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Burial

MrsKush1014MrsKush1014 member
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Shortly before Mother's Day I received a packet of information from the hospital where I had my D&C regarding Pregnancy/Newborn Loss.  I kinda put off reading the material, but flipped through it all last night.  Most of it was about the support groups they have available.  Great idea, but I know my husband wouldn't be into it and they recommend couples come together, plus I feel I'm getting the support I need here.  {{hugs}} to all of you.  The last pamphlet was titled "Caring for Your Baby's Remains".  At first I thought it was an odd pamphlet to receive nearly a month after my procedure, but I read it anyway.  I found out that for pregnancies that end before 20 weeks they do a mass burial every 3 months.  I broke down in tears...I had no idea that they do that.  And I have no idea how I really feel about going. 



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BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
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  • salsa_wifeysalsa_wifey member

    (((Hugs))) to you.

    We share a loss and D&C date.  :(

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    BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
    Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014.     2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    Sorry, that must have been hard to read. I am not sure what you should or even want to do, but whatever you decide is the right thing. ((Hugs)).
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    I'm part if a loss group. It's wonderful. I've been with and without DH. DH is never going to be the guy talking about his feelings, so he sat and didn't say a word, however I think he got a lot out of what he heard (from me and the others).

    My group has a yearly family walk. I waited until that day to decide what to do. I really wanted to go, but wasn't sure I could handle it. That day I opted out. Decide that day. ((Hugs))

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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