I grew up in a middle-class suburban town, and assumed I would teach in a community similar. Unable to find a position, I accepted a middle school language arts job in an urban school. I had alot of classroom management issues, but over the 8 years it's gotten better, though far from perfect. I spend a great deal of time, effort, and energy on behavior and getting any kind of writhing out of the students. We are also constantly testing. Most of the material is boring, I would love to teach novels but we use an anthology covering a story a week. I have no freedom and I'm given a calendar of exactly what I should be doing everyday.
On the other hand, behavior problems are so great and testing is such a priority, teachers get away with alot. I never feel uncomfortable taking a day off or leaving at the bell. I'm not pressured to stay late, chaperone, ect. There are tons of opportunities to make extra money with tutoring and study groups if I wanted and I'm paid well. Because the students are so unmotivated grading doesn't take a huge amount of time and feedback is easy to give. I don't bring any work home. This year I'm lucky because I'm coteaching so we split all responsibilities, although that may not happen every year. When my children are school aged I get out early enough that I'll be able to pick them up.
I still search for jobs every year, but I'm starting to wonder if I should. I have 2 young children and my work/life balance is perfect. Ideally I"d like to get involved in writing for a textbook or some sort of curriculum for a business, something that would give me a break from classroom management all together and hopefully allow a little more flexibility.
Would you stay in a job where you're not too happy during the day, but have from 2:25 on to yourself to enjoy your kids, or find a new position in a school you may (or may not) be happier in but lose time with your own children and have to pay for after care?
Re: teachers- would you change districts?
In terms of better behavior....I find no socio economic group is without its challenges. Case in point, I visited a friend's school over my spring break to see if it would be a place I'd ever want to teach. It's a private school in a very wealthy community. Some of these kids demonstrated very challenging behaviors in the 90 minutes I was with them. Parents too can be hard to work with at higher SES schools. Just something to think about. GL!