December 2013 Moms

Unswaddling success (?)

Thought I would share our unswaddling technique that seems to be working, as I've seen a few threads lately that I was also following for insight on what to do.

So after about 1.5 weeks of LO effectively putting himself down for naps and bedtime (we did CIO, however he took right to it and it's a few minutes of fussing and he's conked out) we decided to try removing the swaddle. In our attempts, we found it was easier to start at night because he was so tired by then, he didn't flail as much. But we didn't start it right at bedtime, we did it after his first wakeup. He's still in a sleepy state, but hungry. DH tried it a couple nights ago and went with both arms out. LO slept from 11-5 without waking himself up. When I went in at 5, his arms were ice cold (short sleeve onesie, DH didn't think about it) so I bundled him back up.

I was home with him yesterday so I tried his naps with both arms out. Didn't go well, as he's more alert during the day and was flopping all over. So I did just the left arm out for all naps and he did great.

Last night at bedtime he was overtired, so when both arms out was not working, I tried one arm and that still was not working, so we swaddled. But again, after the first wakeup, we took both arms out and he was like that the rest of the night.

Definitely a work in progress and we are not done, but I consider 9 hours unswaddled pretty damn good. I really was dreading starting this process at all, but it has gone fairly well.

Re: Unswaddling success (?)

  • wmarleywmarley member
    I hope it continues to work! I've been stuck with one arm out for about a month now. He won't sleep with both out. DH thinks I'm going to make him left handed by always swaddling his right arm...
     
     
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  • Well then I just dropped him off and told daycare that we were working on him not being swaddled and she goes "oh we haven't been swaddling him here" *facepalm*

    Little dude has been pulling 3 hr naps at daycare too. Wtf!
  • Jen4033Jen4033 member
    I started trying last week at night time bed time. I found that when I was nursing him at bedtime then go to put him in his swaddle, he would stay asleep pretty well when I laid him down. so for a few nights we started cold turkey no swaddle. He did well the first couple nights sleeping at least 7 hours. but things got progressively worse each night after that. so I decided to go back to swaddling him for now. I'll get a little catch up on my sleep and then try again maybe next week with one arm out.

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