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opted out of IUI onto surgery

cymber217cymber217 member
edited April 2014 in Trouble TTC
Today we went for our second IUI I asked them to let me know the numbers before proceeding out of pocket with IUI. The numbers would have been about 250,000 after the wash. So I said no. We went ahead and scheduled my husbands variococele vein surgery for May. The insurance covers the surgery. I was ok with everything until the doctor suggested IVF hes like whats the big deal its only like $10,000. Ugh, Im glad hes not my regular doctor and just the doctor that was there today. Then another thing set me of is my MIL said why not just do IVF then you will stop putting so much stress on your husband. As if Im under no stress and IVF is just easy breezy guarantee. UGH! dreading easter!! 
Husband: MFI Counts 1-11mil, Mot 32%-50% Morph 2-4%
Me: slightly underactive thyroid
Married March 2013 TTC since wedding.. 
Jan 2014 Non medicated IUI-failed 
April 2014 Started Clomid cancelled IUI due to a low sample
May 2014 Variococele repair surgery
(PM me any surgery success stories!)
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Re: opted out of IUI onto surgery

  • emilykbwemilykbw member
    So sorry!
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    3/09 Clomid 50mg - no O
    5/09 Clomid 100 mg - no O
    7/09 HSG partial blockage, SA passed with flying colors
    7/09 Clomid 150 mg - O BFP! DD 4/24/10
    1/13 off BCP
    7/13 Clomid 50 mg - no O
    9/13 Clomid 100 mg - no O
    11/13 Clomid 150 mg - no O
    12/13 diagnosed PCOS
    1/14 IUI #1 Femara 5mg, Pregnyl, IUI BFN
    2/14 SHG, all clear!
    2/14 IUI #2 Femara 7.5mg, Pregnyl, IUI BFN
    3/14 IUI #3 Femara 10 mg, Pregnyl, B2B IUI BFFN (low sperm count)
    4/14 IUI #4 Femara 10 mg, Pregnyl IUI BFN (low sperm count)
    6/14 IUI #5 Femara 10mg, Pregnyl IUI (numbers back to normal!) BFP!!
    Beta #1: 474 Beta #2: 1346

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  • theholmanherdtheholmanherd member
    Aw I'm so sorry :( I'm also sorry that you dealt with such insensitive people. Because obviously $10,000 is a drop in the hat and your H is the only one stressed out by TTC....*eye roll*
    Love 2010 | Marriage 2011 | TTC #1 since 2012
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  • StacyLH24StacyLH24 member
    Sorry that you had to cancel. I hope that the surgery makes a big difference in his numbers. I'm also sorry that you had to deal with some insensitive people. Make sure you are takin care of yourself!

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    We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm.  8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy.  We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET.  I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013. 

    11/14/14 -  Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good. 

    12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2

    12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)

    1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2

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  • Lillovebug79Lillovebug79 member
    I'm sorry you had to cancel your IUI. And your MIL seems like a real peach! Ugh! I'm not sure I could have held myself back from telling her off after that. FX that the surgery works and his numbers improve!



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    Me (35) no known issues DH (37) MFI. TTC 21 months (24 cycles)
    Dx MFI with low to normal count, low motility, morphology 3%
    HSG normal, ultrasound and labs on me all normal. 

    1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and TI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
    1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and IUI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
    Started seeing an RE!!
    2 more cycles of clomid 50mg (great response), with IUI and Pregnyl trigger (4.8-8 mil good ones after wash) = all BFN
    1 cycle of clomid 50mg (3-7) followed by Follistim 75iu (7-11) + IUI = BFN
    December 2013 DH saw urologist and is taking Anastrozole, CoQ10, and L-Carnitine
    IUI #5 natural cycle (needed a med break) = BFN
    IUI #6 Follistim 75iu (CD3-10) + Pregnyl (CD11) + IUI (final count after wash 300K) = BFN
    IUI #7 Follistim 75iu (CD3-9) + Pregnyl (CD11) + IUI on 2/20 (post wash count 12.5 million)= BFN
    IUI cancelled (DH OOT) Clomid 50mg (CD3-7) 1 follicle +(not well timed) TI = BFN
    IUI #8 and last one!! Clomid 100mg (CD3-7) +OPK before US + IUI 4/17 (post wash 8.5 mil)= BFN

    Pre-IVF testing complete! SHG great and measurements taken! Labs for infectious diseases completed, FSH (5.4), TSH (1.6), Prolactin (11), AMH (2.6), Estradiol (40).

    Started BCP 5/29 and Lupron 6/11 prep for IVF #1! Started follistim 225u/day on 6/28. Monitoring on 7/2 >15 follicles measuring 11-14, E2 758. Monitoring on 7/5 all ready to go!! Great follicle sizes and lining is at 9. Tigger 7/5, ER 7/7 16R 9M 3F. Stimmed too fast in just 7 days. 7/10 3dt of 2 8-cell grade 2 & 4. 7/14 P4 >60.
    Holy crap BFP!!!
    Beta #1 (14dpo) 7/21 112 Beta #2 (16dpo) 7/23 286 a Beta #3 (18dpo) 7/25 761 Beta #4 (21dpo) 2631!!! Hold on tight little embies!!      First Ultrasound 8/7- 1 perfect little bean with a beating heart 117bpm!! EDD 3/30.
    Second ultrasound 9/2 Little bean measuring a few days ahead with a heart rate of 161!


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  • cymber217cymber217 member
    Thank you for the support. Im trying to stay hopeful for a success story from the surgery. 
    Husband: MFI Counts 1-11mil, Mot 32%-50% Morph 2-4%
    Me: slightly underactive thyroid
    Married March 2013 TTC since wedding.. 
    Jan 2014 Non medicated IUI-failed 
    April 2014 Started Clomid cancelled IUI due to a low sample
    May 2014 Variococele repair surgery
    (PM me any surgery success stories!)
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  • BunnyBerryBunnyBerry member
    Ugh I'm very sorry, that made me feel like I really hate your MIL even though I don't know her.

    Maybe when the RE's fill in for each other they act like jerks to help each other's patients feel happy with their RE? Otherwise, thank goodness you usually see the normal one!

    I completely agree with PP, your MIL clearly has made a subtle offer to pay for your IVF. I'd take her up on it. :)

    I hope the surgery is just what you need. It's wonderful that this step is covered by insurance, and hopefully it will bring up the numbers to where they need to be!!
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    MFI (low everything) | Endo Stage 1 & Stenotic Cervix (treated) | PCO
    Married - July 2008 | Started TTC - Jan 2009 | RE Visit #1 - Mar 2014 
    IUI #1 ICI #1 - June | IUI #1.1 Laparoscopy - Aug
    IUIs #1.2, 2, 3 - Sept, Oct, Nov (Letrozole) - BFNs 
    IUI #4 - Dec (Bravelle) | IUI #5 - Dec/Jan (Bravelle) - 5 follies + TI - BFNs
    IUI #5.1 - Jan (Bravelle) Cancelled 
    Planning to start IVF in March!
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