Im worried:::: I'll never find the right job here. The job market here totally sucks unless your a man. I have a few more prospects floating around out there but im really impatient.
About going through and filing bankruptcy. Im ready to im just scared about starting over again, i've seen my parents do it twice and I know in reality we'll be able to move on and grow it's just scary to go through.
That my dad will always be taken advantage of by my family. I dont know how else to open his eyes.
That i'll never loose these 70 pounds. I quit smoking a year ago and now this weight has to come off! I've been eating like a champ and I feel better but this weight is just weighing me down.
@summergirl1211 I agree with you on the feeling that I will never have another child. I have always wanted two kids. Seeing now that I probably won't have anymore I want two more. It's a sad realization and sucks.
@summergirl1211 I agree with you on the feeling that I will never have another child. I have always wanted two kids. Seeing now that I probably won't have anymore I want two more. It's a sad realization and sucks.
It does suck, I was set on being done for so long that when we decided to finally have another I was so excited and dreamy about it. Everything happened so fast, we got pregnant almost instantly and it was taken away almost instantly. Now just adjusting to the fact we are indeed done, forever is really hard.
I'm worried about DH's job prospect! If we get it, where will we live? I am done living in small, shitty places; I need somewhere big enough for my growing family! I don't need a mansion, just a place with more than one bathroom? And a washer/dryer we don't have to put quarters into?
J12 worry: that when I love a picture post/thread and I miss one that person will think im being mean to them. Sometimes I just miss one. (i know weird worry) lol
J12 worry: sometimes I make a comment and nobody responds or likes it and I think eveerybody haaaaates me ( Apparently it's not enough to scare me away, though, so you can't get rid of me that easily \:D/
I'm worried about our finances. Next month we will be caught up with everything, but we were supposed to be caught up in February. Something always seems to happen right before.
I'm worried that DH will never find a higher paying job. The job market out here is a joke. He is qualified for everything he is applying for and nothing has come his way. He gets lots of interviews and then they chose someone else. His current job now has a great work life balance and such, but I wish he was paid more.
I am worried that DD's bottom teeth are never going to come in. She still only has two on the bottom with no signs more will break through any time soon.
I am worried that when the time comes, we won't be able to sell our condo and we will be stuck here a lot longer than we anticipate.
@reinedecajun How are you doing physically and emotionally? I imagine after that whirlwind of emergency it is tough to try to get back to "normal".
It's proving to be tougher than I imagined. In a matter of two weeks we were not pregnant, pregnant, excited, then bam everything is taken away and now recovering from surgery. It's just tough. Thank you for asking, I think it's just going to take some time to get used to the idea of being absolutely done all over again.
I'm worried I'm going to get the beetus early this pregnancy.
I'm also worried about having another baby and doing it all by myslef. I really wish MH would step it up but I know he never will. He is great at making money and supporting us financially, but getting him to take the kid to the park? Or come with me to a dr appt? Ha! Nope. He is also rarely home. I guess I'm annoyed I have to do all the parenting alone. Discipline, training, learning, and health all fall on my shoulders.
I'm worried I will never have a relationship with my sister again. I just can't with her. She is supposedly getting married in July. It stresses me out even though it's not my problem. I wish I was raised with a different family dynamic so I could just cut off her and not care. But at this rate that looks about where it's headed.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10
BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
@wheelerc thanks. I actually told MH tis past weekend that I think I'm going to see someone about it. I need direction and to work out all the muck before I break someone's legs. My dad thinks I'm just angry like my mother which is comical. He doesn't care because he has never had to move a finger. I ripped him a new one too. So I'm really going to find a therapist soon. Whether my family wants to accept it or not her choices good and bad effect my family. She begs to be a part of Emery's life but I'm not sure that is appropriate. She is an awful role model. So I need 3rd party help for perspective.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10
BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
I'm worried and stressed about finding a new house now that we've accepted an offer on ours. I'm also worried about packing and moving with a toddler and hope Dagny will handle it ok!
Hugs to everyone who is dealing with tough situations right now. @nikkie2223583 you have 4 kids, try not to be to hard on yourself. You are beautiful to your children. They see you as their wonderful caring mother and that is what is most important. I hope that your H is supportive and loves you o matter how you look!
@fishybride82 I know what you mean. I have a hard time making new friends and opening up to people. I started a new job and I feel like I am not as friendly and as outgoing as I should be.
My worries are about my job. Their has been quiet talk about implementing a new on site policy. I just started in Jan and based on my hiring discussions this new policy was no where in site. If they enforce it I will not longer be able to commute and work the long days that I do. It really sucks because I really like my job and I am limit in options in my immediate area. I also worry about my financial savings. I seem to have a really hard time saving money even when I try. Fortunately I give some to my H to save but I should be better about my own account.
Worried about having a baby in about 20 days and how DS will deal with it. Also worried about DH because we found out he has severe sleep apnea and he is basically getting no rest. We are waiting for this sleep clinic to call back and get him a cpap so he can actually breathe at night.
Together since 5/08 ~ Married 6/19/10 ~ TTC #1 since 8/10 BFP#1 3/26/11 ~ EDD 12/2/11 ~ Ectopic Twins left tube 7w3d BFP#2 11/2/11 ~ EDD 7/14/12 ~ Robert Edgar born 7/18/12 BFP#3 9/28/13 ~ EDD 5/20/14 ~ Benjamin Clarence born 5/15/14
@Bliz1712 could up pump on the way to work? I did that when I went back to skip one of my pumping sessions at work. It was hard for me to find time to pump so I would do it on my 45 minutes commute.
Re: Lay your worries here
I'll never find the right job here. The job market here totally sucks unless your a man. I have a few more prospects floating around out there but im really impatient.
About going through and filing bankruptcy. Im ready to im just scared about starting over again, i've seen my parents do it twice and I know in reality we'll be able to move on and grow it's just scary to go through.
That my dad will always be taken advantage of by my family. I dont know how else to open his eyes.
That i'll never loose these 70 pounds. I quit smoking a year ago and now this weight has to come off! I've been eating like a champ and I feel better but this weight is just weighing me down.
I'm worried I'll never get a full nights rest because my toddler has suddenly turned in to a newborn asshole, I mean baby.
I'm worried when we build this house and move in, we won't have enough money to pay for it.
I am worried that DD's bottom teeth are never going to come in. She still only has two on the bottom with no signs more will break through any time soon.
I am worried that when the time comes, we won't be able to sell our condo and we will be stuck here a lot longer than we anticipate.
I'm also worried about having another baby and doing it all by myslef. I really wish MH would step it up but I know he never will. He is great at making money and supporting us financially, but getting him to take the kid to the park? Or come with me to a dr appt? Ha! Nope. He is also rarely home. I guess I'm annoyed I have to do all the parenting alone. Discipline, training, learning, and health all fall on my shoulders.
I'm worried I will never have a relationship with my sister again. I just can't with her. She is supposedly getting married in July. It stresses me out even though it's not my problem. I wish I was raised with a different family dynamic so I could just cut off her and not care. But at this rate that looks about where it's headed.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
I'm worried and stressed about finding a new house now that we've accepted an offer on ours. I'm also worried about packing and moving with a toddler and hope Dagny will handle it ok!
@fishybride82 I know what you mean. I have a hard time making new friends and opening up to people. I started a new job and I feel like I am not as friendly and as outgoing as I should be.
My worries are about my job. Their has been quiet talk about implementing a new on site policy. I just started in Jan and based on my hiring discussions this new policy was no where in site. If they enforce it I will not longer be able to commute and work the long days that I do. It really sucks because I really like my job and I am limit in options in my immediate area.
I also worry about my financial savings. I seem to have a really hard time saving money even when I try. Fortunately I give some to my H to save but I should be better about my own account.
That my brother will never get his life together and be happy.
That my family will be pulled apart by this constant drama.
That one or both of my kids will inherit the mental or physical problems so prevalent in our family and I won't know how to handle it.
That I will end up raising jerk kids. They are sweet now but I have no idea what I'm doing.
That the injections tomorrow will hurt like hell but won't help in the long run.
That I'll never have a day without a migraine ever again.
Together since 5/08 ~ Married 6/19/10 ~ TTC #1 since 8/10
BFP#1 3/26/11 ~ EDD 12/2/11 ~ Ectopic Twins left tube 7w3d
BFP#2 11/2/11 ~ EDD 7/14/12 ~ Robert Edgar born 7/18/12
BFP#3 9/28/13 ~ EDD 5/20/14 ~ Benjamin Clarence born 5/15/14