Would love some thoughts on this one... Some info - I'm 42 - fertility patient - first little man due on Saturday. My MDs have been very attentive, doing everything by the book because of my age, etc. Baby is active, no health issues with me. But at my last appointment, the doctor suggested for several reasons that I shouldn't go much beyond my due date because of possible complications/ risk of stillbirth. He suggests if baby is not here by Saturday (and my cervix is currently closed) that I be admitted Sunday night for cervidil (relaxes the cervix) and induction Monday morning. It has taken us 7 years to have this little guy, so I want to do what is in his best interest. Just a little freaked out and would appreciate any advice or points of view on this. Thanks! :-)
Re: MD recommending cervidil and induction
Edit- isn't baby's best interest to keep cooking until he's ready?
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
"Advanced maternal age" plays into it too though. I believe studies show earlier/faster placental deterioration when mom is AMA which increases risks of stillbirth.
LCT - 5.15.14 ~ 9lbs, 22.5 inches
The cervidil was not painful and those contractions felt like strong period cramps. I felt them for sure, but it was definitely tolerable and I slept through most of them. The cervidil helped to dilate me 1 more cm and it got me to 100% effacement. When my doctor broke my water, it did not hurt. They use this long plastic stick with a little hook on the end(or at least this was what mine did)...you feel it, obviously, but it wasn't painful.
Pitocin was started right after that for me, and those contractions started out somewhat painful and then got very painful. I endured those for about 2 hours and then asked for the epidural. I was 5cm when I got it. Within 2 hours I was fully dilated and ready to push. I know for some the epidural can slow down labor but for me, it made me dilate very quickly. I pushed for 50 minutes.
I have to say, I was worried, nervous, anxious about the whole process but I would do it over exactly how it was b/c overall it was a very good experience.
I just wanted to share with you b/c I thought you might want to hear a positive story.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
ETA: Sorry, I missed the AMA part. No experience or knowledge there, so I might be inclined to go with the doctor's recommendation if you trust his/her judgment.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
I think being AMA, induction is probably a wise idea if your doc says so.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
Good luck!
LCT - 5.15.14 ~ 9lbs, 22.5 inches