So, DD was Coombs positive. For those who don't know what that is some background. I'm O+, so I have A antibodies. DD has A blood type & some of my A antibodies were passed to her during birth resulting in a positive Coombs test. All this means that she had jaundice but that she was prone to bigger/higher jumps than normal newborn jaundice. That combined with 3 snowstorms & the hospital typically dealing with a less educated population (big, teaching hospital with outreach programs) resulted in a bullshit 5 day stay that left us very traumatized. We were left alone, questions not answered, procedures done & not done, nurse liason called in twice, talked down to & told I was risking brain death & hearing loss for my child... There is no way to prevent this or know if it will happen again. It was the driving force behind our home birth. That is no longer happening. We're back at this hospital b/c it really is the best & our stay is so far from the norm with them. We're with the midwives this time vs MFM & they stay involved PP instead of the OBs who just dealt with me & only me.
I'm just looking for stories that despite a Coombs+ baby or any other bilirubin issues things can be different, stories that will make me less anxious about it. I know plenty of friends who had mild-moderate bili issues & could follow up with their ped & were released. (With this hospital it's only their peds, no outside private docs have privileges). We're more prepared since we at least know about it this time & can better advocate. DD's bilirubin only got at the level where they wanted to do light therapy one time, she always was just under light level. DD has a ped appt this week & I'll be discussing this whole situation with our ped & what their view is should we have any issues. I'm just so overly anxious about this whole thing. I still can't talk about it without breaking down crying. So much is out of our control. Sorry for the rambling and whatnot.
Re: STM+ with Coombs positive babies please come in