Hi all,
I've been lurking for some time. I have a ten month baby boy and work full time. I was wondering what are some ways you save and what are you saving for, if anything?
We buy store brands, except ketchup lol, changed cell phone providers and are debating cutting cable (hubby wants to, I'm a little hesitant). We are trying to save for a house. It's real expensive where we live but I would love my baby to grow up in a house, especially with a yard/garden. Thanks!
Re: Saving
Call all your providers (Cable, Cell phone, etc) and see what type of discounts they have to offer. Sometimes if you hint at them that you are thinking about cancelling they will give you a promo price for services.
A great savings trick I read is the $5.00 trick. Every time you receive a $5.00 bill you put it away in savings. It could be the change you get back at the store, or out to eat, or for a gift. Every single one you put away.
Also, if your pay check is direct deposited work with the bank to have some money automatically taken out of your check and put into a savings account. Out of site out of mind.
We are trying to save more money b/c I am pregnant with baby3 and we are planning for me to SAH. I shopped around for our auto/home/life insurance and saved us about $150/month. We also paid off one of my student loans. I know that the biggest area where I can cut spending is on food. Right now with MS I am doing a terrible job of cooking and we've been eating out a lot. I think once I'm out of the 1st tri, I'll be able to get my act together and start meal planning and budgeting again. My other weakness is buying stuff we don't "need". I need to work harder on setting and sticking to a budget for these discretionary purchases.
We need to replace DH's car in the next 1-2 years. After that, I would like to do some major projects on our house. We already have an adequate emergency fund and are saving for retirement.
We manage our savings in both conventional ways (401K deductions and auto transfers from paycheck), as well as, budgeting. But we also invest in real estate/rental houses (we have 2 currently). This grows our net worth, but not necessarily our current cash flow. They are a good long term savings avenue and they have reduced our tax liability so more of our money is working for us, and less for the government. Long term we also consider them our DD's college fund as they will be paid off and producing steady additional income when she enters college.
We generally have 1-2 large projects, or purchases that we plan for during the current year to take place the following year (and our tax return and our bonuses usually provide the majority of the funding) but we do save some toward these goals every month. Last year we planned to have our pool refinished and a safety cover installed this year. This year we are planning on purchasing a new vehicle and for a maternity leave (hopefully) for next year.
Also I will echo the pp about not necessarily shopping for bargins, and also staying out of stores. I do almost all of my shopping online, or in thrift stores/Craigslist/Mom2Mom type sales. I buy almost everything for DD second hand. I look for name brand and quality items that have been lightly used and generally save a TON. X-mas, birthday's. other gifts and items we need I buy online to reduce any impulse, add-ons, or unnecessary purchases I would be prone to if shopping in a store. I don't coupon. I buy in bulk all our staples which allows us to shop much less frequently (about every 8-12weks) and only shop for fresh produce and perishables every two weeks.
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Stay out of the home decor aisles of Target (or whatever your impulse shopping weakness is) to avoid temptation.
Like a PP said, our biggest money savers are not cutting coupons or turning lights off when we leave a room, they are big things- small home with a small mortgage payment (could you consider renting a cheaper place?), old cars we paid cash for (just sold a 14 year old car to buy a 10 year old car from my grandma) and cheap vacations.
Also, IMO you should have a plan for savings. It's not necessarily a good idea to throw all your savings toward a downpayment on a home, especially if your employer has a 401k match that you're not taking advantage of. Retirement is important too.
It was WAY easier and less noticeable than I had feared. We should have TOTALLY done it sooner.
Honestly what helped us save the most was staying out of the stores. Period. We would always find something that we thought we "needed" and think we were saving money because it was on sale. The only shopping we do right now is groceries. We buy clothes for DD when she actually "needs" them and has outgrown her old clothes. I stopped buying clothes just because.
We also never eat out. Eating out and take out is a rare treat for us.
I would love to get rid of cable but these damn cable companies. We hardly ever watch tv but it is actually more expensive to have just internet than to have internet and cable. We have basic cable with internet right now because just the internet was actually more expensive. I've been contemplating getting rid of cable AND internet next year when I am on maternity leave because I will be home for 9 months and it will be tight. I mean people survived for many years without it right?