Ok so this post will have some TMI but here goes.So last night we finally ya know and the minute we were done she starts touching my belly and freaking out because the baby wasn't moving I told her its because she was asleep clearly she didn't believe me because she kept rubbing and pressing my belly till Averie finally kicked.Then she kept asking me are you sure its safe to do this? I said yes unless you have a complicated pregnancy which I don't and she started to freak out thinking my water was going to break lol please tell me I am not the only having to deal with this??? Hormones are crazy and I really want it but she is freaked out by it .
Honestly? I'd head over to your BMB (Birth Month Board). This topic always seems to get adressed there at length! I'm assuming actual specifics wouldn't matter (in terms of WHAT you're doing), and it might help put your mind at ease ... you can probably do a quick search and find tons of conversation on the topic.
Good luck!
Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 TTC since 6/11 Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11 Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!! Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13
On to #2, are we crazy? IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP! Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043 Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat. Say hello to Sticky Ricki!
It seems healthy and normal that your so might feel weird for lots of reasons... For one thing there's a whole other person in bed with you! She's also aware of the health stuff too. That's good mom instinct! But then again, you need to do it, too! Have you tried any kind of outfit/lingerie/clothing change? Even a see through tee shirt or nightgown (depending on your style) might help to distract from the human being in your belly! Good luck!
Thanks guys I think I will just ride it out we only have 10 weeks left.Even after asking the doctor she is still fearful it will somehow hurt Averie and I'm now so big and uncomfortable and not really in the mood everything from the hips down hurts daily.So not much of a issue .
Re: anyone else's SO weirded out??
Honestly? I'd head over to your BMB (Birth Month Board). This topic always seems to get adressed there at length! I'm assuming actual specifics wouldn't matter (in terms of WHAT you're doing), and it might help put your mind at ease ... you can probably do a quick search and find tons of conversation on the topic.
Good luck!
Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10
TTC since 6/11
Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN
Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13
On to #2, are we crazy?
IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP! Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat. Say hello to Sticky Ricki!
But then again, you need to do it, too!
Have you tried any kind of outfit/lingerie/clothing change? Even a see through tee shirt or nightgown (depending on your style) might help to distract from the human being in your belly!
Good luck!