SO! Most of this morning I have been on the phone with Insurance and an RE in Amarillo, which is the closest to me about 2 hrs away.
Insurance will pay for my diagnostics 90/10 until I reach $4500 in costs, then 100% thereafter. Treatment isn't covered so it will be OOP. But hey, it is better than nothing!
The nurse at the RE office was a little reluctant at first when I gave her mine and DH's birthdate, since we are only 24 yo. But after explaining, that I do not have an IF dx, but I DO have pcos, insulin resistance, and endo dx's and that my OB has had me do a cycle of Clomid and wanted another round done, with no S/A she was really shocked and just couldn't believe they wanted me to do 3 rounds before ever testing DH.
So, I am awaiting a call back from the scheduling office, and we will go from there, we are basically starting all over it feels like, but with someone more competent it seems!
Thanks ladies for pushing me!
Thank you
@MrsLaurenandDan for helping me dig around to find an RE close to home as well!

ETA: I got a call back this afternoon, our consult is scheduled for June 18, which was my due date with my twins... bittersweet coincidence... I am really hoping our insurance covers a big chunk of the initial visit cost, which could be worse, I mean its only $353, but our vacation is the very next week to go see my dad... So, I am going to have to make some major "do withouts" until then!
Re: Starting over... :)
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
TTC #2 since 1/1/13
TTC #2 since 1/1/13
TTC #3 since June 2013
BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
PCOS and MF
Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15