Hi everyone! I'm sorry, but I can already tell you this is going to be long.
I am currently 9 weeks pregnant and was just told by my new MFM that doing a cerclage is not the protocol with previous preterm birth moms. I had a pre-pregnancy consultation with a different MFM in the same office (who, of course, became a stay-at-home mom 3 weeks ago), and she understood and respected my wishes to get a cerclage this pregnancy--even after explaining the normal protocol and the risks of a cerclage to me. I have to go to a different hospital and see different doctors this pregnancy, because my employer switched insurance and no longer covers the last MFM I had (who I completely loved and trusted 100%).
I also did a pre-pregnancy consult with my MFM from my last pregnancy, before I knew how much I'd have to pay out-of-pocket to go to him with our new insurance. He told me that he normally doesn't think about doing a cerclage until there are 3 preterm losses, or 2 preterm losses and another risk factor. He said, though, that I had every risk factor (5 different ones) in the book happen to me in my first pregnancy, so that's why he would recommend a cerclage.
Here's my history of my last pregnancy (2+ years ago).
1. Spotting at 5 weeks, ultrasound at 5w5d, discovered I have a bicornuate uterus (heart-shaped) with a complete split down the middle--basically, I have 2 half-uteruses. Was told I would probably have a breech baby, and there's a slightly higher risk for incompetent cervix, preterm labor, etc.
2. Referred to a MFM at 16 weeks for a consult. He was extremely informative and positive about BU's and said they'd start doing biweekly cervical length checks.
3. Started a cycle of cervix shortening, then the same measurement, then shortened a little more, then the same....very stressful.
4. At 24w2d, I was around 1.5cm and put on modified, home bed rest (too late for a cerclage). Started progesterone suppositories, I think--I may have started them sooner? Also got a round of steroid shots for baby's lungs.
5. At 24w6d, woke up soaked in blood, so went to the hospital (90 min away). Baby was fine, and I was dilated 1 cm. Was put on hospital bed rest for the remainder of the pregnancy.
6. At 29w6d, starting having contractions and my water broke. Had me on magnesium for 42 hours before they decided baby's heart rate wasn't variable enough and did an emergency C-section at 30w.
7. My daughter was in the NICU 7 weeks exactly and is a tiny little peanut still, but growing appropriately at 2 years, 3 months old.
What I'd like to know is:
1. Should I trust the new MFM's opinion, since he's the expert on high-risk pregnancies, even though the other MFM in his own office would have done a cerclage on me?
2. Is it possible to ask for a doctor who's more willing to do cerclages, and see him/her the rest of the pregnancy? I didn't really like this doctor's demeanor or explanations in general, so I think either way, I'd like a different MFM, but I don't know if doctor's offices will let you pick a doctor based on whether they believe in certain procedures more than others. Anyone with experience in that?
3. If there's anyone who has anything remotely similar to my history, I would love to hear if you got (or didn't get) a preventive cerclage for baby 2 (or 3), did you need an emergency cerclage, how things worked out, what your doctors said was the protocol, etc.?
I hate to question doctors, but I don't want it to be too late for a cerclage again this time and think "what if I had a cerclage?" I'm mostly mad that someone in the same office said she was willing to do a cerclage (which completely eased my mind), and now--3 weeks before I thought I was going to get the cerclage--I'm told "that's not the protocol--not just at this hospital, but nationally." I'm so not confrontational, so I didn't say a lot, but I told him I would feel more comfortable with a cerclage. He told me the same info over again about why it's the protocol. Ugh!
Thanks so much, and I'm really sorry it's so long!
Re: Cerclage this time after incompetent cervix/30 weeker last time?
I was told by his office that when/if we decide to have another I will have the cerclage placed in the first trimester. If I were you I would find someone you are comfortable with. You have been through a lot and the few people I know that have had preterm once have had it again. I would also ask about p17 shots too.
Good luck! I hope you can find a doctor that will understand your concerns!
@nola78, I would love to go to my local OB, because it's 25 minutes from my house (and 10 minutes from my work). I have to go to an MFM dr, and I want to. I went to an OB and MFM for my first pregnancy, and I completely transferred my care to an MFM once I was put on bed rest at 24 weeks. I want to be seen by an MFM dr solely this time, because our local OB clinic is not equipped to deal with high-risk pregnancies. The main OB there is a hot-head and told me last pregnancy (I only saw him once when my dr wasn't in the office) that I don't need to go to the high-risk clinic, because they're just trying to get my money. Yeah, and if I would've stuck with them, I never would've been checked for cervical length, and I worry what would've happened with a dr like him caring for me and baby. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't know how to do cerclages, if they even do them. I think they'd just send a person up to one of the hospitals I've gone to if they actually noticed someone needed a cerclage before it was too late.
My doctor that suggested I get the cerclage said many doctors won't do one until you've experienced multiple losses/preterm births but she thinks (and I completely agree) that it's inhumane. That's like saying you need to survive three serious car crashes without a belt before you decide a belt is a good idea.
It's still not concrete that I had IC (it could have also been due to an infection) as my cervix never shortened with this pregnancy. So it's hard to say if it is because I do not have IC, or if it is because the cerclage just did its job. In fact she was so snug in there I had to have a C section because she wouldn't come out. But my doctor said she wouldn't let me go through any future pregnancies without a cerclage, there is just too much at stake to risk it. If I were you I would shop around to find a doctor who will do one. The risks are very minimal for a preventative one, and not all doctors are right. I truly believe if I had been under the care of one of the other doctors in my practice, there is a good chance my daughter wouldn't be here right now.
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!
Our first pregnancy was a complete surprise (I have PCOS and just getting pregnant on our own was highly unlikely). My mom has IC-she was (luckily) diagnosed with her first loss, my older brother-who was born alive at 21 weeks, and lived only about an hour. (In 1982). She went on to have 5 successful pregnancies, all with cerclage. All 5 were c-sections.
I asked if this could be genetic, I was told there is no evidence that it is. At 19 weeks, I went to the ER for spotting, and I was 2-3cm dilated. I was admitted, and an emergency cerclage was attempted the next day. It was not successful, as during the procedure my water broke. Our daughter was born still 1 week later.
We decided to try again, and ended up seeing a RE, and finally conceiving after about a year of treatment. I had a preventative cerclage placed at 13 weeks, started procardia (preventative measure) at 15 weeks, modified rest at 15 weeks, weekly p17 shots weeks 20-35. Cerclage was taken out at 36 weeks, and I ended up being induced due to GD at 39+2. Our healthy daughter was born 7lb 13oz on Feb 3.
Without the cerclage and other measures that were taken, we wouldnt have made it. Definitely push for whatever care you are comfortable with!
dx PCOS 2007
BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011
TTC #2 starting 03/2012
RE starting 07/2012
05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!
Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!
Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.