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Once a week visits already @26w (who_dat)

So the past couple days have been a whirlwind. Let me back track to this weekend, DH and I noticed that my belly had already dropped and accompanying that was super uncomfortable pressure "down there". I had my regular OB appt for Tuesday anyway, so I just waited to say something to my doc then, when I got to my doc appt, my bp was consistently elevated so I was sent over to L&D for monitoring. They did all the routine stuff, hooked me up, blood work, US, etc.... I had been there about 3 hours already, so I sent my mom out for some food, I eat half my lunch and the nurse walks in and tells me not to eat anything else, I was going in for surgery in a few hours, that I needed a cercleage placed.... Cue freak out! My OB comes in a short time later telling my that I have starting "funneling", my cervix was really short and baby girl was head down, right on top of my cervix, I needed to cercleage placed so that I wouldn't begin to dialate anymore. A few hours later, I was wheeled into to OR, got an epidural then had my surgery. I spent the night, my doc says I am now on STRICT bedrest and I can still go into preterm labor so we just have to take it day by day and week by week. I will begin seeing her every Tuesday starting this coming Tuesday. I'm so scared, why can't anything be easy for me?! She told me it would probably be best to go ahead and have as much ready for baby as I can "just in case". I also have to take a pill every six hours to keep contractions at bay. Please just keep DH and I in your T&P, we need baby girl to cook a bit longer!!
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Re: Once a week visits already @26w (who_dat)

  • Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry you're going through this but I'm so glad that the team around you is taking every precaution to make sure baby girl stays in there for as long as possible. I'll definitely be thinking of you and YH. Sending lots and lots of ((((hugs)))).
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  • Sending T&Ps your way! Sounds like you have a great OB who is doing whatever it takes to get keep baby in there. Keep cooking baby girl! ((Hugs))
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  • Oh my, I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  I'm glad that your OB is doing everything possible to keep your baby girl in there.  Take it easy, and know that my T&Ps are with you!
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    Oh wow! I am very sorry that you are going through this, but it is very good that they found out soon and they are taking very good care of you. I hope everything goes well and the baby stays inside as much time as possible. Hugs.



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  • Gosh, what an ordeal! Sending you T&Ps.  Keep cooking little one!
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this. I am glad everything is ok at the moment. I hope everything works and she gets to cook for awhile longer. Take care of yourself ((hugs))

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  • Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Bed rest can work wonders; try and stay calm, hydrated, and rested. I served 5 weeks of bed rest when I started dilating at 31 weeks and I made it all the way to 38 weeks (after hanging out at 3cm for most of the bed rest), so you really can buy some serious time. Netflix, Kindle, and your family/friends are going to get you through this with flying colors! ((hugs))

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    How scary!! I'm glad something was figured out & that there's at least a plan being started and ordered. I know it's nearly impossible but try to stay calm and take it easy! Keep that LO cookin'!!! Sending Ts & Ps your way.

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  • T&Ps that the bedrest and cerclage do the trick!

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  • T&Ps for you and LO! I'm so sorry this isn't the experience you were hoping for, but I'm glad they caught it and are doing everything they can to keep her cooking. (((Hugs)))
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  • Oh sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through this. I am keeping the three of you in my thoughts and prayers. So many ((((hugs))))


                                                         
  • Wow.  I am sending lots of T&Ps your way.  Hoping bedrest is just what you need to keep your LO cooking for longer.  ((hugs)) and positive vibes!


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  • Oh my! Defiantly sending t&p for you and dh.

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  • So many Ts and Ps headed your way! Praying LO keeps baking!

    I had labor stopped with my DD at 27 weeks and I know how scary it is. Big (((hugs)))
  • OMG!!! My heart was pounding reading your post. I am so glad that your OB is awesome and that they were able to stop the progression. You, DH and your baby girl will be in my prayers that she stays cooking for a long time!!

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  • Thoughts and prayers coming your way- for you, DH and your little one!  
  • I'm so sorry :(.

    I had funneling/shortening with both of my kids. With my daughter, they discovered it at 22 weeks. I was put on modified bed rest (my cervix had a little bit of length - around 2.5cm at that point - so no cerclage or strict bed rest). I ended up getting to 35w4d with her when my water broke and she was born.

    With DS, I was on 17 OHP from 16w-36w. I took the oral medication to keep contractions at bay (I forget the name right now) from 30w on. I was also on modified bed rest with him. After all that, we had to induce at 39w4d and he was almost 10 pounds!

    Take it easy, take it one day at a time, and DON'T GOOGLE!!! You are being monitored carefully which is huge. Every day counts and I really hope you make it to full term. ((hugs)) I know what it feels like to be a ticking time bomb. Just really try to take it easy and let your mind rest. I actually had my DH disconnect the internet because I would google like crazy and get so anxious.

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  • I am so sorry that you are going through this, but so glad that your doctors were able to treat you properly! T&P that your baby girl stays put for another 14 weeks or so!
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  • So sorry you're going through this, but it's good your doctor caught everything so early! Thinking of you.

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  • I'm sorry you have to deal with this, though I'm glad they caught it. Take care and I hope LO sticks around on the inside for a long time to come!

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  • Sending so many (((hugs))) your way. I know this is super scary, but I am so thankful they caught it in time to intervene with the cerclage and are going to monitor you closely.  Keep on cooking, LO!
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  • Thank you all for your love and prayers! My mom, sister and DH will be trying to finish up her nursery in the coming weeks. As long as I can get her here safe and healthy, I'll do anything! Love y'all!!
    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
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  • I am so sorry you are having to deal with this! T&P's to you and LO! 
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  • Many thoughts and prayers! Hoping baby can stay put for a long while. Take care of yourself. Big ((hugs))!
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  • Sorry your going through this. You have a good team looking after you. Thoughts and prayers.
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  • Sending you lots of good vibes. Sorry you are going through this. Stay put baby!!

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  • Sending you much love and positive thoughts for a fully-cooked baby; it's scary, but I'm grateful that you're in good hands (((hugs)))
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  • Scary!  I am sorry you are going through this.  Hang in there!


     
     
     
     
  • Oh, wow. It sounds like they are taking all the right precautions and I am glad you and baby girl have good care. 

    Sending you tons of good thoughts and wishes. 

    Stay in there and bake some more, little one!

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