I'm wondering if anyone has taken a vacation without their child and how it went? We would like to take a vacation that would be about a week long and our son will be 22 months. D/S would stay with one grandmother half of the time and the other grandmother the other part of the time. He is VERY used to one grandmother as she watches him while I work, but he sees my mother less frequently as she spends part of the year in FL and lives an hour away the rest of the year. D/S is good being away from us for 1-2 nights at the time at either grandmother and there are no issues at all (and he seems to even act better behaved than he does with his father and me). We technically could bring him with us, but his father and I were hoping to have a vacation by ourselves as we are just getting back together after an 8 month separation.
I already feel guilty just thinking about being away from him for so long, so I'm not sure what I should do I keep stressing out about him feeling like we "abandoned" him. Has anyone had a toddler-free vacation that went well? Thanks for your help!!
Re: Vacation without D/S?
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
We just got back from the beach on Friday. DS is 13 months, and he stayed with my mom. I missed him of course, but I thoroughly enjoyed myself and would go without him again tomorrow, no question . It was amaaaazing to just get to enjoy DH, relax, shop, and eat without interupption! DO IT!
Just wanted to add that the only time he had stayed the night away from us before that was one night a couple weeks ago as a "practice run" for vacation. He did great, he's still totally on schedule. I have absolutely zero regrets.
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