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Sexy time TMI question!

amholley1amholley1 member
in March 2014 Moms
WARNING: this thread involves booty play. If you're not cool with that, I'd click out ;)


So a lil background: before BFP my hubs was super into trying to get me into butt play. I never minded it, I was more into when he would stimulate the outside, but not go in. We never got too far because I felt like my bum was just too tight for it to be comfortable no matter how relaxed I was or how much lube we used. I should add I'm talking about fingers here too. Moving forward...

Last night we were fooling around. Well DH goes for the booty and I don't stop him. But it was different last night. My bum seemed more relaxed, and he was able to get a finger in no prob without lube. So my question is: have any of you ladies noticed a change? Am I the only one on this random situation? I gotta add that even vaginal penetration feels different and better. And for what it's worth, I had a vaginal delivery.



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  • amholley1amholley1 member
    @lw78 Raw Dog 4 Lyfe. I'm jealous of you. I used to be super against it, but I've opened up to it a bit more.



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  • PerkyErkyPerkyErky member
    I had a c-section so it might be different. But I've found vaginal sex to feel different and not in a bad way. We do some butt play with fingers only and I haven't noticed a change. I would guess though that things get stretched out and relaxed due to hormones during a vaginal delivery so it makes sense things have changed.
    Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.

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  • LittlePigeonLittlePigeon member
    I feel like my behind has been a mess since my delivery. When I told DH this he proceeded to inform me that whole I was pushing my anus prolapsed. No wonder everything hurts. I can barely shit, so nothing else is allowed in that region.
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  • amholley1amholley1 member
    @laura8388 I have a feeling tomorrow is gonna be way good for you. You're obviously totally healed, so get ready for it. I hope you get my luck and it feels better than before BFP!!!

    @ProudMommy030614‌ 15 years? That's awesome!! And while it's basically half (DH & I hit 8 years in July) I know what you mean. This is one thing that isn't too wild that can be introduced to liven things up.



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  • ProudMommy030614ProudMommy030614 member
    amholley1 said:

    @laura8388 I have a feeling tomorrow is gonna be way good for you. You're obviously totally healed, so get ready for it. I hope you get my luck and it feels better than before BFP!!!

    @ProudMommy030614‌ 15 years? That's awesome!! And while it's basically half (DH & I hit 8 years in July) I know what you mean. This is one thing that isn't too wild that can be introduced to liven things up.

    Yup 15 years we started dating when I was 16.
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  • mommyginabmommyginab member
    ProudMommy030614 said:
    Yeah after ds2 it was all things a go and now after ds3 we haven't done to much for fear of a BFP again. But yeah anything pretty much goes, 15 years together you gotta keep it fun :)
    Lol. True. Been with my baby 15 years and we've done things that would make ya blush.  :\">

    But as for the butt thing-we haven't gone there again-yet. 
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  • kelley72kelley72 member
    I have had all vaginal deliveries and am healed up nicely from this lo... no problems with bedroom funtime in any way, if you and your dh are good with it then enjoy
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  • StephBrim24StephBrim24 member
    So I'm not into butt play but I totally don't judge those of you that are. Whatever works! But as a totally clueless individual, this thread had me curious about the logistics. How do you...um...get that all clean for your man? Or is that just part of the deal?
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  • amholley1amholley1 member
    @StephBrim24‌ I like to use LO baby wisps now anyway since I always have some. As long as we've done it though, DH has never gotten poo on his fingers (I'm guessing that's your main question ;) )



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