May 2014 Moms

Where is your car seat?

AlexinavAlexinav member
edited May 2014 in May 2014 Moms
I'm a STM and my sons car seat was always in the middle but because he was the only one. Now he's 7 but still in a booster. So does the baby's car seat go in the middle still or is it best off the the side?

Where is your car seat? 173 votes

In the middle
41% 72 votes
On passenger side of the back seat
58% 101 votes

Re: Where is your car seat?

  • BKD1386BKD1386 member
    edited May 2014
    The infant seat should be in the middle, rear facing... especially if you have a car with side impact airbags.  We just went over this in childbirth class 2 weeks ago, and as a volunteer firefighter, that's what we've been told for proper placement as well.  It's the safest spot.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic image

    May 14 November Siggy Challenge: Least Favorite Part of the Holiday Season

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • Loading the player...
  • Both sides as we have captains chairs in the minivan and a hump in the middle of my car's backseat. Even if it was only one car seat, it'd still go on the passenger side as with DS because of the need to move driver seat all the way back.
    image

    T 2.12 | W 5.14

  • I am just nervous for my 7 yr old he seems squished I wonder if it will be safe to put the baby by the window since I don't have side air bags I just want them both safe and comfy
  • SMM1986SMM1986 member
    Baby's car seat is in the middle because the big kids are in boosters and they need the shoulder belt.
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickersLilypie Fifth Birthday tickers
    BabyFetus Ticker
  • Your kid will be safe putting him by the window. Depending on the car, the side positions can be just as safe. More importantly is a correctly installed and correctly used car seat.
    image

    T 2.12 | W 5.14

  • This is our second as well, so I looked up information on this topic not too long ago. The consensus seemed to me to be to put the "most vulnerable" kid in the middle. If you have a forward-facing kid, that one goes in the middle because he/she is automatically at a higher risk in a crash versus a rear-facing kid. Our current positioning is DS1 (3 y/o) FF in the middle, and DS2's seat RF (of course) behind the driver's seat. We are working on getting the installation and all inspected, so we'll see what they say. We've gone to two different places that we were told did inspections, only to find out they used to do them. We now have to call and make an appointment somewhere. 
    Pregnancy Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • TkhixenTkhixen member
    Our middle seat wasn't even with the rest of the seat...and no latch system there... So we did passenger seat...
    Married 3/30/13- me, 36  DH, 38
    BFP #1 4/15/13  EDD: 12/25/13- triplets M/C 6/1/13
    BFP#2 9/14/13   DD-born on 5/13/14



  • BKD1386BKD1386 member
    This is our second as well, so I looked up information on this topic not too long ago. The consensus seemed to me to be to put the "most vulnerable" kid in the middle. If you have a forward-facing kid, that one goes in the middle because he/she is automatically at a higher risk in a crash versus a rear-facing kid. Our current positioning is DS1 (3 y/o) FF in the middle, and DS2's seat RF (of course) behind the driver's seat. We are working on getting the installation and all inspected, so we'll see what they say. We've gone to two different places that we were told did inspections, only to find out they used to do them. We now have to call and make an appointment somewhere. 
    Have you tried your local fire department?  A lot of them do inspections
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic image

    May 14 November Siggy Challenge: Least Favorite Part of the Holiday Season

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • BKD1386 said:
    This is our second as well, so I looked up information on this topic not too long ago. The consensus seemed to me to be to put the "most vulnerable" kid in the middle. If you have a forward-facing kid, that one goes in the middle because he/she is automatically at a higher risk in a crash versus a rear-facing kid. Our current positioning is DS1 (3 y/o) FF in the middle, and DS2's seat RF (of course) behind the driver's seat. We are working on getting the installation and all inspected, so we'll see what they say. We've gone to two different places that we were told did inspections, only to find out they used to do them. We now have to call and make an appointment somewhere. 
    Have you tried your local fire department?  A lot of them do inspections
    Or your local police station.  I just got my car seat installed my a police officer today!
  • When it was just DD she was in the middle. Now that we have 2 kids rear facing in a small sedan with big chicco carseats it's gonna be one on each side. Maybe with different carseats we could do one in the middle, one on the side. Also our car doesn't have latch in the middle.
    GBCB!!! Regs, lurkers and newbies we are leaving TheBump. Come join us at the new place ****/board/50/14 image
  • My car has captain's chairs as well and because of how I park the garage we decided to put her car seat base on the passenger side. We put her on the driver's side in DH's car for the same reason. Based on our vehicles and the research I did it was the best choice for us.
    BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
    BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13
    7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions
    1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14
    Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 
    KAYLIE MARIE IS HERE! BORN 5/4/14

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 

    Lilypie - (nUwf)

    image 
    All AL-ers welcome in my posts! <3
  • Our car seats have always been on the sides because we have a slight hump in the middle of the back seat.  We can get a much tighter install on the sides. 

    As for LATCH being safer than the seat belt, my understanding is that either is fine.  The one that allows you to get the tightest installation is the safest bet.  That being said, we've always used LATCH because it is so easy to install.
    imageimage">BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • DD1 is behind the passenger seat, DD2 is behind the driver. Her car seat would fit in the middle (we have a minivan) but DD1 tosses things over and everything would land on the baby so we had to move her.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • My vehicle couldn't have the seat in the center while being secure. We just moved DD1's rear facing seat to the passenger side and put the infant seat behind the driver side.

    image

    BabyFetus Ticker
  • hfooterhfooter member
    We will be putting him in the middle in both cars. DH was fighting me on this thinking it wasn't the safest location until I made him do his own research.

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • sthomas1222sthomas1222 member
    edited May 2014
    You need to check your car manual and the manuals for the booster and car seats. This will let you know if you're even allowed to have 2 child restraints next to each other. If not then your only choice is one at each window (outboard) seat. Middle is only marginally safer so you're not doing harm by putting them there. There's no way I can get one securely in the middle and one next to it in my Prius even if it was allowed so no option here.

    ETA: CPST here. If you take your car/car seat to be checked at a police or fire station make sure they're trained. AND that they're not installing it for you! A CPST should not be doing installs but educating you so you can safely and correctly install and use your seat every time. https://cert.safekids.org/get-car-seat-checked

    image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Ours is still in the attack : / but it will go in the passenger side since DS is still facing
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    imageBabyFruit Ticker
  • Baby is going in the middle and older son passenger side.  I'm doing this mostly because our seat could go anywhere, but I can easily access and monitor the infant seat in the middle and my son likes to look out his window. 
    image
    Asher Benjamin and Lola Aisling

     Infertility
    PCOS, Progesterone Deficiency Disorder, Multiple Miscarriage
    Clomid, Metformin, Ovadril, PIO, P17 Iron/Platlet Tranfusion

    My Spring Babies! 
    <3 Angel Baby   Elisabeth Adelle  April 2008 <3
    Asher Benjamin  April 2010
    Lola Aisling  May 2014
  • giggler25 said:
    BKD1386 said:
    This is our second as well, so I looked up information on this topic not too long ago. The consensus seemed to me to be to put the "most vulnerable" kid in the middle. If you have a forward-facing kid, that one goes in the middle because he/she is automatically at a higher risk in a crash versus a rear-facing kid. Our current positioning is DS1 (3 y/o) FF in the middle, and DS2's seat RF (of course) behind the driver's seat. We are working on getting the installation and all inspected, so we'll see what they say. We've gone to two different places that we were told did inspections, only to find out they used to do them. We now have to call and make an appointment somewhere. 
    Have you tried your local fire department?  A lot of them do inspections
    Or your local police station.  I just got my car seat installed my a police officer today!
    We went to our local fire department. They told us we had to go to the main fire department. At that location we were told they no longer did them, and to call a specific phone number to make an appointment. I used the link someone posted above, and apparently they only do them at our local health department. Interesting. I need to get on it! I'm 40+4! Maybe the hospital can check it out if we can't get an appointment in time. Lol.
    Pregnancy Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • AAA does a free install even if you are not a member. They read over the manual for my car and it said that for my type of car it was best on the side, not the middle. So check out what your car model suggests.
  • SS? rear behind driver. After reading through car seat manual and car manual, the safest for us was using the latch systems which the middle seat doesn't have. Statistically, the driver side is less likely to be impacted in an accident (from what we read) and that's why we chose that.

    SS ours is on the drivers side as well. There are no LATCH hooks for the middle seat and after reading both the car seat and car manuels and some reading online we decided behind the drivers side was the safest option for us. We got our seat installed so securely with the LATCH system even though we could have done the middle seat with the belt we felt the best install for us was with the LATCH behind the driver.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    When Fluff Mail Arrives:
    image
  • mmksmmks member
    Our infant seat is still in the nursery.  I am tired of asking my husband to install it. He DID turn our older son's seat around to forward facing (at 3 yo) and moved it behind the passenger seat. 
    When he finally gets his ass in gear, it will be installed behind the driver's seat.  (He better not be trying to install it as I'm in labor!)  I read the same as @mimaloo, so will not have either child in the middle of our vehicle. 

    I decided that I wanted the older kid on the passenger side so that his seat will be on the sidewalk side when I have to park on the street.  That way I can put baby's seat on the sidewalk and strap my toddler in and then can just pop the baby in on the other side. 

    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker


    AlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers
  • I ended up putting the car seat on the passenger side. I read my car manual and I do not have side air bags. There are latch hooks so I could have put it anywhere in the back seat. I chose the passenger side because I can see the baby on that side. Now my son has space and everyone is happy.
  • Baby will be in the middle and DS is behind the passenger seat.

    Anniversary 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker  
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Congrats to my GP Sister from another mister Bruinsbabe!!

  • danabsddanabsd member
    My toddler is currently behind the passenger but will move behind the driver and the baby will be behind the passenger. The middle is not an ideal spot for a car seat in my. My toddler is still in the middle in H's car but will move into the same configuration once he needs to drive her places.

    image

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


    image


  • danabsddanabsd member
    This is our second as well, so I looked up information on this topic not too long ago. The consensus seemed to me to be to put the "most vulnerable" kid in the middle. If you have a forward-facing kid, that one goes in the middle because he/she is automatically at a higher risk in a crash versus a rear-facing kid. Our current positioning is DS1 (3 y/o) FF in the middle, and DS2's seat RF (of course) behind the driver's seat.
    I consider the infant to be the most vulnerable here.  Car seats are tested with front and rear impact crashes which are most the most likely and he main reason we RF.  I would have my infant in the middle given the choice. 

    image

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


    image


  • jschwind22jschwind22 member
    edited May 2014
    There is a FB group dedicated to car seat safety that is run by techs.  Everyone in this thread needs to be in it.  Much knowledge.  I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post the title of it on a public message board, but if you want to PM me I will pass it along. 
    My Blog
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers

    TTC #1 since February 2011
    Me: 29 (3/5/13- high NK cells)  DH: 28 (5/8/12- MFI low morph and motility)
    Cycle #21 (IUI#1), Cycle #22 (HSG 9/21/12) and Cycle #23 (IUI#2)=  image
    Cycle #24- December Snow Bunny IVF #1
    ER 12/6/12 (14R, 11M, 9F), ET 12/9/12 transferred 2 day 3 embies
    Bleeding and low betas=very cautious image C/P 5W3D
    Cycle #26 March Lucky Duck- FET #1
    scheduled 3/20/13- CANCELLED- lining issues
    Cycle #27 May Emerald- FET #1.2
    delayed- Starting Trental for 3 months + natural cycles Cycle #28-30=  image
    Cycle #31 August Shooting Star- FET #1.3 
    transferred 1 hatching blast 8/21/13= imageBetas 8/30 (108) and 9/3 (565)

    U/S 9/19/13- HR is 128!  U/S #2 10/4/13- HR is 174!
    It's a BOY!

  • danabsddanabsd member
    edited May 2014
    There is a FB group dedicated to car seat safety that is run by techs.  Everyone in this thread needs to be in it.  Much knowledge.  I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post the title of it on a public message board, but if you want to PM me I will pass it along. 
    Car Seats for the Littles. 

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/CarSeatsForTheLittles/?ref=ts&fref=ts

    image

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


    image


  • I'm changing my answer, we put both our convertible for DS and the infant seat in today and the only way they would both fit is one on each door.  The middle just would not allow us to put the other seat in level. 
    image
    Asher Benjamin and Lola Aisling

     Infertility
    PCOS, Progesterone Deficiency Disorder, Multiple Miscarriage
    Clomid, Metformin, Ovadril, PIO, P17 Iron/Platlet Tranfusion

    My Spring Babies! 
    <3 Angel Baby   Elisabeth Adelle  April 2008 <3
    Asher Benjamin  April 2010
    Lola Aisling  May 2014
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"