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PGAL Brain in full force.

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I have another US & meet with my RE Wednesday afternoon. I'm officially in the freak out / crazy anxiety state of mind.

I'm technically past my loss milestone as I've never seen a healthy LO past 6w3d, and my last appt a week and a half-ish ago at 8wks everything looked perfect. But I'm still in the time-frame where I've gotten bad news.

I'm 9w3d and for whatever reason I started preparing for a horrible appointment. I still don't have many symptoms and it's making me bonkers! I even drank a soda today (1st one since 3/17) because my mind is in the "it won't matter anyways" zone. Ugh.

Hugs?

BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!

DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart

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  • kalynn12kalynn12 member
    Big squishy ((hugs)). Wednesday will be great try not to stress out too badly.
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

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  • HorseLover11HorseLover11 member
    I know the chance of a m/c drop dramatically after hearing the heartbeat after 8 weeks so try to focus on those numbers :) I didn't have many symptoms so try not to place much stock in that either and stay calm until Wednesday!! Sending good vibes your way!

    Off BC, NTNP since June 2011

    Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012 

    First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12

    8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS

    Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10) 

    Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!

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  • E&B0811E&B0811 member
    Lots of big (((hugs))) coming your way. The days leading up to an appointment can be so stressful. Sending you t&p for some relief from the anxiety and a great appointment on Wednesday.

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    BFP 5/19/2013. MC 7/2/2013 (9w6d) with est. loss at 8w. Miso 7/3/2013 and emergency D & C 7/6/2013.

    BFP#2 11/6/2013.  CP 11/14/2013.  

    BFP #3 12/13/2013.  Beta #1 @ 15dpo- 239. Progesterone 27.  Beta #2 @17dpo - 90.  CP 12/21/2013

    Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.  -Philippians 4:6-7

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  • MollySmMollySm member
    ((Hugs)) I hope the time passes quickly and you get lots of reassurance on Wednesday!
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  • carlsonbaby2014carlsonbaby2014 member
    ((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))  I hope today and tomorrow fly by so that you can get your reassurance on Wednesday as quickly as possible.
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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  • ToriGirl2014ToriGirl2014 member
    Extra (((hugs))) for all the anxiety.  We all know what it's like!
    BFP#1 - M/C on 12/23/13
    ~*~*~December 2014 PGaL ~*~*~
    Rainbow baby born on 12/19/2014

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  • Eliz77Eliz77 member
    Sending huge (((((HUGS))))) and millions T&Ps your way! I wish I could fast forward to Wed PM so you will be done with the waiting!

    ~ES~

    ~*~EVERYONE always welcome!!~*~
    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


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  • CaitNMattCaitNMatt member
    ((Hugs)) like crazy!!! Try to stay as busy as possible until Wednesday and keep telling yourself that today you ARE pregnant and you love your baby!!!!! ((More hugs))

    A little bit about me...

    Married my awesome guy on 12/27/08

    DD Lucy Rae born on 11/16/2010

    Loss #1: November 29, 2012 at 8w1d

    Loss #2: June 9, 2013 at 13w (Amelia Grace)

    BFP #4: We are having a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peter Matthew was born on July 16, 2014!!! Welcome to our family!

     

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  • princezjkprincezjk member
    Sending you lots and lots of (((((((BIG HUGS)))))))  I am so sorry that PgAL brain is striking.  I am sending you lots of good vibes for a great scan on Wednesday!


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  • rox825rox825 member
    Sending hugs, sorry you're stressing, hope your appointment goes perfectly!

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    TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
    Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
    Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
    Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!

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  • megbmegmegbmeg member
    Hang in there. The wait is so so hard, but you'll get there!
    Baby GIRL born 12/11/14!!
    MC @ 8 wks 7/6/13 - ectopic @ 6 wks 12/28/13

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  • SweetiepopsSweetiepops member
    Lots of big hugs!! The morning before my 12 weeks ultrasound, I sat on the stairs crying because for some reason I was preparing myself for bad news. Luckily DH was there and super supportive, and we saw a baby :) I hope you have a wonderful appointment!
    TTC Since August, 2013
    BFP#1 11/2/2013 EDD 7/14/2014 MMC discovered at 8w3d (baby stopped growing at 6w2d)
    BFP#2 2/4/2014 EDD 10/15/2014 please stick little one!

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  • HoneyBee115HoneyBee115 member
    I'm 5 wks along, conceived just a month after loss. It's very hard to ignore the fear but I know that my baby will have a better chance if I am less stressed so I try to stay mindful and I meditate when I am feeling overwhelmed. I wish you lots of luck!
    ((Hugs)) 
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  • mmsweeney1mmsweeney1 member
    It's ok to have no symptoms! Hopefully everything will go well for you at the appointment, but I just feel bad that you're going through the scared stage. I am still struggling with these feelings each day, but it's great coming here for some support!

    first son stillborn 7/20/13 at 39 weeks due to Acute Fatty Liver of Pregnancy
    It's a girl! Baby Anna was born August 3, 2014!

     
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Big ((hugs)) to you! I also had no symptoms from around week 8 to week 11, and I recall feeling the way you do when it was time for me to go in for my 9 week appointment. Everything turned out okay for me; hoping for the same for you! Good luck and FX you have a great appointment!
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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    ((Hugs)) I hope the time flys until your app and you the reassurance you need.
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    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    (((((Hugs))))))
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • Drgn30Drgn30 member
    (((hugs)))

    BFP 7/16/13, EDD 3/27/14 - blighted ovum  - D&C 8/26/13
    Dx PCOS and Septate Uterus
    Septum Resection - 2/6/14
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    March 2014:   first medicated cycle + iui     = BFP!
    Baby Drgn born December 3, 2014

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  • gingerkid9989gingerkid9989 member
    ((hugs))  Hang in there.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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  • cdubs85cdubs85 member
    edited April 2014
    Sending you lots of hugs and lots of prayers!  Wishing we could fast forward through 1st tri!
    RPL Panel, CD 3 BW, Karyotype, SIS all normal, We have a PLAN!
    Romans 8:18-For I consider the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.




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  • LunaBug924LunaBug924 member
    Huge (((((hugs)))) hon. I found it difficult to stay positive even after I passed all of my loss milestones as well. PGAL brain sucks. Good luck at your appointment!
    BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
    BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13
    7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions
    1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14
    Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 
    KAYLIE MARIE IS HERE! BORN 5/4/14

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  • MommaAshley12MommaAshley12 member
    Big (((hugs))) and positive thoughts and prayers for a great appointment on Wednesday!
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    BFP 4/17/13, MC began 5/2/13 @ 6 weeks
    EDD 12/27/13
    TTC since 2/2013
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  • jenkellenjenkellen member
    Hang in there! Hurry up Wednesday! Also, why do they make these appts late afternoon? Why can't they be at like 6:30am so you don't have to stress out all day.

    Lots of (((hugs)))

    "It's, not, where you are, it's where you're going,
    And it's, not, about the things you've done, it's what you're doing, now"
    TTC Journey Began 8/12
    BFP #1 11/9/12, MMC/D&C 12/21/12 @ 9w2d, EDD 7/24/13
    SAs: 2%-3% Morph - RE Official Diagnosis     Unexplained
     BFN = IUI #1 (Clomid) | IUI #2 (Letrozole) 
    BFP #2 4/19/14 = IUI #3 (Letrozole)
    Expecting Our Elf 12/27/14
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  • ball.and.chainball.and.chain member
    I've been there...and it doesn't have to be a repeat of your past pregnancies.  Based on your experiences with this one so far, I'd say it's definitely not like your past pregnancies.  But I will be thinking good thoughts for you and eagerly waiting for an update!
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
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  • FishyMomFishyMom member
    Hang in there. I know it is hard sometimes but you are in a good position. I am sending tons of prayers your way.
    ******************** BFP Warning *******************
     
    I'm 29 and DH is 32 we have a MFI (low count) 
    IVF #1 starting in August. ER 9/5/13 23 eggs we are fertilizing 15. 9 frozen
    ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
    7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
    Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
    Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
    FET #2 - 3/3/14 - 5AB Blast -- Beta #1 3/12 - 152 -- Beta #2 3/14 - 358
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    FET #3 06/09/16 - 5AB Blast - Beta #1 6/18- 245 -- Beta #2 06/20 - 600
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  • megrae12megrae12 member
    **Lurking**

    ((Hugs)) love. Tomorrow is my bday and it's a pretty lucky day, so I am going to go with you are gonna have an awesome appointment. Lots of love lady!
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much. 
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  • voplovoplo member
    Hugs! I hope everything is ok!!! :)



    Mummy to 2 wonderful children
    Noah (2011) & Lily (2014)
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  • mtaylor404mtaylor404 member
    So many hugs! I know you know this, but symptoms aren't a good indicator.  I had very mild symptoms and my baby is still cooking past 40 weeks! 
    Married 8/4/12
    BFP #1 EDD 12/5/13, MMC
    BFP #2 EDD 4/27/14- Our rainbow arrived 5/1/14!
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    Huge (((((HUGS))))) to you!  I hope that you have a great appointment and can relax a bit. 
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • alleycat39alleycat39 member
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    ((hugs)) lady! I wish I could wipe away all of those PgAL thoughts from your mind!
    PCOS & ute crew member
    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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  • jlworden710jlworden710 member
    I have "creepy internet stranger board lurker hugs"... Do those count!? Thinking of you tomorrow and sending lots if love and thoughts! GL!

    BFP: 9/21/13 | EDD:5/31/14 | MC confirmed:11/6/13 | D&C:11/12/13
    BFP: 1/14/14 | EDD: 9/21/14 | MC confirmed: 2/3/14 | D&C: 2/4/14
    DX 3/18/14 (Complete) Septate Uterus | Resection 4/22/14
    BFP: 8/5/14 | EDD: 4/19/15
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  • SandSunBlissSandSunBliss member
    Big (((hugs))). I'm hoping you have a wonderful appointment, love.

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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