getting used to monthly appointments

Please tell me I'm not the only anxiety ridden one here. I'm 14 weeks today, and up until this point I've somehow managed to get myself into the doctor every 2 weeks. I just feel better that way. I feel as if I'm running on blind faith going a whole entire month without seeing or hearing baby. I know I need to get over this and just bide my time like everyone else ... anyone have any pointers on making it easier? I am a FTM so go easy on me please. I'm sure after the first go around it's probably a lot less stressful.