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intercourse positions

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Is there in any way a certain position that wouldn't make me feel like it's my first time all over again? intercourse has gotten so uncomfortable and painful I must say. I'm lubed and all but I feel so small and tight down there that I thought I would bleed afterwards last night!
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Re: intercourse positions

  • bewilderingstarbewilderingstar member
    Go slow and gentle til you relax a little. Side positions, reverse cowgirl and doggy style seem to be the only things that work for us now. I don't like being on top because I feel so heavy now.

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  • veetveetveetveet member
    Bum to the edge of the bed and him standing. Use pillows to elevate and get comfy.
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  • Jodash24Jodash24 member
    Side by side while laying down ( you feel like a whale but it's my only comfy position )
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  • Brettx3AshleyBrettx3Ashley member

    Side by side and doggy are about as good as it gets. On top feels like I'm going to kill him and him on top feels doesnt do it for me. Stretch before hand? Kegels?

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  • monkeysipmonkeysip member
    Yeah I've found nothing.  No position is comfortable.  Missionary is *most comfortable*, but still not comfortable.  It doesn't matter how much foreplay, lube, etc.  Sex has really been all for him this pregnancy.  I'm looking forward to having this baby so hopefully I can enjoy sex again one day.  *shrug*
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  • azaretskyazaretsky member
    Jodash24 said:
    Side by side while laying down ( you feel like a whale but it's my only comfy position )
    This for sure!
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  • NADA-HNADA-H member
    It seems like we always have to penetrate with missionery first although uncomfortable and hurts at first and then we can switch to other positions other wise its like he's hitting a brick wall when he tries to penetrate in other positions.. Its so strange
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  • jessig13826jessig13826 member

    Doggy style and cowgirl with him seating on the coach are the only positions that works for us. I'm 37 weeks and 2 d.

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  • ShelleybellShelleybell member
    edited April 2014
    what is intercourse lol 
    haven't done that in awhile.
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  • jasrun80jasrun80 member
    my ab muscles cramp SO bad during that I simply CANT find a way right now!!! I guess if you don't expect it for your own pleasure, then doggie style or side whale laying? good luck!!
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  • cMichelle0423cMichelle0423 member
    Try having him wear a condom and then use plenty of lube. I get really sore and irritated down there after sex and I've noticed that when i don't have skin to skin contact (have H wear the condom or use toys), it feels better. We've tried a million different positions and nothing helps. I still end up feeling like my crotch is on fire after sex if we go all natural.
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  • bewilderingstarbewilderingstar member
    monkeysip said:
    Yeah I've found nothing.  No position is comfortable.  Missionary is *most comfortable*, but still not comfortable.  It doesn't matter how much foreplay, lube, etc.  Sex has really been all for him this pregnancy.  I'm looking forward to having this baby so hopefully I can enjoy sex again one day.  *shrug*
    this is totally me!! (though missionary is not the most comfortable... at all)

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  • xinightingalexinightingale member
    I haven't been able to find any comfortable method that actually works for BOTH of us.  Usually hubby gets "taken care of" and I'm so tired that I just can't finish.  It's so much work at this point, we just don't bother.  Which sucks because my sex drive is ridiculous right now.  
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  • NewMrsMacCNewMrsMacC member
    Doggy style, but arms bent (kind of like, leaning low down in front on my elbows) with pillows under belly for firm support. I can actually still move my hips rhythmically in this position- comfortably! 

    Try it!


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