Pregnant after a Loss

First BPF - 18 Weeks (AnyMax).+ lengthy update

This is probably going to be long...sorry...

This week had been an emotional roller coaster. The best news ever first - the results from my sequential screen came back on Tuesday, and we are at the lowest risk for down syndrome, trisomy 18, and spina bifida (!!!!!!!!!!!).

The screen also sowed that I have low PAPP-A. The nurse from MFM was giving me the results over the phone, and pretty much dumped the worst care scenario on me. I happened to have my regular OB check up that evening, and he was fairly dismissive of the results and gave much better odds of how this would affect Eagle. I am so thankful to have a great team of doctors, and a game plan to move forward, but you want things to be normal and okay, and the wait until the scans to find out how Eagle is growing has me feeling a little defeated again.

Then, if that was not enough, last night I learned what intestinal hemorrhoids are, how scary it can be, how fast the on-call OB returns a call (less than five minutes!), and that she won't let me of the phone until I calm down and take several deep breaths with her. I am exhausted today, but thankfully was able to avoid a trip to the ER.

So anyway, if you made it through that (thanks!), here's my 18w bump!


                                                     

Re: First BPF - 18 Weeks (AnyMax).+ lengthy update

  • What a fannnnnnnntastic bump :) 

    Sending ya lots of love and warm fuzzy thoughts xo
    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

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  • Love your bump, love Eagle, love you and so glad we are close to putting this super stressful week in the rear view. xoxo
    Me: 36 yo, TTC #1 since Feb. 2012
    BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12

    BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until  August 2013

    IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN
    IUI #2 (back-to-back, 9/12/13 and 9/13/13) Femara + Menopur, four mature follicles, BFFN
    IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN

    BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014  Please stick and grow, LO!

    Additional Dx: hypothyroidism, TgAb positive & anti-TPO positive, POR/DOR (2/2013), and suspected endometriosis

    ******All AL always welcome******
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  • You look great! Glad you have a team of drs and nurses that sound great!




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    TTC 1/1/12
    BFP #1 12/13/12 MMC Confirmed 1/30/13
    BFP #2 6/17/13, (Clomid+Ovidrel) CP Confirmed 6/26/13
    BFP #3 8/14/2013 (Letrozole+IUI) Charlie Grace born 5/2/2014

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    Laparoscopic surgery 8/15 to remove misplaced IUD

    BFP #4, #5, #6  (Letrozole+IUI)all MMC, BFP #7 EDD 1/3/2017


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  • That is a lot to take in, but thankfully you seem to have very proactive medical pros around you! Love the bump!!
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • Yay for your first BPF and a good sequential screen!  Glad you are fortunate to have a wonderful team of physicians taking care of you! 


     
     
     
     
  • Cute bump! :) 

    I am sorry about the scares, and I hope the next round of tests offer you some reassurance. Hugs.

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  • ((hugs))  i'm glad to hear you're in good hands.  beautiful bump!

    BFP 7/16/13, EDD 3/27/14 - blighted ovum  - D&C 8/26/13
    Dx PCOS and Septate Uterus
    Septum Resection - 2/6/14
    brand new cuterus
    March 2014:   first medicated cycle + iui
    = BFP!
    Baby Drgn born December 3, 2014

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  • That is very reassuring to hear, @shell041783‌. Thank you very much for sharing your experience.


                                                         
  • Lovely bump!
    Glad you have a great team behind you as you navigate through these tough things. Congrats on the great screening results!

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  • Precious bump! Glad the screen came back good. So sorry about the other medical issues though. I am glad you have a smart, compassionate medical team on your side. Big ((hugs))!
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    EDD 12/27/13
    TTC since 2/2013
    BFP#2 9/23/13 EDD 6/8/14
     
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    Love the bump!!

    Sorry you're experiencing all this medical shit -- it just seems to find you love. (((Hugs))) soooo glad the screening test was negative and that you have a plan & team keeping an eye on you! #:-S

    BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!

    DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart

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  • Lots and lots of ((((hugs))), lady.  I am so glad that you have a great team behind you with a solid plan for the healthiest you and baby Eagle possible.  It doesn't make it less stressful, though, and you know you can vent with us, we're here for you :-* .  And your bump?  Super cute!!!!!!!!  I love your shirt. 
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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  • Love the bump! So sorry you have had such a rough week ((hugs))

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    BFP#1 9/25/10 DD born 6/9/11
    BFP#2 8/1/13 MC 8/31/13
    BFP#3 11/2/13 EDD 7/15/14 Stick baby Stick
    1st u/s 11/26/13 at 7w, measuring right on track and a heartbeat of 139bpm
    NT Scan 1/6/14 at 12w 6d, normal healthy squirmy baby measuring right on track heartbeat of 147bpm
    1st 2nd tri Scan 2/3/14 at 16w 6d, very healthy baby BOY!
    A/S 3/4/14 still a very healthy BOY, measuring right on track!
    DS born 7/9/14


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  • Lurky ((Hugs)) friend. Hang in there.
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    37 years old, MH is 42
    TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 
    August 2012 through June 2013:  6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs
    7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
    8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c
    3/15/14 IVF #1:  Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN. 
    Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
    6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN   
    8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy

    Done with medical intervention and getting used to the idea of CFNBC.  




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  • *lurking* That's a great looking bump! Sending positive thoughts for all the other stuff.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • Yaaay I am glad your results were good and I'm glad you have an amazing team (((hugs))) they can be hard to find sometimes.



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • I am so sorry your week has been up and down like that. It sounds like your docs are amazing and they are going to help get you thru and tough situations that come up. Love the bump!
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    I'm 29 and DH is 32 we have a MFI (low count) 
    IVF #1 starting in August. ER 9/5/13 23 eggs we are fertilizing 15. 9 frozen
    ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
    7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
    Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
    Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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    FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
    FET #2 - 3/3/14 - 5AB Blast -- Beta #1 3/12 - 152 -- Beta #2 3/14 - 358
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    FET #3 06/09/16 - 5AB Blast - Beta #1 6/18- 245 -- Beta #2 06/20 - 600
     PAIF/SAIF/PAL/SAL welcome!

  • We've already talked so I won't repeatedly myself. But Squeeeeeee bump pictures!!!!!!!!!

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
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  • Sorry you had such a rough week.  I'm sending tons of positive thoughts your way, and it sounds like you have a great team taking care of you and Eagle.  And I love your bump!!!   >:D<

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    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
  • @AnyMax - (((((BIG HUGS)))) for dealing with way too much at once!  I am glad you have a great team and a plan in place.  Love the bump!  And a special treat, because you've more than earned it!


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