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trisholiosboitrisholiosboi member
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My wife and I have only had sex once since November! She's 24 week's pregnant! Advice?
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Re: no sex

  • WulfgarWulfgar member
    It's normal for some women when pregnant.  I would just do self pleasure like a lot of us with pregnant wives.  Just hope that you don't have a wife that keeps her legs closed for a few years like some on the bump have done.

    Good luck on surviving the remaining weeks of pregnancy.
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  • trisholiosboitrisholiosboi member
    I can only self pleasure so much, then that gets boring. Plus, my wife is a stay at home mom to our two foster daughter's, so she's ALWAYS home! Thanks.
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  • polooo27polooo27 member

    Have you talked to your wife? Does she have a reason like not feeling well, tired, busy. Pregnancy does wear you down especially when you already have kids. Or does she just not want to have sex while pregnant?

    Lots of women don't have sex while pregnant for different reasons. Some reasons are better than others.

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  • trisholiosboitrisholiosboi member
    She's tired, her back hurts, she has heartburn, etc. All of these things I completely understand, but our sex life had went down the tubes before she was pregnant. The hard part is I LOVE pregnant women. I've tried explain to her that her walking around naked is like her number one fantasy walking around the house and she can't do anything about it.....
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  • polooo27polooo27 member

    That sorta blows. It sounds like you know why she doesn't want to have sex so asking for it or talking about it probably ends up being more of a turnoff to her. Not talking about it won't get you anywhere either though.

    You could try something like, "when do you think our sex life will get back to normal" or "do you miss sex" or "when do you think you'll be up for sex again". Use some sort of low-pressure conversation starter. Or just get it in her mind that you miss sex without directly whining about it. You know your wife best and for the record I'm far from a sex expert.

     

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  • trisholiosboitrisholiosboi member
    She's given me permission to seek it elsewhere (we were swingers before we started the baby making process),.but I just haven't.
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