Community› The Bump Message Boards› Infertility
Infertility
New Discussion

Help!

dreambig1021dreambig1021 member
in Infertility
Someone talk some sense into me please. So i'm starting to get super jealous! DH has gone on a diet because he has been getting flare ups of gout really bad. So he's hell bent on losing weight and changing his eating habits. Well since I've been on stims and going back to do FET I'm afraid I'm going to gain weight again and I'm starting to get really jealous about him getting thinner and me getting fatter. Is this normal? Am I just losing my mind? This is crazy right? 
TC Since 2006
Me: 33
Dx: Hydrosalpinx
DH: 34
Dx: Perfect
IUI #1-4 = BFN
BCP Started 2/23/2014, Tubal ligation surgery 3/5/2014
1 Polyp removed, Tubes are bye bye.
IVF #1 - Gonal-F, Menopur, Cetrotide, Lupron, ER 4/14, Freeze All, OHSS
31R, 28M, 21 fertilized! 
FET#1 - 06/26/14 transferred 5 day blasts 2- 1 4AA and 1 3BB lining at 12 (PIO shots, Progesterone and Estradiol)
Beta 7/10/14 14dp5dt = BFFN
FET#2- 9/25 Transfer day 3, 2- 10 cell Lining at 12
10/2/15 - Progesterone Check 30
10/9/15 - 14dp3dt BFN
4/27/16 - Mock transfer protocol- Vit C, Vit D, DHEA, Prenatal, Lovenox, Estradiol, PIO
FET #3 - 5/18/16 - 





Report Reply to Post

Re: Help!

  • ronniesgirl1981ronniesgirl1981 member
    My husband and I changed our diets together.  We both lost weight, but the weight just melted off of him.  We got to a point where we weighed the same and I cried my eyes out. 

    So yeah...I think you're totally normal!
    Me: 34 | He: 40
    TTC since 08/2012
    DX: DOR




    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • diamante1181diamante1181 member
    It really varies from person to person. The meds themselves didn't affect my weight, but I couldn't control cravings! Therein lies the danger. Good luck!!
    On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Phoebe Jaslene born at 19w3d. We love you beba! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers



    image
    Report Reply
  • dreambig1021dreambig1021 member
    I'm trying to lose the weight that I gained from all the meds (total of 10 pounds) I wish I could lose weight like men do, they make it look so darn easy!! 

    LOL
    TC Since 2006
    Me: 33
    Dx: Hydrosalpinx
    DH: 34
    Dx: Perfect
    IUI #1-4 = BFN
    BCP Started 2/23/2014, Tubal ligation surgery 3/5/2014
    1 Polyp removed, Tubes are bye bye.
    IVF #1 - Gonal-F, Menopur, Cetrotide, Lupron, ER 4/14, Freeze All, OHSS
    31R, 28M, 21 fertilized! 
    FET#1 - 06/26/14 transferred 5 day blasts 2- 1 4AA and 1 3BB lining at 12 (PIO shots, Progesterone and Estradiol)
    Beta 7/10/14 14dp5dt = BFFN
    FET#2- 9/25 Transfer day 3, 2- 10 cell Lining at 12
    10/2/15 - Progesterone Check 30
    10/9/15 - 14dp3dt BFN
    4/27/16 - Mock transfer protocol- Vit C, Vit D, DHEA, Prenatal, Lovenox, Estradiol, PIO
    FET #3 - 5/18/16 - 





    Report Reply
  • jszy10jszy10 member
    Ugh!  My DH can lose 20lbs like its nothing...it makes me CRAZZYYYY.  I go back and forth with how I feel about my weight gain.  Sometimes I feel justified, and DH agrees, but other times I just feel so darn bad about myself.  It's hard to find a happy medium here...but I hear ya girl!  I've been trying to lose weight for weeks now, and NOTHING.

    ME - 31, DH - 40

    Married 06/25/2011, TTC since 03/2012

    BFP #1 on 11/13/12 -- EDD 7/24/13 -- M/C (CP) on 11/21/12

    BFP #2 on  7/21/13 -- EDD 3/29/14 -- M/C (CP) on 7/31/13

    09/4/13 - 4/16/14 -- IUI #1 - 6 = BFNs :(

    7/13/14 -- IVF #1 w/ ICSI

    ER on 7/26/14 -- 20 R, 15 M, 11 F

    ET on 7/31/14 -- 1 transferred (4bb); 8 frosties!!!

    BFP #3 on 8/8/14 -- EDD 04/18/15

    BETA #1:  473,  BETA #2: 1009, BETA #3: 1975

    ** It's a BOY!!! **

    image

    image    image 

    Report Reply
  • pjpahelpjpahel member
    Men...

    Whenever my husband and I diet, he seems to lose weight just by thinking about a diet...I seem to find all the weight he loses.

    Pj
    *~*Signature Warning*~*
    Me: 35 Healthy
     DH: 44 vasectomy with failed reversal. 
    IVF #1: Follistim/Ganirelix: 10 retrieved, 4 perfect embies. 2 transferred, 2 frosties = BFN
     IVF #2: Follistim/Ganirelix: 11 retrieved, 1 perfect embie transferred = BFP Willow 4/14/11 
    FET #1: 2 frosties, neither survived the thaw
     IVF #3 Bravelle/Menopur/Ganirelix 4 retrieved, 1 perfect embie transferred = BFN 
    IVF #4 Microdose Lupron/Bravelle/Menopur: 8 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 2 transferred, 2 Frozen: Beta 1: 63, #2: 51, #3:148 #4: 537 #5 2204.  US #1: very small gestational sac.  US#2: Empty sac 

    image
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"