August 2014 Moms

I want to cry and punch the cashier on the face

LunatinuvielLunatinuviel member
edited May 2014 in August 2014 Moms
I just went to the Fred Meyer and ready to pay for my stuff when the cashier asked me when I was due I told her on august and she replies aren't you a little bit big already for due on august.

Re: I want to cry and punch the cashier on the face

  • Do it! We will all back you up! What's she gonna say to a bunch of pregnant women?!

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  • Wtf!?! Did you say anything back to her?
  • I was shock for a few seconds and all I could speak was "you think so?" And she replies are you sure your not having twins :(
  • M&MaxM&Max member
    Ugh DHs sister said something similar to me last week. I promptly responded with oh are you a doctor now? Don't people learn you should never say something like that to a pregnant girl!! Crazy!

    Sorry you had to deal with that OP.
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  • I'll chip in for bail!
  • Um, I can't believe you didn't say anything! I totally wouldn't have been able to hold back. No matter what anyone thinks, there is apparently a little person the size of a cantaloupe in there (that is what week I am on). That is really big when you think about it. She is a twatwaffle.
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  • That is unacceptable. 

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  • LunatinuvielLunatinuviel member
    edited May 2014

    I can't believe I couldn't said anything either but, I just couldn't believe my ears :S


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  • thanks ladies


  • I texted my DH and he call me right away, thanks for all the support ladies
  • is just this is the first time that happens to me, I was actually worrying that I haven't gain much weight.


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  • I'm way bigger than you! You look awesome. F her and her unwanted opinions!
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  • Omg, I look like I'm carrying quints compared to you!

    Face punch that bitch!!!
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  • abirdd9abirdd9 member
    Id have looked him/her in the face and told them to F off.
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  • RannndiRannndi member
    People are clueless! I've amazingly only had one stranger ask what my due date was. I told her and she looked at my belly in astonishment. I said, "it's twins." She literally let out a sigh of relief. I can't blame her though, in my case.

    But you?! Really?!?! Are you even pregnant? ;)

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  • RacllaRaclla member
    I guess they don't teach customer service anywhere any more.

    I can almost understand random people being ignorant, but anyone in customer service is supposed to stay nice and positive.
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  • Girl, I feel you. People have been saying this to me for weeks now. Even pulling the "yikes" face. It's not ok and I am not sure when people are going to get that these types of unsolicited comments aren't appropriate. Goes for the opposite too - "Oh you're so small!" Everyone carries differently!!
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  • @Rannndi‌ So when people ask "Are you sure it's not twins, " how fun is it to say "yes, it is?" And how do people do react? Apologies for the hijack OP--you have my sympathies. When this happens to me I think I'll try the Carolyn Hax "really?" accompanied by raised eyebrows and disbelieving expression--which I'm sure would go right over the head of anyone socially clueless enough to say this!
  • poofwokpoofwok member
    So rude. Like clearly she knows what she's talking about. =D>

    Stupid biatch.
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  • Some people amaze me at how stupid they are. You look great! Forget that idiot!
  • you: "do you need to sit down?"
    Cashier: what?
    you: "Well I just figured, it must be hard standing there with one foot on the ground and the other in your mouth"

    Is what I would have thought to say after I left the store if she had said that to me.
    It sounds like the cashier needs a refresher course in sensitivity.

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  • sjs1013sjs1013 member
    When did it become ok for people to be so rude to pregnant women?  I'm not sure I would have been able to hold myself back from hitting her.
  • Pay them no attention- you look fabulous!  People have no clue.

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  • RannndiRannndi member

    @Rannndi‌ So when people ask "Are you sure it's not twins, " how fun is it to say "yes, it is?" And how do people do react? Apologies for the hijack OP--you have my sympathies. When this happens to me I think I'll try the Carolyn Hax "really?" accompanied by raised eyebrows and disbelieving expression--which I'm sure would go right over the head of anyone socially clueless enough to say this!

    This is what amazes. The large, pregnant chick WITH twins is the only one that doesn't get asked about it! Lol

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  • Ew!! You aren't alone -- when I was PG with DS I went to the pool to swim laps. Lifeguard: "wow I thought you would have had the baby by now!" I was 27 weeks

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  • toroojitorooji member
    Ugh!  I'm sorry she said that!  People can be so stupid :(
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  • I have not yet had even one stranger comment or ask if I'm pregnant. Having said that, if and when someone does and is that rude, God help them! I can't believe the number of people who speak before they think!

    Screw that lady, I commend you for not giving her an earful! I think you look great!
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  • Wow what a bitch. I'm a cashier and I mind own business although people comment on my pregnancy all the time. Some lady told me she could tell I was pregnant because my face got chunkier, what the hell! Why would you say that to a pregnant woman?
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  • That is insane...you are tiny!!!
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