I lost it today... Big time

Lena76 · May 2014

This is so embarrassing but here goes...

I've had pretty much zero interest in sex for the past few months. I was the same way when I was pregnant with DS. It's been hard on my husband and he's made more than his share of comments like "when can I ever touch you" or "will we ever have sex again?" He said this to me today while I was in the kitchen making lunch and I lost it.

I took off all of my clothes and stripped naked in the kitchen. I started crying and said "come on, let's go now," I think I scared the hell out if him.

I wish I had a desire but it's just not there. The last time we had sex it was so unenjoyable.

lexxctpx · May 2014

I'm in the same boat dude. I love H to death and think he's supah sexy but I'm just never in the mood. It blows because I really wanna be.

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Familyhugs922 · May 2014

Ugh. I hear ya.

Valancyy · May 2014

Same here. This is our 3rd so my husband pretty much expected to have pretty much no sex from when MS started until 6 weeks pp. I have 0 desire, none. And it hurts when we do try, not pain, just irritating.

I always get back to normal after birth, though. It's just the pregnancy hormones. I joke that my body knows it's already pregnant, so what's the point of wanting sex?

kcatboston · May 2014

I feel you pain. I had no interest when pregnant with DD and then for about 6-7 months after it hurt so bad which I guess can be an issue while breast feeding. We had one time that it actually started to feel good again & that's how we ended up pregnant.

Lena76 · May 2014

We just had a long talk and he apologized for being insensitive. Thanks for the support ladies! Here's hoping we get our mojo back soon!

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