I announced my BFP in the 2WW thread about a week ago. I asked to hang around until I had beta's confirmed because this wasn't the first time I've been through this. I had beta's drawn a few days after that and they only showed 20. I took a HPT at home and it was stark white negative on Mon. An hour later I went in for betas and an hour after I got home I began to bleed pretty heavily. Beta's came back today at 5. Guess this just wasn't our month either.
If some of you ladies who have unfortunately been through multiple losses can help me make sure I cover all my bases that would be awesome. My OB does want me to come in and have repeat loss testing done. Is there anything I should ask specifically? My LP's are fine, I don't seem to have any spotting...not sure why this keeps happening (obviously, or I'd fix it). No genetic histories on either side. DH is a smoker and I am a former smoker if that matters, quit awhile ago.
After my CP in Jan he didn't make us TTA at all, but after my MMC we TTA for 3 months per his orders. They ruled this as a blighted ovum, even though it seemed a lot like a chemical pregnancy to me. Only difference was in Jan I took one test that was barely positive, by that night it was negative and I was bleeding. This time I took a test at 9 dpo, got BFP's that were getting darker until 14 dpo. No test 15 dpo, 16 dpo was stark white. So I was thinking it was another chemical?
Thanks for all your help ladies. I've been MIA for a bit because this one hit me really, really hard and I needed some time. DH hasn't been very helpful, I don't think he knows what to say and he just wants to pretend it never happened and move on to the next month. Which is fine, but I need a minute. I'm so glad I have you ladies here to talk to. After a few losses people run out of things to say. The whole, "It will happen..." starts to seem like, "eh, maybe it won't, what should I say now?" Thanks again
Edited because I didn't proofread. I'm sorry! Words are hard and stuff.