My 2 year old came home on friday from preschool with a note about lice exposure. I checked her head that night and didn't see anything. The next morning, I checked again and found nits (not actual lice, thank the Lord!). We had to treat her hair, wet comb each piece of hair on her entire head on Saturday about three different times, wash everything in our house in super hot water and dry for at least an hour, and check everyone else's hair throughout the weekend for evidence of lice.
Then, last night I was pumping and noticed my pump flange was making a funny sound. I took off the flange to investigate and it looked like my flange membrane had been chewed on. I immediately told my husband to go check the cabinet for a mouse (we live in a historical house that was built in the 40s and it has a crawlspace and various areas that sometimes allow a furry enemy to sneak inside when the weather changes (the foam shrinks and expands with the temperature). So, he did and it turns out we have a mouse. So, I had to dump the 4 ounces of mouse milk that I had just pumped (which brings my stash back down to zero ounces) and even though I just wanted to burn everything in that cabinet, instead we had to put poison in there, seal it up, and then sanitize everything that had been in there.
So many icks...I will never forget the "lice and mice" Mother's Day weekend!
(The good news was that my husband had an incredibly rare weekend off so he could fight against the mice and lice with me, and he gave me "letters" from each of our kids detailing all the things going on in their lives right now and all the things they like about me and had them sign their names, and then gave me some origami clams with pearl earrings inside (one from each kiddo). So very sweet!!)
Re: Lice and Mice...
What a sweet Mother's Day gift from your DH though. He did a good job!
But as for my pump parts, I was using my spare flange, as my one that goes to work with me every day was already in my briefcase for the next morning. Usually I don't pump on the weekends, but I was trying to last night because I have zero stash and I thought it would be nice to have at least one bag in the freezer.
It has probably been 2 months since I used it, and I noticed right away that it was making a funny noise--although I didn't think to check it out until near the end of my session. I definitely didn't hear the noise last time--and from the small evidence of "droppings," I would say this is a pretty recent development. Regardless, it is super icky and gives me the shivers!!
Well, it's a good thing you don't have a stash then! Def gives me the creeps to think about it. Hope your house sells fast and you guys get out of there asap!
Well, it's a good thing you don't have a stash then! Def gives me the creeps to think about it. Hope your house sells fast and you guys get out of there asap!
Okay, so I have to ask you, as a doctor, about your mice phobia.
My husband is doing research work on baby mice that they give NEC to and then try to treat. I think mice are the most disgusting animals ever--but even my cold heart (towards mice) gets really sad and kinda anxious thinking about these baby mice getting NEC, getting killed, and then autopsied to determine the state of their intestines. So many maternal instincts--even towards animals I am totally grossed out by.
As both a doctor and a mom, can you deal with these kinds of experiments as well as you used to be able to? In theory, i am totally down with experimenting on millions of mice, I'd that improve the quality of life for any human babies. But I just can't even listen to that part of his work anymore (even though I used to be fascinated by it)--and I can't imagine if I were the one having to do it.
I don't understand? NEC is a devastating disease that kills a lot of premature babies every year. His lab is very humane, follows all protocols, etc. Do you think all experimentation is bad? If not, how do you weigh mouse lives against human lives?
I can't say that I've given much thought to the topic of experimentation on animals since becoming a mother. Im sorry that you have to think about it more often than the rest of us because your husband does lab work with mice. I probably wouldnt want to hear details about his experiments either. My opinion on the topic hasnt really changed since becoming a mom. Ultimately, I support some level of experimentation on rodents. Probably all the drugs I prescribe that help people feel better and live longer were tested on animals at some point in the approval process. I'm of the thought that humans are a special type of animal, in that we have personhood and that's how I justify weighing the two lives, as you say.