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Thoughts and Prayers to spare?

PatientlyWaiting10PatientlyWaiting10 member
edited April 2014 in Pregnant after a Loss
Good morning everyone!  I hope you all had a nice weekend and a nice Easter! 

If you have any extra thoughts and prayers to spare I'd love them!  I was cramping all day yesterday and spotted a little bit and now this morning I'm still cramping and have heavier bleeding.  I'm going in at 2:00 pm today to see my doctor and have an u/s…  I hate this.  If it's not a m/c, why does the universe have to be so cruel to a loss mom and if it is another m/c why??  I hate being in limbo and would appreciate any T&P you have. 

Thanks….

ETA: Dr. just called back and they have a 9:00 am appt.  So I will be leaving work to go in in about 35 minutes.  
BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

"Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
All are welcome!


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  • carlsonbaby2014carlsonbaby2014 member
    I'm so sorry :( I hate that you're dealing with this and am sending you all my positive T&Ps for good news later today. Update us when you can. Lots of ((((hugs)))).
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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  • MrsHamon09MrsHamon09 member
    ((Hugs)) I am so sorry you are dealing with this scare. T&P coming your way

    Married DH 3/14/09

    TTC Since Jan 2011
    Diagnosed with PCOS Jan 2013
    BFP#1 June 2013/ EDD 2/23/2013 Blighted Ovum confirmed July 18, 2013
    took Cytotec July 20, 2013

    BFP #2 12/28/2013 EDD 9/11/2014 Its A Girl!!! Rebecca Ann!

    Rebecca Ann born 8/31/2014 6lb 1oz 19 inches long 8:55am!!!!


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  • mtaylor404mtaylor404 member
    I am so sorry that you are in this place.  I am sending lots of T&Ps your way. 
    Married 8/4/12
    BFP #1 EDD 12/5/13, MMC
    BFP #2 EDD 4/27/14- Our rainbow arrived 5/1/14!
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  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    ((Hugs)) for you as you await your appt today. Thoughts and prayers coming your way!
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  • whiteroses05whiteroses05 member
    I am soo sorry! I hope it's nothing and that you at least get piece of mind. I agree it is hard to deal with when a loss mom has been through so much already! Huge hugs to you and keep us updated. T&p coming your way!

    BFP#1 9/7/11 EDD 7/23/11 mc @21 weeks caused severe bladder obstruction on 3/14/12
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP #2 9/9/12 EDD 7/19/13 started to mc @ 8w1d on 12/7/12 ended up with d&c 12/18/12, stopped developing @5w5ds

    Unexplained IF
    BFP#3 3/3/14 After 1st iui and clomid cycle
    beta 1: 137 beta 2: 268
    Beta 3:1248
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers


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  • megbmegmegbmeg member
    So sorry that you are going through this. I'm glad your dr. got you in right away, and hope you get reassuring news soon. Fx. 
    Baby GIRL born 12/11/14!!
    MC @ 8 wks 7/6/13 - ectopic @ 6 wks 12/28/13

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  • FishyMomFishyMom member
    I am so sorry.  I had some cramping and bleeding and it turned out to be a SCH.  Here is hoping that is all yours is too.  But I was for sure that I was having a MC.  I will be sending over tons of t&p's your way.  Please let us know how you are doing. ((hugs))
    ******************** BFP Warning *******************
     
    I'm 29 and DH is 32 we have a MFI (low count) 
    IVF #1 starting in August. ER 9/5/13 23 eggs we are fertilizing 15. 9 frozen
    ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
    7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
    Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
    Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
    FET #2 - 3/3/14 - 5AB Blast -- Beta #1 3/12 - 152 -- Beta #2 3/14 - 358
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    FET #3 06/09/16 - 5AB Blast - Beta #1 6/18- 245 -- Beta #2 06/20 - 600
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  • littleissa86littleissa86 member
    My heart hurts that you're going through all of this, even if it's not a m/c in the end.  The "what if's" of the symptoms are torture.  Sending lots and lots of T&P your way today. Keep us updated!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    *hugs* T&Ps that everything is okay
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    Thinking of you and hoping all is OK. Please keep up posted. ((Hugs))
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • Eliz77Eliz77 member
    Sending tons of T&Ps your way that all works out. I am so sorry you are going through this ((HUGS))

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    ~*~EVERYONE always welcome!!~*~
    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    ((Hugs)) I'm so sorry you're having this scare. I'm glad you were able to get in for an appointment. FX everything is ok. T&P's coming your way!
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  • nyg2042nyg2042 member
    Sending lots of positive vibes and prayers your way.  Lots of ((hugs))


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

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