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May 2014 Moms
DaisyTortilla
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NBR/NPR- Rant rant rant!
DaisyTortilla
member
I'm pissed! First, I have a mild case of post partum depression. 
I finally come out with it and tell DH. Then, his dad calls at holy crap late, well it was 9, but that's late for us, we sleep like old people. Anyways FIL calls to announce he's coming down to visit in 3 days and plans to stay for 10 days! He already bought the plane tickets ad rented a car! Do what now?! The only reason he called to tell us was because his BFF, which happens to be a woman, told him it's inconsiderate because I just had surgery and I'm trying to adjust to life with 2u2. Darn straight I am! They are dead weight, no help at all just more stress and people to feed. My SIL was coming along because she wants to go to the beach every damn day and get a tan! Uh...firs of all... DH takes our only car to work, I can't drive, I can't get in the water, my incision is healing I don't want sand in it and I have a newborn and a 1 year old, I can't expose them to the sun so much, what is she crazy?! SIL is the rudest brat I've ever seen, won't even make her own bed much less clean or cook a meal, she says she's not girly so she doesn't do it. Umm...woman...what makes you think I'm the pink powderpuff girl??? The fact that I cook 3 meals a day, do laundry, clean the house and care for my children?? That's called being an adult...you should try it some time. Okay so, finally after much bickering we convince them that they need to post pone the trip, that they are paying with FILs moms credit card points. So he says, "okay, fine, set it up!" Why us?? We aren't the ones who hastened up and set up a surprise visit. Fine, whatever, we will do it just to get them to come later, I need alone time to gather myself and hopefully move past this depression. Well, we end up having to dish out more money than I'd like to cancel the flight so they can post pone it! Why do we have to pay for their bone headed idea?! GRRRR I'm on fire! Then MIL is still hounding us about wanting to know all the details about the birth of DS! Oh and as icing on the cake, I have a UTI and my hemi is poppin it's freaking head out again. I just want to be home alone and cry so I can start moving past all of this.
I finally come out with it and tell DH. Then, his dad calls at holy crap late, well it was 9, but that's late for us, we sleep like old people. Anyways FIL calls to announce he's coming down to visit in 3 days and plans to stay for 10 days! He already bought the plane tickets ad rented a car! Do what now?! The only reason he called to tell us was because his BFF, which happens to be a woman, told him it's inconsiderate because I just had surgery and I'm trying to adjust to life with 2u2. Darn straight I am! They are dead weight, no help at all just more stress and people to feed. My SIL was coming along because she wants to go to the beach every damn day and get a tan! Uh...firs of all... DH takes our only car to work, I can't drive, I can't get in the water, my incision is healing I don't want sand in it and I have a newborn and a 1 year old, I can't expose them to the sun so much, what is she crazy?! SIL is the rudest brat I've ever seen, won't even make her own bed much less clean or cook a meal, she says she's not girly so she doesn't do it. Umm...woman...what makes you think I'm the pink powderpuff girl??? The fact that I cook 3 meals a day, do laundry, clean the house and care for my children?? That's called being an adult...you should try it some time. Okay so, finally after much bickering we convince them that they need to post pone the trip, that they are paying with FILs moms credit card points. So he says, "okay, fine, set it up!" Why us?? We aren't the ones who hastened up and set up a surprise visit. Fine, whatever, we will do it just to get them to come later, I need alone time to gather myself and hopefully move past this depression. Well, we end up having to dish out more money than I'd like to cancel the flight so they can post pone it! Why do we have to pay for their bone headed idea?! GRRRR I'm on fire! Then MIL is still hounding us about wanting to know all the details about the birth of DS! Oh and as icing on the cake, I have a UTI and my hemi is poppin it's freaking head out again. I just want to be home alone and cry so I can start moving past all of this. 
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