September 2014 Moms

Any STM having a "sprinkle"?

I feel a little silly having one, but my aunts insist!! There hasn't been a family baby since DS and this LO is a GIRL, so they are eager to buy PINK!!! I asked them to please keep it small, but I hate to try & control it. They have been asking me for ideas. I gave them a couple things off pinterest. Oh my... I guess I will just sit back & let them do what they want, but I still feel a little awkward. Anyone else having a sprinkle? 

Re: Any STM having a "sprinkle"?

  • mmnumber5 said:
    I'm having a baby shower that someone is throwing for me I am assuming it will just be a group of ladies getting together eating cake, chatting.  Its for me and another mom and we both will have 2u2 so we don't need anything.  I'm sure there will be a few gifts blankets and things but really I'm just in it for the cake and maybe a day without the toddler!
    Cake... yummmm!
    The only think I really need is diapers. But I know they will get pink stuff too. 
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    My office is telling me that they plan on throwing me a little shower since this is a baby boy...

    The person who would organize it (and is my office BFF) will have moved by the time it would happen and I doubt anyone else would remember to do it, so I have my doubts that it will actuallly come together...and that's okay :)

                                                                            
                                                          
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  • Stasi said:

    My office is telling me that they plan on throwing me a little shower since this is a baby boy...

    The person who would organize it (and is my office BFF) will have moved by the time it would happen and I doubt anyone else would remember to do it, so I have my doubts that it will actuallly come together...and that's okay :)

    That's another thing... At work they throw showers for everyone. This school year they had a combined shower since we had 8 people expecting. I would hate to have a solo shower here at work for my second. I already told them that I don't want one. If they insist I just want it to be a breakfast, no gifts!!! They went OVERBOARD with DS!! 
  • I've had a couple offers for showers/sprinkles but I have declined. We have a registry going mostly as a shopping list but I would feel funny giving that information to anyone but our mothers. We're having a girl after having a boy, so I expect we'll end up getting a lot of clothes and cute pink things anyway.
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  • Enjoy it! I am not having a  sprinkle as I already have a girl and a boy so I have pretty much everything I need. 
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  • We'll be having a "meet the baby" BBQ after LO is born in lieu of a shower.


     

  • We'll be having a "meet the baby" BBQ after LO is born in lieu of a shower.
    Is this your second LO? We did an open house after DS was born. It was fun, even though he was going through a growth spurt at the time and I was nursing him the ENTIRE time!! haha Oh well! 
  • I'm having a shower. SIL wants to do one since were having a boy. I thinks its stupid to call it a sprinkle, what's smaller about it? The people you invite, or amount of food, games or no games? I get that its just suppose to be a name for the second baby shower but if you have guests food and games its a shower.
  • I'm having a shower. SIL wants to do one since were having a boy. I thinks its stupid to call it a sprinkle, what's smaller about it? The people you invite, or amount of food, games or no games? I get that its just suppose to be a name for the second baby shower but if you have guests food and games its a shower.
    There will be A LOT less people invited. Hopefully no games!! It will be more like a family girls get together. I can see it still being a shower, just on a MUCH smaller scale... hints the name. 
  • Sort of.

    I do not like the idea of second showers or sprinkles. But, MIL is from a different country and they do things differently there. We have had a pretty bad relationship from the get-go and I didn't want this issue to become a major thing between us. She insists on thorwing something and the idea of a second shower or sprinkle makes me very uncomfortable. DH and I told her this, but she made it into an issue.

    We finally agreed on a small gathering,at her home, of only a few relatives on her side and no mention of gifts or a shower on the invite.

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  • No idea, I don't think I'll need one even if it's a girl. My sister in laws mentioned throwing a sprinkle but I have a couple people wanting to give me clothes if it is a girl. So I can't imagine I will need that much else except diapers!
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  • rlyttle said:



    We'll be having a "meet the baby" BBQ after LO is born in lieu of a shower.

    Is this your second LO? We did an open house after DS was born. It was fun, even though he was going through a growth spurt at the time and I was nursing him the ENTIRE time!! haha Oh well! 

    Yep, baby #2 :). I was a mess the first few weeks after baby 1, so it may be at a bit of a later date!


     

  • Ehh I don't know. if someone throws one it'll just be a brunch or lunch or dinner. I enjoy having a reason to hang out with my friends, or no reason at all. I don't expect the hoopla I got with my daughter. We have some things that need to be bought, but we'll be purchasing it ourselves.

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  • A friend has told me she's organizing my sprinkle. I figure it will be more of a celebration - we literally don't need a single thing - so I won't be bothering with a registry or anything.I've got about 5 friends pregnant and due in a 4 month period - so there are showers all around. Some are FTMs and some are STMs...
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  • I don't believe I will be having one, however, my DH will have a "shower" at his job, so we did a small registry. This is our 2nd boy....not much we need.
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  • kami09kami09 member
    edited April 2014
    I have never heard of a "sprinkle
    ... & I actually thought this thread was about peeing yourself. Which I was going to say only when I sneeze...but um, yeah.
  • kami09 said:

    I have never heard of a "sprinkle
    ... & I actually thought this thread was about peeing yourself. Which I was going to say only when I sneeze...but um, yeah.

    I'm right there with you on the snissing...not looking forward to allergy season!


     

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