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I just need to vent...and need some encouragement.

cnchavez69cnchavez69 member
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I have a 5 year old little miracle already, and this precious bundle who is due in July.  And i've been dumped by the man I thought was different from all the others.  I'm having a really hard time coping and keeping my stress level down right now.  I've never been so hurt and crushed as I am now.  I guess I just needed to be around other mothers right now because my excitement has been diminished somewhat by this new turn of events.  Something I never saw coming.  My ex husband started cheating on me when our son turned 8 months old because he couldn't handle the responsibility and I very much thought this time around it would be so different.  I can't believe history is repeating itself and I'm so lost. 
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Re: I just need to vent...and need some encouragement.

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  • ArmyMedic7588ArmyMedic7588 member
    I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. I can not imagine how I would handle it. I agree with washingtonqueen though to check out the single parents board. I have a friend who went through this awhile back and I know she found a lot of comfort in her close friends and family. Hopefully you have a good support system of people you can talk to. My thoughts and prayers are with ya during this! Some day your LOs will grow up and know how amazing and strong their momma is that you are able to take care of them the best you can and that you eventually pulled through this tough time.
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  • allrightmeowallrightmeow member
    Im very sorry you're having to deal with these things now.  
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  • RaeJ004RaeJ004 member
    I cannot imagine what you are going through, just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you.  That baby is lucky to have one strong mama!
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  • cnchavez69cnchavez69 member
    Thank you ladies, I really appreciate the words of encouragement.  I just wish i could think clearly on this one.  I have no idea what the future holds at all but I guess if I did it once I can do it again.....as much as it clearly sucks!  I know i'm strong, its just nice to have that special someone who you thought you could count on. 
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  • dschneider1583dschneider1583 member
    So sorry that you are going through this. Wishing you the best as going through this. I cannot even imagine. I will be praying for you, that you find the strength to pull through.

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  • mother08amother08a member
     Hi, Sorry for the late reply.... I just hit trimester 3.  I am sorry that you  are going through this. I am 29 weeks pregnant and the same happened to me . This is my second  marriage,  and unfortunately, he walked out on me.  It is going to be hard, but nothing is impossible.  Just be strong and take care of your little miracles....
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