ladies!

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

My bf and i just sexted twice this week. I still wont see him for awhile cause ive got a lot of family obligations going on amlnd hes busy with work. But hey when we finally see each other again we may actually have sex! Im fucking excited.

freeatlast2014 · April 2014

Girl, you better get some for real. I'm starting to feel the pressure FOR you and I hardly know you!!

I'm debating on a FWB situation next weekend. I think it's an option, he lives far away so it wouldn't be a regular thing but it's something. And he's such a nice guy I've known forever (he's just not my usual type). Should I go for it?

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

Yes. Yes you should. Hopefully a couple weeks after easter we can work.something out. Now that is libido is on the upswing again.

And because gifs.

freeatlast2014 · April 2014

Love it

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

I could find a gif for any situation.

jellybean529 · April 2014

@mamaunicorn In the same boat as you but I'm a month ahead of you (Sept 2013). Blah.

Good luck @minnesotamomma91! May the odds be ever in your favor!

AllieAlba · April 2014

@MrsLynnyD FWB are literally the best thing ever, where sex is concerned. So I'd definitely go for it.

And I wish you luck @minnesotamomma91!

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

Thanks for the well wishes ladies, bf and i havent had sex since may 13 because it just stopped feeling good for me in the third trimester then i had the baby, then he hit the busy season at his job, then his libido tanked.

So yeah, my lady parts have cobwebs growing down there

starrdiva211 · April 2014

YOU CAN DO IT!!!! YOU CAN DO IT ALL NIGHT LONG!!! (I know you have a GIF for that)!

It hasnt been that long for me (ex-fiance and I had sex early March and were doing it only once a month...I am working on trying to say that it wasnt my fault but I feel like it was) so I am not really that in need but the last time it was good sex was maybe December????

Thing is there is someone who seems interested in the princess and I am so tempted but so scared. I havent been with another dude in 4 years!!!

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

Its scary to be with another guy but it can be fun. Ive been around the block a few times

freeatlast2014 · April 2014

My biggest thing is feeling uncomfortable with 1. My c section scar 2. My stretch marks 3. My jiggly belly pouch and thighs.
It was ok for me when it was my ex cause I gave him 2 beautiful boys BUT to someone else that doesn't see the beauty in my having had children may not see the beauty in me. I am very insecure about that.

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

I think as women we tend to over yhink the wholr being naked in front of men thing. Ill be the first to admit im very in my own head about my post pardum body but as bf likes to remind me.

Guys dont actually care what you look like when your naked. They are just thanking their lucky stars you are letting the see you naked.

Seriously, we care more about what we look like naked then the men who want to have sex with us do. The media has us to brain washed to believe we should look like giselle bunchen but no one looks like that!

So fuck the media, love yourself. And guys like seing naked girls why?

jesuisfatiguee · April 2014

MamaUnicorn said:

everyone needs to have all the sex.

I haven't had sex since Oct 2013. I tried, but STBXH wasn't putting out. Probably because he was putting it in elsewhere. Fucker.

My vagina may grow over.

It's been since November 2012 for me. I promise your lady bits will stay in tact

Also, www (dot) goodvibes (dot) com. Your sexual health is important, and does not require another party to be involved

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

je+suis=fatiguee said:

MamaUnicorn said:

everyone needs to have all the sex.

I haven't had sex since Oct 2013. I tried, but STBXH wasn't putting out. Probably because he was putting it in elsewhere. Fucker.

My vagina may grow over.

It's been since November 2012 for me. I promise your lady bits will stay in tact

Also, www (dot) goodvibes (dot) com. Your sexual health is important, and does not require another party to be involved

Pure romance is good for solo sexual health as well

freeatlast2014 · April 2014

I really don't so this...never have. Am I the only one?
Although if I can figure out (at 33) how to help myself maybe I can give better direction and end up satisfied most of the time when someone else is involved!

jellybean529 · April 2014

MamaUnicorn said:

I am too fat. I need to lose weight before I get on the horse. (SWIDT?)

I'm with you on this one

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

je+suis=fatiguee said:

MamaUnicorn said:

everyone needs to have all the sex.

I haven't had sex since Oct 2013. I tried, but STBXH wasn't putting out. Probably because he was putting it in elsewhere. Fucker.

My vagina may grow over.

It's been since November 2012 for me. I promise your lady bits will stay in tact

Also, www (dot) goodvibes (dot) com. Your sexual health is important, and does not require another party to be involved

Pure romance is good for solo sexual health as well

MrsLynnyD said:
I really don't so this...never have. Am I the only one?
Although if I can figure out (at 33) how to help myself maybe I can give better direction and end up satisfied most of the time when someone else is involved!

A vibrator and porn yo.

MinnesotaMomma91 · April 2014

MamaUnicorn said:
Funny story, I own 4 vibrators.

I wanted to buy one, so I went on amazon and found two I liked. I ordered both. Well, turns out they were both part of a two-pack, so now I have 4. Two of each kind.

I am saving one for a white elephant gift at some point.

And vibes are great and all, but there's something about actual sex.

I love sex. Bf and i used to have some crazy sex, and i used to mess around with anyone i thought was hot and didnt say no. But my vibrator gets the job done. Im actually super nervous to have sex again. Its been a year since bf and i have had sex and im scared shitless of post pardum sex

But at the same time

freeatlast2014 · April 2014

I used my vibe night before last after reading I was the only one who didn't...and I'm happy to report it worked. So maybe there is hope for me after all.

inthelost · April 2014

MamaUnicorn said:

everyone needs to have all the sex.

I haven't had sex since Oct 2013. I tried, but STBXH wasn't putting out. Probably because he was putting it in elsewhere. Fucker.

My vagina may grow over.

Don't feel bad. I haven't had sex since June 2013....ugh. That's damn near a year!

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