Taking a break...

LongIslandMama1114 · May 2014

After some hard long thinking, it looks like the boyfriend and I will be separating. Maybe some space will bring us back together. Maybe not. I'm not going to get into a long drawn out story about here as I'm sure no one really wants to hear it all. I just hope that he stands by being a father to this baby. I'm a ball of mixed emotions right now, as can be expected, I guess.

Anyhow...just needed to get that out. Thanks for listening.

missnacholover · May 2014

So sorry to hear.

RachelC79 · May 2014

Man, sorry to hear this. Life can be tough.

lizzielu82 · May 2014

I'm so sorry

PandaCon · May 2014

Sorry to hear that.

morrkim · May 2014

I'm so sorry.

kjmommy1214 · May 2014

Sorry about your relationship. Stay strong anf I hope everything works out for the best (no matter what that may be).

ColtiersMom · May 2014

I'm sorry to hear that but their is plenty of great single moms out there (just in case you become one). Keep your head up and everything will work out:)

TeeJ526 · May 2014

I'm sorry. I hope that things work out well for you.

Maelara · May 2014

I'm so sorry

give yourself some time and distance. I hope everything works out!

jessa1228 · May 2014

I'm sorry. Good luck to you.

mockingjay1 · May 2014

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I hope everything works out.

FishyMom · May 2014

I'm so sorry, I hope you are doing ok.

MollMoll4 · May 2014

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope everything works out for the best.

smboswell1 · May 2014

You are not alone! Hoping that both of our BF's come around! I'm here if you want to talk:)

melissajam · May 2014

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope everything works out for the best.

Acedit · May 2014

So sorry! But you can do it... and for the baby I know you will. I have friends who stuck with the father of their child for the sake of the child through the pregnancy and it caused a lot of stress and tension. Looking back I know they all wished they would have parted ways and worked on being parents then on being together..... and they would have been more prepared when the baby came. Instead they split up shorttly after the babies were born which caused alot of stress at a supposed to be enjoyable time. Keep your head up.

Jpinky9 · May 2014

I am so sorry to hear this!!! It's a rough place to be! I really hope things work out for the best!

LongIslandMama1114 · May 2014

Thanks so much ladies. I appreciate all your kind words and support. I know that I will continue to do what's best for this little baby. It's just hard because I grew up without a father and this is NOT what I wanted. But, I'll be 35 this month. I have a great job with great benefits and a lot of support from my family and friends. No matter what happens, I will be ok. That's what I need to keep reminding myself.

icaughtfire · May 2014

Sorry to hear. Hope all works out for you.

ejoy0101 · May 2014

Sorry to hear. But you sound strong and you are right, you have everything you need for you and baby to be ok. He's the one that will be sorry on what he's missing out on right now. Maybe he's going through some things and needs to figure it out and hopefully he will do the right thing. But trust me, you only need positive, supportive and loving people in your life. It's best that all others stay away.

RedBirdFly · May 2014

I'm sorry to hear that. My ex and I should have split up before our son was born, but we stuck it out for almost a year after he was trying to be a family for him. @Acedit‌ is right - it was really stressful for us, and would have been much more enjoyable for both of us had we not been together.

DoubleUp8 · May 2014

I'm sorry to hear about this. I hope you can figure out what is right for you both and for the baby.

Autumnsnow · May 2014

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope everything works out for the best.

ktibbits1 · May 2014

I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. Do something nice for yourself, you deserve it!

LongIslandMama1114 · May 2014

Thanks again ladies. It's great to have the support here.I appreciate you all so much.

brooklyngirl18 · May 2014

I'm sorry to hear your relationship didn't work out but i agree with PP- it is good it's happening now and not once the baby is born. Take care of yourself and stay strong.

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