1) WTF BODY?! I woke up this morning with a raging headache. It's so bad that it's making me nauseous. After yesterday's pass out fiasco, I'm opting to stay home and rest up. I feel like shit.
2) WTF newbies. I don't know if this is a direct correlation, but I feel like as soon as we set up the FB group new people started swarming in and posting to the board. Vultures! We're still here!!!!
WTF Baby for deciding that NO sleeping position was comfortable last night. I think I slept most of the night, but it was all tossing and turning. We were doing so good on making it through the night! Please don't make this the new norm, I love sleep!
My WTF just happened like 10 minutes ago. I'm still so pissed...
A regular customer just came into the toy store and told me that I need to have baby because she's sick of waiting for him. Excuse me? I told her that he needs more time to cook. She then told me that she was so happy when her daughter had a preemie because then she could see him sooner.
I wanted to punch her so hard in the face. What a heartless human being to wish that on anyone.
I hate the feeling like I have to treat my H like a 10 year old child... If I don't ask him to do things that clearly need to be done, it doesn't get done... I hate feeling like I"m his mother... Seriously, the light in the babys room has been out for weeks, just change the stupid light bulb... I hate feeling like I can't rely on him and to top it off I"m finaly in the mood to have sex and he's always too tired or not into it at all...
I think that part of it is my fault. If I want something done I really just need to be proactive and do it, instead of whining and bitching about it and stressing myself out. I don't like bitching and nagging because that doesn't work and I don't like being that kind of person, I even make to do lists on the dry erase board in the kitchen so I don't have to remind him. I just need to do it myself if it bothers me.
WTF nausea? Yesterday I hit 3rd tri and you decide now would be a good time to play is-she-going-to-puke? If I'm not eating or drinking, I'm nauseated. This will be fun for the next 12 weeks.
I hate the feeling like I have to treat my H like a 10 year old child... If I don't ask him to do things that clearly need to be done, it doesn't get done... I hate feeling like I"m his mother... Seriously, the light in the babys room has been out for weeks, just change the stupid light bulb... I hate feeling like I can't rely on him and to top it off I"m finaly in the mood to have sex and he's always too tired or not into it at all...
I think that part of it is my fault. If I want something done I really just need to be proactive and do it, instead of whining and bitching about it and stressing myself out. I don't like bitching and nagging because that doesn't work and I don't like being that kind of person, I even make to do lists on the dry erase board in the kitchen so I don't have to remind him. I just need to do it myself if it bothers me.
@AshleyA032109 and I mentioned on Monday we have the same problem. I hate being a "nag" as well.. and I hate getting mad at FI for not thinking to do things that are just common sense/need to be done. (Sinkful of dirty dishes? Load the dishwasher.)
After getting angry at him on Sunday though, I came home to all the laundry folded and put away, the living room picked up, and him doing his homework. We talked a little bit and I told him I need to feel like he is miy partner, and that he helps me.
...and then last night he told me (again) that we needed to get a PikePass for the truck for when we go away next weekend (for the tolls). I was like, ok, I'll do it tomorrow. His response? "Well tomorrow turns into another 3-4 days." NOW YOU KNOW WHAT I FEEL LIKE!!!
I am confused:
For the people who said that the newbies have come out of the woodwork since fb group was set up is that because you think we all want in or was that directed at the original bump posters who left here for the new Facebook group?
My wtf is my maternity jeans. This time I opted to buy non name brand ones at motherhood and every morning they fit great and by 10am they are all saggy in the butt and I'm constantly pulling them up
I have another. WTF aunt. She commented on a picture of mine on FB. It was a picture of H and I and she was saying we were cute and how she couldn't wait to see the baby. I was being nice commented back saying thank you and that I loved her. She then starts tagging herself in all of my pictures! Holy cow, I kept getting notifications of her doing it. Why?!
To be honest too, I don't have much to do with them, so I don't foresee them seeing the baby much at all. H has never even met them. A lot of them struggle with drugs and other things. The one who commented on my picture, her daughter had her first child when she was 13. They live a really hard life. My dad was pretty much the only sane one out of his sisters, he had a brother, but he passed in his early 30s.
I have another....wtf baby, how bout we don't kick mommy in the bladder 2 seconds after she finishes painting her nails. I'm supposed to pull my pants down, how???
@CK61 First of all, hopefully everything continues to go well with baby's growth! But I had an idea. Are there any places local to the hospital that would deliver food to you? Pizza, Chinese, Jimmy Johns, etc.
WTF Glucose test. I failed the 1 hr and now have to do the 3 hr on Fri. Because that is how I want to spend my Friday off...with taking a stupid glucose test at 7am. I know I will get flamed for doing what I can to "beat" the test on Friday, but seriously I don't care. I am considered under for the weight gain, baby isn't measuring big, I don't have excessive thirst or urination. I most likely do not have GD, but I get to waste an entire morning dealing with that BS now.
Oh, and WTF DH...texting me, "stop being so annoyed and take better care of my baby," is not an okay comment.
TTC Since January 2012
Me:37 DH:34 DX July 2013: Unexplained Infertility New DX Dec 2013: DOR
WTF Glucose test. I failed the 1 hr and now have to do the 3 hr on Fri. Because that is how I want to spend my Friday off...with taking a stupid glucose test at 7am. I know I will get flamed for doing what I can to "beat" the test on Friday, but seriously I don't care. I am considered under for the weight gain, baby isn't measuring big, I don't have excessive thirst or urination. I most likely do not have GD, but I get to waste an entire morning dealing with that BS now.
Oh, and WTF DH...texting me, "stop being so annoyed and take better care of my baby," is not an okay comment.
I don't have much weight gain (like 5lbs over prepreg weight, a big baby, OR excessive thirst or urination and I've had GD since first tri. It's a placenta issue mainly.
Soon to be mommy of 3! DS Grayson (3yrs) (Emergency Csec) DS Camden (1yr) (All natural Vbac) DD Isabella due 8/2/2014
Wtf DD#2, you have your own bed, please stop coming into mine, snoring in my ear loudly and kicking me. I can do that all on my own (the kicking is just happening internally now!) so tired today.
To add to my first one...WTF DH. Asking me why she's awake doesn't help. Like I know the answer and just choose not to do anything to fix it because I like being up all hours of the night.
WTF neighbor: She tells me, "Oh I work with a woman due in August and you are so much bigger than her." Great, thank you. My OB isn't concerned about my size, why should you be.
Leave me alone...go back to spying on us by peaking through your blinds....sigh.
Just a general WTF. We are moving next weekend and I have been so busy organizing, packing, making phone calls and going to appointments. Oh yeah and work and regular life itself. I'm exhausted and this week is dragging! :-\
LO was kicking me in the ass last night. I'm not sure how, but the nerve endings in my butt told me that I was being kicked. Maybe by means of my colon? It was weird and not very comfortable.
WTF male coworkers-stop asking me every single morning how I'm feeling! I feel fine, and even if I didn't I'm not going to tell you and make everyone think twice about my ability to keep working for the next 3.5 months! Ugh.
Me:41 DH: 46 high count but poor motility & morphology TTC on and off since 2005
July 2012: Infertility tests started at OB/Gyn, HSG and HSN all clear Sept 2012: IUI #1 w/Clomid - BFN Oct 2012: IUI #2 w/Clomid - cancelled due to cyst Nov 2012: IUI #3 w/Clomid - BFN
Break to move and find new PCP, OB/Gyn & RE Sept 2013:first appt with RE Nov / Dec 2013: IVF #1 with ICSI split Dec 6: Retrieval, 4 retrieved, 2 mature, 1 fertilized Dec 11: Transferred 1 (Day 5) Dec 30: HCG Beta, 4980. BFP! 1 little bean!
WTF boss. Actually told me I shouldn't be hanging bullitin boards (elementary teacher here) because it's unhealthy to lift my arms over my head. Really?!
She said she'd stop by after school to help me, then never showed.
My preemptive moving WTF earlier has quickly escalated into a WTF squared times three to the 12th power. FML I need a drink!
Ugh. I'm sorry! This will be me next weekend, Memorial Day weekend of all times! Oh well. We are hiring movers and have lots of help cleaning/ unpacking thankfully but I am still dreading it! I love our new house but I hate hate hate moving
I wish I had the money to afford movers. Let me tell you how fun it is to move out of a third floor apartment with no elevator.
Oh, no. I'm so sorry! That does not sound fun. I feel bad complaining at all-I guess I should feel lucky! Moving is so stressful in itself, then to be 6+ months pregnant, what were we thinking?! I hope you atleast had some help. Don't overdo it and try to take it easy!
Btw, I was just saying this the other day...Isn't it ironic that the time in your life when you most need a drink is one of the only times you can't have one?! So not fair! Hang in there!
WTF crotch. I'm genuinely freaked out right now. While I was at the grocery store, I had a sharp pain shoot through what felt like a ligament in my pelvis, definitely not lightning crotch. I am still hurting pretty badly and a little spazzed, I've had some aching on and off but nothing like this. Not a happy camper!
(Yes, I'm quoting myself)
Someone tell me if they have had something like this. I've had lightning crotch, that was totally different, just a little zinger here and there.
Yep, I had this beginning of 2nd trimester. Thankfully I have not experienced it as bad since then but I feel you! It was more of a constant, sharp, aching pain. My doctor said it is normal and most likely just the position of the baby pressing on nerve endings. Not pleasant but it should go away in time. Definitely talk to your doctor though if not, better to be safe!
@kiley820 - I'm just extra whiny New landlord gave us a welcoming gift though....wait for it.....2 bottles of Riesling in the fridge. Wish I was kidding.
@kiley820 - I'm just extra whiny New landlord gave us a welcoming gift though....wait for it.....2 bottles of Riesling in the fridge. Wish I was kidding.
I am clearly way late here but just saw this now. You have got to be kidding! He does know you are pregnant, right?! So not cool!
Re: WTF Wednesday
1) WTF BODY?! I woke up this morning with a raging headache. It's so bad that it's making me nauseous. After yesterday's pass out fiasco, I'm opting to stay home and rest up. I feel like shit.
2) WTF newbies. I don't know if this is a direct correlation, but I feel like as soon as we set up the FB group new people started swarming in and posting to the board. Vultures! We're still here!!!!
That is all.
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I hate the feeling like I have to treat my H like a 10 year old child... If I don't ask him to do things that clearly need to be done, it doesn't get done... I hate feeling like I"m his mother... Seriously, the light in the babys room has been out for weeks, just change the stupid light bulb... I hate feeling like I can't rely on him and to top it off I"m finaly in the mood to have sex and he's always too tired or not into it at all...
I think that part of it is my fault. If I want something done I really just need to be proactive and do it, instead of whining and bitching about it and stressing myself out. I don't like bitching and nagging because that doesn't work and I don't like being that kind of person, I even make to do lists on the dry erase board in the kitchen so I don't have to remind him. I just need to do it myself if it bothers me.
Wtf work. I'm over it.
@AshleyA032109 and I mentioned on Monday we have the same problem. I hate being a "nag" as well.. and I hate getting mad at FI for not thinking to do things that are just common sense/need to be done. (Sinkful of dirty dishes? Load the dishwasher.)
After getting angry at him on Sunday though, I came home to all the laundry folded and put away, the living room picked up, and him doing his homework. We talked a little bit and I told him I need to feel like he is miy partner, and that he helps me.
...and then last night he told me (again) that we needed to get a PikePass for the truck for when we go away next weekend (for the tolls). I was like, ok, I'll do it tomorrow. His response? "Well tomorrow turns into another 3-4 days." NOW YOU KNOW WHAT I FEEL LIKE!!!
I have another. WTF aunt. She commented on a picture of mine on FB. It was a picture of H and I and she was saying we were cute and how she couldn't wait to see the baby. I was being nice commented back saying thank you and that I loved her. She then starts tagging herself in all of my pictures! Holy cow, I kept getting notifications of her doing it. Why?!
To be honest too, I don't have much to do with them, so I don't foresee them seeing the baby much at all. H has never even met them. A lot of them struggle with drugs and other things. The one who commented on my picture, her daughter had her first child when she was 13. They live a really hard life. My dad was pretty much the only sane one out of his sisters, he had a brother, but he passed in his early 30s.
4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN
DS Grayson (3yrs) (Emergency Csec)
DD Isabella due 8/2/2014
Baby Boy due October 2017
I'm hungry and need to leave the building to get food. I have no umbrella and I'm wearing sandals.
I'm SOOOOOOO hungry!!!!!!!
eta: just ordered delivery. It'll be here in an hour. I don't want to wait!!! FWP.
TTC on and off since 2005
July 2012: Infertility tests started at OB/Gyn, HSG and HSN all clear
Sept 2012: IUI #1 w/Clomid - BFN
Oct 2012: IUI #2 w/Clomid - cancelled due to cyst
Nov 2012: IUI #3 w/Clomid - BFN
Sept 2013: first appt with RE
Nov / Dec 2013: IVF #1 with ICSI split
Dec 6: Retrieval, 4 retrieved, 2 mature, 1 fertilized
Dec 11: Transferred 1 (Day 5)
Dec 30: HCG Beta, 4980. BFP!
1 little bean!
WTF baby! How can you have had the hiccups for the past 3 hours?
And WTF new guy across the street! When is it every OK at flip a roach at my kid.
Edit: because my mobile likes the post button better than I do.
Yep, I had this beginning of 2nd trimester. Thankfully I have not experienced it as bad since then but I feel you! It was more of a constant, sharp, aching pain. My doctor said it is normal and most likely just the position of the baby pressing on nerve endings. Not pleasant but it should go away in time. Definitely talk to your doctor though if not, better to be safe!