In law advice anyone?

Mama3007 · May 2014

So basically like the title said I was looking for a bit of advice about my sister in law. Without making it too long this is the gist. She helped me plan my wedding, threw my bachelorette party and ultimately ended up being my maid of honor because I felt we were that close. Wedding day comes and her and brother in law leave immediaty after the ceremony. I thought it was kinda rude but no big deal. Then they kicked our nephew out of their house for reasons I understand so he comes to stay with us, well at they went to Texas for Christmas and bring our other nephew up here. Drop him off at our house on Christmas Day with no notice, no mention of it and basically no consideration for our plans. They come back for him before we went to my family's so again not really a big deal just a little rude. Well then they decide they don't want him staying with them anymore so they try to move nephew #2 in with us. Definitely rude and definitely not happening since they never even consulted us before going to Texas and getting him. Since then sister in law and I haven't had much to do with each other mainly because of our schedules and I feel somewhat awkward around her now and although I have tried every way for us to be family she is more interested in befriending my sister. Now her daughters birthday is coming up and I've found out that she is inviting my husbands ex girlfriend there. We plan on going because it would look silly if we didn't and I have no reason to be jealous or intimidated by her being there. But I'm a little upset that he would do that and all the other shitty things she's done but really don't know how to handle it since I've never been in a situation like this. Advice ladies? All is appreciated! Sorry this was so long needed to vent a bit too.

secretsout · May 2014

When my family irritates me, I just look at this picture and ignore their b.s.

Otherwise, if I were you, I'd just play nice to keep the peace but interact as little as possible and do your best not to play into the drama.

dholsapp · May 2014

If you had married Zayn you wouldn't even care about your inlaws. Because you have Zayn in your bed...

Rach7170 · May 2014

Lol

kimmycup · May 2014

Lmao wow you ladies are awesome. OP you might want to post this on your birth board or..anywhere but here.

Mama3007 · May 2014

Yeah maybe lol. I'm not too familiar with everything yet I saw the "chit chat" and assumed this would be were that question went but I don't think so lol.

Hesterlicious · May 2014

This is why they should have let us do our own board description.

OP, she's not that into you. Drop the rope. Do what is best for your family and don't worry about her.

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