Bad News/Good News/Thanks

carafern · May 2014

Well, we found out today that although we had seen a heartbeat at 8 weeks, Baby B stopped developing a couple weeks ago and is no longer viable. I am very sad.

In good news, Baby A looks great and is measuring right at 11 weeks 5 days. She was moving around and had 150 heartbeat. I'm trying to focus on that. Its funny to think that we were really only hoping for one, so two was just a double blessing, and now being back to one should still be great, right? Still its hard.

I'm also disappointed to leave all you ladies. This board has been so helpful and supportive. So thank you for that. I feel informed if I ever do have twins at some point, but it won't be with this pregnancy. Goodbye and best of luck with your beautiful babes.

JenyB6 · May 2014

So sorry, I went through something similar but a little different when I lost one baby in a previous pregnancy. We didn't know it was twins at the time but found out later. I still felt sad and had to grieve the life that would have been. What you are feeling is completely normal and make sure you allow those feeling to happen. Good luck with baby A. I pray that you will have a wonderful pregnancy.

katekat8721 · May 2014

So sorry to hear about baby B. I hope you and baby A continue to have a healthy and uneventful pregnancy!

24karat · May 2014

I'm sorry for your loss. Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy with Baby A.

jocie2581 · May 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy with baby A.

rcnavywife · May 2014

I am sorry for your loss of baby B. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy with baby A.

lynnyrd80 · May 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost baby b in my first pregnancy at 8 weeks, but went on to have a healthy singleton pregnancy. DS is now almost two!

It is totally ok and normal for you to grieve for baby b that you lost even though you are still excited for baby a. To me it felt like any other early loss probably would. I had already had hopes and dreams for that baby.

manateeliz · May 2014

So sorry for your loss...good luck with the rest of your pregnancy.

absolutelymaybe · May 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you the best with the rest of pregnancy and a healthy, happy baby.

Rannndi · May 2014

I'm so sorry to hear this. Try to hang in there and rest for your Baby A. Thoughts and prayers to you!

Lisasugar · May 2014

I am so sorry, I hope the very best for your lo and you

MsMolly520 · May 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy with Baby A. T&P.

kdarden15 · May 2014

So sorry. Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers

morrkim · May 2014

I'm so sorry, I hope the rest of your pregnancy is uneventful and good.

Angelahelena · May 2014

Words are lacking in this situation. I know it's hard. I lost six so the pain is hard. Hang in there. Positive thoughts for the rest of your pregnancy