Pregnant after a Loss

Intro... excited to be here!!

Hi!! I'm super excited and a little shocked to be joining you ladies. I had a miscarriage last month. I was 5 months along. I was absolutely heartbroken because we have a healthy daughter that was born last May and I really didn't think this would happen to me since the last pregnancy went almost perfectly. The doctor told us to wait 2 cycles to try again. We weren't actually trying because I had no idea when I was going to ovulate. For about a week I had been having pregnancy symptoms so I took a couple tests they were negative but then I took another one Friday and BFP!!! My husband and I are soooo excited! But I'm also really nervous!! Every time I feel a cramp or if I don't feel symptoms for a few hours I start to really worry! I'm sad that I'm worrying and I hope I can relax and enjoy this pregnancy. Also, I'm worried the doctor will be mad since she told us to wait?

Do you have any advice on how to get through these early weeks without going crazy? Also, has anyone not waited the amount of time the doctor said and still had a healthy baby?


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Re: Intro... excited to be here!!

  • megbmegmegbmeg member
    Congrats & welcome! Hang in there. You're pregnant today and that is great!

    As for the not waiting, we were in a 3 month wait after surgery & accidentally conceived in the 3rd wait month. It happens. Hopefully it is no problem & I don't think your doc will give you any grief over it. 
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  • congrats and welcome :)

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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    Welcome and congrats!
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  • Congrats and welcome! I'm also sorry to hear about your loss. I don't have any advice but just try to relax as much as you can even though it is very difficult.

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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    Welcome and congrats!!
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  • jnedenjneden member
    Thanks everyone!! I'm trying to stay calm but I'm feeling a little lower back cramping today and its freaking me out. @RN536 I started bleeding on a Friday and my levels were already down to a 7. My OB checked them on the Monday and they were a 1. 
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