Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
ambmama
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Just a vent
ambmama
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Ticker warning.
So how many of my friends can be pregnant all at once? All of them?! Seems like it. I actually cried for the first time in a few weeks when I saw a picture of my friend's pregnant belly (she's due when I was). And of course they are all due within a month of what was supposed to be my due date (oct). On top of that, my sil just found out she is pregnant. They've been trying for 5 years and after one IUI they got a positive pregnancy test today. My DH told them congrats but tried to carefully warn that when it's that early, especially with fertility issues, just to pray a lot and know anything can happen. Well... They posted their positive pregnancy test on Facebook - their IUI was just 3 weeks ago. I'm extremely nervous for them and trying to stay positive, but... Their naivety is just upsetting. They've been trying for so long for that positive test that I think they are trying to ignore all negatives. I don't feel like I should say anything to them, but it's really hard to watch. We are of course hoping things work out for them, but my dh's brother is pretty emotional so we are worried about them. No real point, I guess, just needed to chat and knew you ladies would understand.
So how many of my friends can be pregnant all at once? All of them?! Seems like it. I actually cried for the first time in a few weeks when I saw a picture of my friend's pregnant belly (she's due when I was). And of course they are all due within a month of what was supposed to be my due date (oct). On top of that, my sil just found out she is pregnant. They've been trying for 5 years and after one IUI they got a positive pregnancy test today. My DH told them congrats but tried to carefully warn that when it's that early, especially with fertility issues, just to pray a lot and know anything can happen. Well... They posted their positive pregnancy test on Facebook - their IUI was just 3 weeks ago. I'm extremely nervous for them and trying to stay positive, but... Their naivety is just upsetting. They've been trying for so long for that positive test that I think they are trying to ignore all negatives. I don't feel like I should say anything to them, but it's really hard to watch. We are of course hoping things work out for them, but my dh's brother is pretty emotional so we are worried about them. No real point, I guess, just needed to chat and knew you ladies would understand.
BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12
BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks
BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14
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Re: Just a vent
Sure, it's scary knowing what can happen. But If they're to the point of doing IUIs, I would guess they know their risks.
BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12
BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks
BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14