basket so I can sleep properly in my bed. He's also awake more so I can hang out with him. Rant. I want that coke. And I'm so over PP bleeding.

    Anything else you want to share?
    I'm sad all the TV shows are ending. Now what to watch?
  • How's breastfeeding going this week?
    Not too bad. Little guy is going thru a growth spurt tho and has some gas problems:/

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? 14 days and the last two days he has been going 1 1/2 - 2 1/2 hours.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ?
    We're still weaning off of the breast shield. We're down to just using it at night.

    Raves and rants?
    Rave: so happy that he has his latch down finally. Rant: with this growth spurt he is always bf. Makes it hard to get anything done.

    Anything else you want to share? Not really :)
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  • How old is LO ? How long between feedings? He is 13 days old and usually goes every 2-3 during the day and sometimes every 4 at night.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? I am just worried that he isn't eating for long enough during each feeding.  But he does have a lot of wet diapers, so I guess he is getting enough.

    Raves and rants? I seem to be an overproducer.  I just have so much and am leaking all the time and it's hard for him to latch.

    Anything else you want to share? I don't think so.
  • sheriotsheriot member
    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? 16 days. About 2-3 hrs between feedings. Sometimes we get a 4hr stretch in during the late afternoon.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? BFing, trying to pump so we can have some saved up just in case.

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? Babe has her days and nights confused. It's not the biggest deal in the world, but cluster feeding from 12am-3am isn't ideal, either. No solutions. We have been trying to keep her up, then trying the "sleep breeds sleep" thing... She will just regulate when she feels like it, I suppose. Though I'm willing to try anything at this point.

    Raves and rants? Raves: I love that she wants to sleep on my tummy/chest and relish that time with her. She is also smiling a lot and getting to be more social. My H is an outstanding husband and father. I've had a bit of the blues and he has been amazing with both of us. Rants: blues, babe having her nights/days confused, not being able to get out of the house.

    Anything else you want to share? I like this thread/check-in because it helps me realize I'm not alone in some of the struggles I (foolishly) thought were unique to our little girl/me.
  • SMM1986SMM1986 member
    How's breastfeeding going this week?

    I Decided to pump this week. It's only day 2 but I like it much better.

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings?

    DD is 4 weeks today. Going about 1.5-2 hours in between BM feedings and 2-3 hours in between formula.

    EBF, EP, supplementing?

    EP and supplementing.

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ?

    I just got so stressed with bfing. Her latch got newly messed up (I think she got used to the shallow latch of bottle nipples), I was miserable feeding her every hour, tired, frustrated. She also spit up a lot from what I'm betting is a forceful let down, so I decided to EP. I don't pump enough right from the start to feed her for a day, so I'm wondering if that's why she ate so frequently?

    Raves and rants?

    I hate pumping, but I hate it less than bfing so I'm calling it a win. I feel like I have the best of all worlds: she gets the benefits of BM, I get some more freedom with bottles, we have convenience of formula and she sleeps longer with formula.

    Anything else you want to share?

    Just do the best you can and don't beat yourself up if things don't work the way you hoped.
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  • How's breastfeeding going this week?
    We had our pedi visit on Tuesday and learned that DD has lost 10% of her birth weight. We met with an LC the next day, and she got 1.5 oz from our feeding at the appointment. Since she needs to be getting 2oz per feed or 20.1pz daily to gain appropriately, the LC recommended pumping and supplementing an additional 0.5oz after each nursing session. Unfortunately, I'm not pumping enough so we started supplementing with formula last night. It has helped DD sleep immensely. I'm just hoping my supply increases quickly!

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? 7 days old. Feeding every 2-3 hours.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? All of the above.

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? See above.

    Raves and rants? Rant: really want to be able to EBF and feel like my body isn't doing what it needs to. So frustrating! Rave: I found lactation cookies at BRU today. They're pretty tasty!

    Anything else you want to share? Nope!
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  • MissLadyTayMissLadyTay member
    edited May 2014
    Baby is three and a half weeks. Weight gain is slow but we are finally back to his birth weight. I'm pumping a couple times a day to help boost supply. Just got mothers milk tea and lactation cookies yesterday so I am hoping those help my supply. I am still experiencing soreness but it's much, much better. Can't wait to cross the "BF is so easy" threshold - I know it is coming based on experience with my older son but I just want to get there!
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  • How old is LO? How long between feedings? Jenna is 13 days old today! She usually goes 3 hours between feedings during the day, cluster feeds before bed time and sleep 4-5 hours at night.

    EBF, EP, supplementing?  EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find? I NIP for the first time with #2. I had her in my ring sling and had to figure out the best position. I don't think her latch was all that great in the sling since my nips were a bit more tender than usual afterwards. Hoping with a little more practice, we'll have it down easy.

    Raves and rants? My nipples aren't as sore anymore. I'm thrilled because it took a good 5 weeks before they felt like this with my first. So glad things are going more smoothly with #2.

    Anything else you want to share? Not at the moment!
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  • JAM85JAM85 member
    How's breastfeeding going this week?
    Great! My only complaint is she seems to sometimes get too much air in so we end up playing the latching game for 1-2 minutes each time with her not as amused by the game

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings? She is 2 weeks and anywhere from 30 min to 3 hours. Still extremely unpredictable

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF right now need to start pumping to get a supply going although dreading it

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? I started trying to feed with her more upright to reduce burping and air intake which seems to be helping.

    Raves and rants? Nights still suck- she was having a good few days going 2-3 hours at a time then the last two nights has been fussing and won't sleep in her crib even swaddled. Just makes weird noises that get louder and will only be quiet if she is on her stomach on us. Also she has been liking to cluster feed a bit from 10-midnight.

    But- she gained 1# in two weeks from her birth weight so go booby juice!

    Anything else you want to share? Had my first public BF experience- well 3. One on a bench, twice at a restaurant outside (luckily we were at the end of the porch) and I really dislike having to feed under those udder covers it's like feeding in a cave!
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  • jschwind22jschwind22 member
    edited May 2014
    lica001 said:
    How's breastfeeding going this week? Well it's our first week, but pretty well I think! He was up over his birth weight already at his first pedi appointment. Dr. was impressed. He's having the appropriate number of wet and poopy diapers, so I take that as a good sign.

    How old is LO ? DS is 6 days old today. How long between feedings? He's going 2-3 hours between feeding pretty consistently.

    EBF, EP, supplementing? EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ? The day/night before my milk came in was a huge challenge. He was attached to my bewbies constantly. DH was great and made sure I had everything I needed (water, meds, entertainment) so that I could focus on feeding.

    Raves and rants? Engorgement=ouchie. I know having too much is a good problem to have vs. not enough, but I will rant about the ouchie! Rave on the nurses at the hospital. My day nurse was seriously amazing and I think we are so successful so far because of her!

    Anything else you want to share? I went to a mommy group at the breastfeeding resource center yesterday. It was nice to connect with other mommies who are breastfeeding! I hope to go back next week.

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  • How old is LO ? How long between feedings?
    LO is 11 days old. During the day we've been 2+ hours between feedings, getting closer to a full 3 hours. At night, we've gone from 2+ hours, and are now working at a solid 3-4 hours. If we can keep this up, I think I'll have her on a loose schedule!

    EBF, EP, supplementing? 
    EBF, but I do want to do some pumping eventually.

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find?
    I figured out LO was cluster/comfort feeding. Some swaddling has helped, a pacifier has helped, making sure she is asleep after feeding before putting her back down, and comforting her while she's down with touch and voice before just picking her up.

    Raves and rants?
    LO had a weight follow up this week at 9 days old, and is already past her birth weight!
    LO doesn't always latch on to the right when we're starting there, sometimes I end up having to football hold instead of across my front. It's not as comfortable but it works. If I put her on the left first and then go to the right, she tends to latch much quicker when held across my front. It's a little frustrating but at least my right isn't bursting at the nip anymore!

    Anything else you want to share?
    I just found the check-in thread, hopefully I'll remember to keep checking back for it. My goal is to eventually do some pumping so DH can give some bottles, so that we can eventually leave her with someone for a couple hours, etc.




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  • How's breastfeeding going this week?
    Awesome! He is a breastfeeding champ!

    How old is LO ? How long between feedings?
    9 days, 2 -2.5 during the day and 4 hours at night

    EBF, EP, supplementing?
    EBF

    What challenges have you had this week, what solutions did you find ?
    Sore nipples. My best friend gave me some gel pads that u put in the fridge. They are amazing and work!

    Raves and rants?
    Started pumping a few days ago on righty because he didn't like to feed on that side. Was able to get 1.75 ozs the first time. Now he will feed on that side but I still pump one to two times so grandma and dad can feed him. No nipple confusion yet. :)

    No rants this week. Knock on wood.

    Anything else you want to share?
    This experience is everything I hope it would be and more. I frel so silly for worrying so much. I hope it continues to go so well!
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