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TTC THEN HE CHANGED HIS MIND?!

Me and my fiancé of 8 years have been together and we decided we would start trying to conceive we were trying for a month and then he changed his mind ad firmly said no I'm so confused and heartbroken its the one thing I've always wanted and he's taking it away from me I've asked him so many times why no why do you never want kids now ? He won't even give me an answer I'm seriously considering if I should even marry hi now

Re: TTC THEN HE CHANGED HIS MIND?!

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  • Yeah I was with someone for 7 years, but we started dating at 15. It sounds to me like she is young so it's probably a similar scenario. And one of my friends has been with her H since middle school and they got married at 17 so even 8 years after marriage, for them, would still be young.
    Love 2010 | Marriage 2011 | TTC #1 since 2012
    PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
  • I don't want to make assumptions about your situation but please seriously consider how much YOU want children in your future and whether it is your make-or-break for your relationship. I have a friend who was married and *suddenly* her husband decided he didn't want kids anymore, which they had planned to have. I am pretty sure he just wanted out of the relationship and wasn't man enough to admit it so he knew that was the only thing he could say that she would not be able to get past, and sure enough she decided to end the relationship because of it.
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