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Benched until August (I hate you PCOS)

RE was not at all happy with my labs and 3 hour glucose test results.  He won't green light me for IVF until I lose weight and get my blood sugar under control.  The PCOS has been working overtime to make things way worse than when I started with the RE back in 2010.  So I'm going back on Metformin and joining Weight Watchers with a work friend.   

I was pretty down about things when I talked to RE Wednesday night.  Last time I seriously worked on the weight loss issue I did not have DD.  Which meant a lot more free time to prepare meals in advance and spend hours at the gym.  I don't have that luxury because I work part time (which in my line of work may as well be a 40 hour week) and DD has been a nightmare about going to the gym daycare - she throws a diva tantrum until the staff finds me in the gym to come retrieve her. 

I am trying to be optimistic and see this as an opportunity to improve my overall health, but I am seriously disappointed in yet another delay.  I'm not getting any younger...    :(
Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years
PCOS and MF

Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15

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Re: Benched until August (I hate you PCOS)

  • Sorry to hear that. We're doing the Thurs. check in now (PMS) because I think a lot of are struggling with getting / staying healthy esp. while dealing with IF and potential treatment cycles. Take it one step at a time, and try not to let yourself get overwhelmed. I know how frustrating it is to be benched, when all you want to do is be pregnant. 

    Hugs. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • I'm sorry. I know how hard it is to lose weight with PCOS. That's good that you're focusing or at least trying to focus on the over all health benefit. The good news is that a great body is like 80% food and only 20% exercise. So if the gym isn't working out, you could always go for a walk in your neighborhood or even around the mall. Just being active moving a little bit will help. And you might be able to come up with some things that your daughter can do with you. Or at least ride along in the stroller will you do.

    A few of my friends and I have recently added the app lose it! To our phones and are tracking our foods. In the last week that I've added that, I've lost about 5 pounds. I'm amazed at how mindlessly I eat. Tracking my foods makes a huge difference!

    Good luck, I agree how sucky it is to have two wait to get pregnant. But think about how much healthier and more enjoyable your pregnancy will be if you're healthier when you get pregnant.
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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    that seriously sucks. i'm so sorry. i know how difficult it is to be told "stop trying" when you are consumed with trying. wishing you the best in your weight loss journey. i think the PMS post will be helpful, i remember when i was trying to lose weight having people hold me accountable was crucial to staying on track. GL!
    Me: 36, DH: 36
    DH's SA = normal
    1 tube only wonder
    AFC 3-5, AMH 0.30

    BFP #1 3/29/11.  EDD 12/4/11... Missed m/c 5/9/11. Cytotec fail. D&C 5/17/11.
    BFP #2   7/5/11.  EDD 3/14/12... Our rainbow Kellen born 3/14/12 via c/s.
    BFP #3 5/30/13.  EDD 2/8/14...  6wk u/s HB 126. 8wk u/s lost HB. D&C 7/12/13.
    BFP #4 2/18/14.  EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.
    BFP #5 7/27/14.  EDD 4/9/15...  m/c @ 5w4d.

    IVF #1    Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN. 
    IVF #2    Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.  Converted to IUI #1. BFFN
    IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.

    BFP #6  (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15.  EDD 11/30/15...  CP at 4w2d.
    IUI #2:    Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.
    IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN. 

    BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).

    the universe can fuck off.


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  • I'm sorry. That sucks! PCOS is the bane of my existence as well. Good luck with everything. I know it is really difficult to shift the weight with PCOS.
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  • Ugh, that sucks.  
    TTC #1 June 2010
    1/3/11 S/A - Count 45; Motility 32; Morph 4.3 - 2/10/11 - S/A Count 17mil; Motility 39; Morph 7.9
    1/5/11 Femara Cycle #1 = BFN  2/4/11 Femara Cycle #2 = BFP: 3/4/11 - Starting Progesterone suppositories 
    Beta#1 15DPO = 108; Beta#2 17DPO = 179; Beta#3 18DPO = 259; Beta 4# 20DPO =659!!
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    TTC#2 Pulled goalie 5/12, PPAF 3/13, BFP 6/27 Beta 15DPO=248! 
    Dx Severe Hydrocephalus and severe Dandy Walker Cyst.   Stillborn 10/19/13
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    TTC#3 - (No preventing, TTC+progesterone starting 12/13)
    4/7/14 CD3 BW - FSH 5.6; AMH 0.469 - 4/11/14 S/A Count 35, Motility 47, Morph 1.5
    4/16/14 - Cycle 6 - Natural IUI - Beta 12DPIUI = 3; Beta 13DPIUI=4.  15DPIUI=6. 17DPIU=4. Chemical Pregnancy  
    TTC #4
    5/5/14 Dx MTHFR homozygous A1298C, Benched 1 cycle HSG 5/14 both tubes open w/scarring on the left   
    5/28/14 Starting clomid 6/8/14 IUI #2 1 dominant follicle 31mm Beta 11DPIUI =4, 15DPIUI = 74, 17DPIUI = 165 
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