hey ladies!
i have been lurking the board for a few weeks and am excited to have a place that is supportive of natural birth. i am 30, the hubby is just turning 29 in two weeks (and freaking out a bit about it) and i am due with our first in august. i live in portland, oregon, which is overall a pretty supportive place for natural birth and my midwife practice is great. As a nurse, i'm really pretty comfortable with the hospital environment but not medications when they are not necessary and really do not want an epidural and would like to avoid all meds if i can. even though i am getting a lot of support, i am also getting a lot of negativity from people (especially coworkers). it's frustrating and starting to wear on me and i think beginning to psyche me out.
i also am currently in grad school and between that and work i'm having a really hard time finding time to prepare myself since i can't take any regular classes. i am doing the hypnobabies home study but have also been told prenatal yoga is super helpful. unfortunately, they really only have classes on sundays and i am always at work or at school on the weekends. did anyone find anything else helpful or know of some good prenatal yoga videos? Thanks and happy to join you guys!
Re: intro and prenatal workout recommendation question
As for supportive people, you will run into more of those than supportive ones. Sadly enough our society fears child birth and views it as a scary process. The best thing to do is not discuss your plans (like PP mentioned). My H and I stopped talking to anyone about it as we did not want to hear their comments. We did tell everyone afterwards (as they always asked) that I went natural and how great it was!
I think a large part of it is believing in it and being completely confident about your choice. I don't need to discuss with anyone else (except my H and people like the above) in order to solidify my thoughts and feelings. I'm due in 5 weeks and this confidence just fully established over the past few - so just keep practicing and reading up and it will come!
it was not a super-intense workout, but i always felt great after i did it. it also has a post-natal workout.
LO then (2 days) and now (1 year)