Hi ladies,
I'm a FTM and have had a perfect pregnancy so far...thank goodness. I'm also hoping for a natural birth if possible. Last week, I had a final ultrasound with the "high risk" doc due to my age (39) and she began suggesting induction due to the baby measuring somewhere between 8.5 lbs and 8 lbs. 14oz. She also mentioned "slightly elevated" fluid levels. She ordered a NST this Tuesday, which I went in for, but the baby was pretty quiet through most of it, so the doctor I was seeing who was a different one from last week wanted to do another US to check the fluid levels again. It came back normal - level of 10.1 and she said she didn't know why they would have said it's high and that we had some time, the baby's doing great and all is fine, so no induction needed.
Fast forward to today when I had my usual weekly appointment to check on progress and this new doctor went back to the "we should induce due to the size of the baby" mantra. (I have a group of doctors rather than just one so I'm always seeing new docs with this medical group).
I told her I'd rather not induce just due to the estimated size of the baby and everything I've read, including the recommendations from the ACOG says not to induce just due to the baby's size. She agreed, but didn't give me much assurance that it was the right thing to do.
I'd like to get some input on this from the group here....what would you do in this situation? Any insight is welcomed!
Sorry for no paragraphs.....on an iPad.....................
Update - I'm now at 41W and still no signs of labor. I scheduled the induction for tonight at 7pm, but more as a "placeholder". I've been getting pressure from everyone around me to have the induction from the docs to family. I'm worried about waiting too long, but I also feel like I'm the only one pushing to wait longer. It's hard for me not to constantly think about the fact a few of the docs wanted the baby out 2 weeks ago. WWYD???
Re: Induction at 39+3 due to baby's estimated size of @ 8lbs 14 oz? - Update & help needed!
I've had two babies that have been nearly nine pounds. I've never torn. My last DD was 8 lb. 15 oz. and was born at home. In fact, both of my larger babies have been my easiest and quickest deliveries. My tinier babies have been much more difficult. IME ease of delivery has more to do with positioning and head size than it does overall weight.
Engaged 10/2/1202
BFP (a lil quicker than expected) 12/7/2012
Married to my best friend 12/24/2012
Beautiful baby girl arrived 8/15/2013
BFP #2 3/13/2016
I know this just an anecdotal story but hopefully it can give you confidence and courage to stand your ground. My first was 8lbs 2oz and I had all kinds of tearing. My second I did all the exercises that spinning babies recommends to prepare and try to avoid the issues I had with my first. DS ended up being 10lbs 4.9oz. I pushed him out in 6 minutes with only a small "skid mark" as my MW called it and had a very easy recovery.