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Pregnant after a Loss
faaslarson
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New Here and Nervous
faaslarson
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Hello ladies 
Very happy to be here but, like all of you I'm sure, am very nervous. So nervous that I have not shared the news with my husband.
I miscarried on April 16th at 5 1/2 weeks pregnant. Just over a month ago and relatively early in our pregnancy (although still devastating). To my surprise and delight, I am expecting again without having a period between. I will be 5 weeks on Wednesday (and I think even that's a little off because of the mc...I think I'm actually a few days behind...more like 4 weeks).
With our DS I had 2 dark lines on 13 DPO. This time, I ovulated later but still think my lines should be darker at 17 DPO. This is driving me a little crazy and making me doubt if this will stick.
I don't want to stress and want to just enjoy this and be happy. I'm trying to wait until 6 or 7 weeks to tell my husband so I feel a little more secure. I got blood work done today and it confirmed the pregnancy.
Anyway..I'm so happy to be here. And so happy for all of you that are here as well. Best of luck to everyone
DS #1 Jimmer Jack Born 11/7/11
MC #1 - 4/16/14 - 5 weeks 1 day
MC #2 - 5/23/14 - 5 weeks 2 days
MC #3 - 7/29/14 - 5 weeks 4 days
DS #2 Jordy William Born 5/28/15
#3 EDD 9/2/16
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Re: New Here and Nervous
You know I've thought about that...you're probably right as I would tell him regardless about it so keeping it from him won't do any good.
Thank you for the warm welcome
DS #1 Jimmer Jack Born 11/7/11
MC #1 - 4/16/14 - 5 weeks 1 day
MC #2 - 5/23/14 - 5 weeks 2 days
MC #3 - 7/29/14 - 5 weeks 4 days
DS #2 Jordy William Born 5/28/15
#3 EDD 9/2/16
I told my husband right away every time I've been pregnant. He's my best friend, and it's his baby, too. We're in this together as a team. We celebrate the good times together and grieve the bad together.
BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
"Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience." Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
This time I'm not leaving without you.
Completely agree... as are my husband and I. He mentioned last time to wait and tell him but it was just in his disappointment I think. I can't keep things from him so it's more of me being nervous and thinking I'll be able to wait...which I won't!
Thanks for the advice..you're right I need to tell him:)
DS #1 Jimmer Jack Born 11/7/11
MC #1 - 4/16/14 - 5 weeks 1 day
MC #2 - 5/23/14 - 5 weeks 2 days
MC #3 - 7/29/14 - 5 weeks 4 days
DS #2 Jordy William Born 5/28/15
#3 EDD 9/2/16
Ava's Story
BFP#2 10/18/13 Blighted ovum 11/25/13
BFP #3 1/31/14 EDD 10/18/14 -- It's a GIRL!
TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)
BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d
BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13
BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks
BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby
You can call your doctor and see if they will draw betas. They can see if the hsg is rising.
Congrats and welcome.
"It's, not, where you are, it's where you're going,
And it's, not, about the things you've done, it's what you're doing, now"
TTC Journey Began 8/12
BFP #1 11/9/12, MMC/D&C 12/21/12 @ 9w2d, EDD 7/24/13
SAs: 2%-3% Morph - RE Official Diagnosis Unexplained
BFN = IUI #1 (Clomid) | IUI #2 (Letrozole)
BFP #2 4/19/14 = IUI #3 (Letrozole)
Expecting Our Elf 12/27/14
~All Welcome~
DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS 6/2010
BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
My chart here All ALers welcome!
DS #1 Jimmer Jack Born 11/7/11
MC #1 - 4/16/14 - 5 weeks 1 day
MC #2 - 5/23/14 - 5 weeks 2 days
MC #3 - 7/29/14 - 5 weeks 4 days
DS #2 Jordy William Born 5/28/15
#3 EDD 9/2/16
Femara + Gonal F + Ovidrel 3/6/14 IUI #3 (plus 2x acupuncture)
Team Pink!!
ALL ARE WELCOME
US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)
BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
TTC Since 04/01/13
BFP #1 04/28/13 Its twins! EDD 01/08/2014 MMC confirmed 06/27/13 D&C 07/17/13
BFP#2 05/19/14 EDD 01/30/2015 Please be our rainbow!
My Ovulation Chart
*~*~* All AL Welcome*~*~*
DS #1 Jimmer Jack Born 11/7/11
MC #1 - 4/16/14 - 5 weeks 1 day
MC #2 - 5/23/14 - 5 weeks 2 days
MC #3 - 7/29/14 - 5 weeks 4 days
DS #2 Jordy William Born 5/28/15
#3 EDD 9/2/16