I am 32 weeks. .although they have given me two different due dates throughout my pregnancy I think they were right the first time so I say 33 weeks. anyways my doctor has not talked about having a final ultrasound yet. I really want one because my last pregnancy my doctor refused to do one and he was much bigger than planned. I don't know that I could deliver a baby much bigger than what my son weighed. when do you usually have your final or growth ultrasound? I go back in on Monday and would like to ask him about it.
Re: when do you usually have your growth ultrasound?
With my last, I had the scan at 32 or 34 weeks, I can't remember. Not all practices do them routinely.
and I agree with PP just because you are petite doesn't mean you will necessarily have trouble delivering a larger baby vaginally. your body has an amazing knack for accommodating childbirth like it was built for it or something
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Being petite does not mean that you would not be able to deliver a large baby. There is a medical condition that some woman have that, due to abnormalities of the pelvic structure, they cannot deliver vaginally, but it is pretty rare (in comparison to how many women seem to be told they are "too small").
The reason that many providers don't do late ultrasounds is because, according to medical research, ultrasound weight measurements are incredibly unreliable. So basically, there's a good of a chance of your provider telling you that you are having a small baby and you delivering a "large" baby, and vice versa. If there was a way to truly, accurately, predict the weight of the fetus, than I could understand wanting one, but unfortunately it's just a crap shoot as to whether the estimate would be correct.
If you're concerned about delivering a larger baby, I would suggest looking into different positions for delivery, such as squatting or hands and knees, that actually help to open up your pelvis so there is more room for baby to come through.
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1) Just barbecue because you and DH were large babies does not mean that you will give birth to a large baby. There are many other factors at play that could effect your baby's birthweight besides genetics (and mother's birth weight is much more closely linked than father's) (trust me, I checked, DH was over 11 lbs at birth with the shoulders of an NFL linebacker)
2) Even if the doctor predicts the baby is 8 lbs based on ultrasound, it is equally as likely that the baby is actually 6 lbs (since u/s technology is so unreliable at this stage).
3) People give birth to babies that are more than 8lbs every day, and I would think that the potential side effects of delivering a larger baby are much better than the potential side effects of inducing the delivery of a child who has not yet finished developing to the point he/she is ready to be born.
Edited becuase..barbecue? Really?
Edit: forgot to mention the doc predicted my daughter would be 5-6 pounds tops. He was wrong.
Also I know a lot of women who have had 8-9lb babies via vaginal birth. I'd rather talk to my doctor about options for delivery rather than say "induce me ASAP". Your OB might not even induce before 40 weeks for anything other than necessity (mine won't).
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